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Not my nails, obvs.

Some (beginner-focused) tips for painting your nails:

Lighter colors and solid colors are easier to work with. Pick a good color or few, you don't need to start too fancy.

Don't shake nail polish, that can mess it up. Roll it slowly if you ever need to mix.

Don't just do the coloration and call it a day, put clear nail polish on first, and put it over the color. That will protect your nails.

Consider getting nail polish remover when you get your nail polish, mistakes are easy.

Put your nails down on a flat surface, clean your nails (maybe with that nail polish remover?), and apply the clear base coat (doesn't need to be perfect). Stroke from the base of the nail to the top, until the nail is covered. It might get on your skin, that's normal, anything on your skin can be dealt with at the end. Let it dry, like you would any other kind of base coat.

Now that it's dry, do like what you did with your clear polish for colors. Base to tip, going from the center outwards. If you can still see through after it's covered, wait for it to dry a little, then do another layer.

Then apply your top coat to make smooth, shiny, and somewhat protected painted nails. Wait for it all to dry (very important), which could as long as normal working hours + commute. Don't mess it up. If you do, you might have to restart on some nails.

Now that it's dry the polish on your skin should act sorta like glue, where you can just peel it off, but if it's stubborn you could use a cotton swab with nail polish remover to carefully remove it (don't let it touch your nails!).

Now you should have nice smooth nails.


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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago

no-copyright adventure 2 modded is nice but the 60 fps is throwing me off a bit, used to 30 on console so a lot of the jumps off ramps are something I need to relearn. Trying not to break the experience too much with mods since once you start you don't really stop with cheating I find (did do the old emerald radar tho) Story wise though got a mod that shuffles the hero and dark story together to make it all make sense and it's quite nice understanding it better catgirl-peace

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

voice/trainingWatching youtube and hear this person who's obviously trans and trying- ugh I really need to try. I really, really don't think I'm going to be happy with it. Not with it like it is or even with work. Its such miserable, horrible work and I don't even think it'll give me what I want

also remembering I still don't have hrt.. god wtf... why cant i just do it... i actually need to get it ordered before there become bigger issues with getting it.

spoileridek if its worth listing all the problems but I hate being trans so much, so many terrible aspects, so much suffering. Its obviously inescapable. When I thought it was just depression there was more hope- I will never not be trans, and many/most of my issues with it won't be resolved. More si. More sh urges. More dissociating.


Unrelated but whatever, underage sibling is vaping now I guess. I don't really care but I really don't need this blowing up. I'm the only one in the family who knows and my parents would not be impressed. If it does come out prolly just going to play dumb and say I forgot. Love people putting me in difficult positions like this though. I don't necessarily trust she can keep it under wraps. Not really my problem I guess if no one brings me into it

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago

siI am broken. I'm going to kill myself eventually. I really don't know why I don't right now instead of later. Why am I prolonging my suffering like this. Why do I not go through with the plan.

There really is no solution. I've told myself for a long time I'd rather die then suffer. Why don't I do it. I need to. And I just don't.

[โ€“] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Was at a cosplay music thing and someone held my hand while she was saying something about my costume to me. Music loud enough that conversation is pretty much impossible, but still think its the first time someone grabbed my hand to get my attention (and continued to hold it though the brief exchange of words). Is that a common way people interact?

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[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Split Fiction is so fun. Highly recommended :3

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago

Me and a friend played it earlier this year when it came out! Super chill and fun co-op

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

idk how doxxable this is but i got bored and wrote my own disco elysium character sheet for myself IRL and what I think my stats would be

spoilernah, my logic should be a lot higher than that, actually. I'd have at least a 10 in it

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[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

much I want to talk about but using words is hard. I'm somewhat interested in trying pogo stick riding but also interested in tying skateboarding and weightlifting more. Idk what to pick

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago

would anyone like to make the trans mega tomorrow? i know it's late notice but i need someone to fill the spot

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago

In my darkest moments I just remember what Ms Hastune would say if I gave up commiku

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Yakuza 4 "For Faith" has to be my favorite song in the series and all because of a stupid meme I watched titled "Try not to edge to the yakuza 4 (impossible)" yakuza brainrot is so fucking real and the only thing I'd warn new fans interest in diving into the series.

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