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Not my nails, obvs.

Some (beginner-focused) tips for painting your nails:

Lighter colors and solid colors are easier to work with. Pick a good color or few, you don't need to start too fancy.

Don't shake nail polish, that can mess it up. Roll it slowly if you ever need to mix.

Don't just do the coloration and call it a day, put clear nail polish on first, and put it over the color. That will protect your nails.

Consider getting nail polish remover when you get your nail polish, mistakes are easy.

Put your nails down on a flat surface, clean your nails (maybe with that nail polish remover?), and apply the clear base coat (doesn't need to be perfect). Stroke from the base of the nail to the top, until the nail is covered. It might get on your skin, that's normal, anything on your skin can be dealt with at the end. Let it dry, like you would any other kind of base coat.

Now that it's dry, do like what you did with your clear polish for colors. Base to tip, going from the center outwards. If you can still see through after it's covered, wait for it to dry a little, then do another layer.

Then apply your top coat to make smooth, shiny, and somewhat protected painted nails. Wait for it all to dry (very important), which could as long as normal working hours + commute. Don't mess it up. If you do, you might have to restart on some nails.

Now that it's dry the polish on your skin should act sorta like glue, where you can just peel it off, but if it's stubborn you could use a cotton swab with nail polish remover to carefully remove it (don't let it touch your nails!).

Now you should have nice smooth nails.


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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Was watching a friend play blauder's gate 3 and teasing her for fumbling Shadowheart (I've never played this game before) and it did get me thinking how hard I fumble too i-cant the game do be pushing you to relationship with someone and some of them do be coming on too strong. I've had plenty of scammers try to trick me online and like anything sexual or too flirty just sets off alarm bells and I pull away. I get it prob has to do with me being flag-pan-pride though I won't lie I do have some issues I gotta work through.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

voice/trainingWatching youtube and hear this person who's obviously trans and trying- ugh I really need to try. I really, really don't think I'm going to be happy with it. Not with it like it is or even with work. Its such miserable, horrible work and I don't even think it'll give me what I want

also remembering I still don't have hrt.. god wtf... why cant i just do it... i actually need to get it ordered before there become bigger issues with getting it.

spoileridek if its worth listing all the problems but I hate being trans so much, so many terrible aspects, so much suffering. Its obviously inescapable. When I thought it was just depression there was more hope- I will never not be trans, and many/most of my issues with it won't be resolved. More si. More sh urges. More dissociating.


Unrelated but whatever, underage sibling is vaping now I guess. I don't really care but I really don't need this blowing up. I'm the only one in the family who knows and my parents would not be impressed. If it does come out prolly just going to play dumb and say I forgot. Love people putting me in difficult positions like this though. I don't necessarily trust she can keep it under wraps. Not really my problem I guess if no one brings me into it

siI am broken. I'm going to kill myself eventually. I really don't know why I don't right now instead of later. Why am I prolonging my suffering like this. Why do I not go through with the plan.

There really is no solution. I've told myself for a long time I'd rather die then suffer. Why don't I do it. I need to. And I just don't.

[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Split Fiction is so fun. Highly recommended :3

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

Me and a friend played it earlier this year when it came out! Super chill and fun co-op

[โ€“] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Was at a cosplay music thing and someone held my hand while she was saying something about my costume to me. Music loud enough that conversation is pretty much impossible, but still think its the first time someone grabbed my hand to get my attention (and continued to hold it though the brief exchange of words). Is that a common way people interact?

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

In my darkest moments I just remember what Ms Hastune would say if I gave up commiku

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

no-copyright adventure 2 modded is nice but the 60 fps is throwing me off a bit, used to 30 on console so a lot of the jumps off ramps are something I need to relearn. Trying not to break the experience too much with mods since once you start you don't really stop with cheating I find (did do the old emerald radar tho) Story wise though got a mod that shuffles the hero and dark story together to make it all make sense and it's quite nice understanding it better catgirl-peace

[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

much I want to talk about but using words is hard. I'm somewhat interested in trying pogo stick riding but also interested in tying skateboarding and weightlifting more. Idk what to pick

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yakuza 4 "For Faith" has to be my favorite song in the series and all because of a stupid meme I watched titled "Try not to edge to the yakuza 4 (impossible)" yakuza brainrot is so fucking real and the only thing I'd warn new fans interest in diving into the series.

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

THE SEFLISH DEED

IS NOT FREEEEEEEEDOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM...

AND THE LEAVES....

THEY FALL DOWN

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

Um actually it's "The Selfish DICK" it's a refrence to the Selfish Dick 4 the Yakuza 4 fight at the end of the game nerd

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

Been watching a fan project for no-copyright and the secret rings called Project reignition that looks promising. The title goes back to what the game was originally gonna be called "Wild Fire" and is different from Project Wild Fire another fan game recreation. Reignition seems to stick to more the style of secrets rings vs wild fire recreating secret rings but in the engine of P-06 (another sonic fan game this time recreating 06). Many layers of good shit gotta say, honestly just trying to no-copyright post through the pain rn. Damn ankle been hurting recently and it's been almost 4 weeks since I feel and heard a crunch from it.

I think I would be excited for any fan projects for heroes and obvious shadow 05 since it uses the same engine. I know reloaded for shadow 05 exists and 1.2 finally balanced some of the missions for it but my computer can't handle it and I can't get it to run on hardware like I could 1.0. I don't think we'll ever really get any offical remakes of these so looking forward to whatever fan stuff at this point.

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