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[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[โ€“] other_platypus@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Am I crazy or is allergy season getting longer every year holy crap I want to call in sick and I'm on antihistamines

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

misgenderingGetting misgendered by my friends every time we hang out hurts every time but I don't wnat to ask them to change, I know it'll be super awkward and I don't want to push them away.
spoiler negativity This whole thing sucks and I hate it but I'm trying not to make another I hate being trans post. Its a constant source of pain and alienation and I don't really have hope that will change.

I think about how happy so many people were as I was figuring myself out, this must be such a disappointment. :::

[โ€“] Arahnya@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

Today I gave the birds some fresh corn. The pigeons were skeptical and afraid. The sparrows loved the corn, taking single kernels and flying off with them.

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

damn, maybe my complexion is more summer than autumnal. I'm rocking these warm, bright colors today

butching the fuck out tn. my solovair leather boots arrived, drank some beers and put together an ikea shelving unit for my gfs with my drill. affirming as shit

[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Decided to draw Kris Deltarune instead of doomscrolling tonight. I do not really understand shading still

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[โ€“] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

::: spoiler beanposting i finally was able to get myself to try falafel and it was as delicious as i imagined chickpeachickpeachickpea took me 10 years of wanting to but i did it!

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[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (4 children)

end of June thoughtsSomehow I'm never in town for the queer meetups. If I didn't know any better I'd assume they're scheduling things when I can't go, but it's just a really annoying coincidence every time.

Gonna try again to find an in-person therapist. One place just has an intake form on their website, and it feels sketchy to fill it out and input all my info without like, talking to someone I guess?

I can also go through my university I'm pretty sure. It's annoying because obviously there are resources, but they're just elusive somehow? And there are queer people around but like, I just don't see all that many events that appeal to me?

Other people appear to be meet up with people they already know. I don't know a single other queer person on campus. I don't see an obvious opportunity to meet people.

I also know that I'm fucking weird in that I'd be way more likely to go to more things if I had one person. I need to be made to socialize, frankly.

I'm using Tinder again because I don't know where or how people meet around here. I want a relationship, but I also have zero friends, and I don't know what I want or who I want to be when I'm in a relationship.

You'd think the more you post the more others would engage, but there's probably something there that I'm missing too.

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[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

is a vial still safe to use if it has a noticeably big hole like this

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[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Can one be too skinny for injections?

[โ€“] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

My gf is very skinny, and she has no problems with injections. It also gets easier as fat redistribution happens.

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

ride or die? guess I'll die then ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

[โ€“] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

hot? yeah i guess it was a little toasty overnight now i've had to crack out my second blanket, its the middle of winter! This is southern hemisphere erasure!

im doing okay, someone in the vague 'activist scene' in my city is kinda making my life hell atm, theyre not well, but neither am i. So i'm fading out of existence. For how much people all talk about 'community', i'm yet to have many people check in with me.

Theyre going to be living in a worldwithoutlawyers.jpg now i'm gone. no one else is going to tell them to reexamine their preconceptions, theres going to be unexamined racist shit going down, i tell you what.

i kept being told 'well remember what you were like when you were young!', and i kept thinking, yeah damn, they should all be doing drugs instead of crowing themselves godking of the 'movement'.

this has all really destroyed my confidence i'm actually too anxious to even check replies here atm, for a while i couldnt even comment because i felt like everyone was so mad at me lol.

The 'scene' is good for them, but has been a disaster for my mental health. so i'm dropping everything so i can rekindle my energy and re engage myself with my union organising.

i dunno this feels like too much, maybe im too much. I'm getting echoes of an ex telling me 'i'm not availible to do emotional labour for you'. haha hehe hoho yes

if people are treating you like shit, you should leave, its not easy, but its for the best

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (4 children)

did you ever paint your nails? i like painted nails but I'm also extremely lazy and low rizz so am low key vicariousin thru ya

@mendiCAN@hexbear.net I've negative rizz but also yes I did @bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net also forgot to show off last week was busy with my epa thing (got my universal). I originally picked this because it said gel like shine and it was black with sparkles but the sparkle ain't there it's just black which looks cool but I was promised sparkles saul-stare

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[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! That is all.

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screm-aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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