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I want to watch a movie that will make me cry.

(Because I need those endorphins to help me with depression. I feel better after a good session of crying. Sorry if this is weird...)

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[–] redwattlebird@lemmings.world 2 points 7 hours ago

What about Dead Poets Society? I haven't seen it in decades but it made me cry a lot.

[–] kossa@feddit.org 1 points 6 hours ago

Requiem for a Dream

[–] button_masher@lemmy.ml 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Your list is getting quite long but here's another less week known movie:

Nine Days (by Edson Oda)

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Looks like you've got a long list already, but the last movie that made me lump in my throat cry was Awakenings with Robin Williams and Robert deNiro

[–] InsomniacKS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Came here to say the same thing.

Also, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind was better than it had a right to be.

[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

Its not really a movie with a lot of depth but "Hachi: A Dog's Tale" wrecked me.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

The Fountain Grave of the Fireflies

[–] Denjin@lemmings.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Came here to suggests these two choices!

[–] crystalmerchant@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

Women Talking

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago
[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 14 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I can't believe nobody has said Coco. I dare anyone to get through the end without at least a tear or two.

[–] CoolThingAboutMe@aussie.zone 3 points 2 hours ago

Oh I'm so glad someone said Coco! Oh gosh, the final scenes and the final song always gets me

[–] amelia@feddit.org 3 points 16 hours ago

Many good movies have been mentioned already (especially Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind, Big Fish, Manchester by the sea and The Fountain).

I would like to add:

  • Finding Neverland
  • Captain Fantastic

And if you want to absolutely destroy yourself: Prayers for Bobby.

[–] LogicalDrivel@sopuli.xyz 13 points 1 day ago

First movie that popped into my head was What Dreams May Come. Robin Williams goes through heaven and hell to try and save his wife's soul. Great flick with some amazing visuals (especially for the time).

[–] havocpants@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

Who Will love My Children? 1983

Mask 1985

I defy anyone to get to the end of either movie without being a total mess.

[–] DecentM@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

No matter how many times I watch Flow, it never fails to make me cry by the end.

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

I was going to say this one, I was crying all throughout the screening 'cause the themes I picked up fom the beginning of the movie moved me deeply and resonated on a personal level. It's also visually astonishing, that alone would have made me cry. A fantastic experience.

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago
[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

Forrest Gump.

[–] aether@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

haven't watched a lot of shows that aren't anime so here are my recs:

  1. Your name (movie, its really really good)
  2. A silent voice (movie, same as your name)
  3. Your lie in april (tv series, apparently really good at making you cry but haven't watched it)
  4. Anohana: The flower we saw that day (tv series, same as your lie in april)

your name and a silent voice have really good animation btw

i almost cried during weathering with you which is a movie in the same universe as your name but it isn't as emotional as your name ig

[–] slippyferret@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 16 hours ago

Thank you for introducing me to Your Name. I just finished watching it. Absolutely wonderful film.

[–] CyanideShotInjection@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Can confirm Your Lie In April made me cry like a baby. But I would say anime wise Violet Evergarden was even more cathartic. I ugly cried more than once watching it.

[–] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Violet Evergarden is an incredible show about grief. But wow, is the movie sketchy as all hell.

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

spoilerViolet starts a romantic relationship with, and is implied to eventually marry, Gilbert, her former commanding officer in the military who was also her father figure, Violet having been a war orphan that Gilbert took in when she was 10. Violet was a child soldier from the ages of 10 to 14, at which time the war ended. Gilbert had faked his death at the end of the war because he had developed romantic feelings for Violet. Gilbert is 11 years older than her. By the time of the movie, Violet is 18 and Gilbert is 29, but he was in love with her when he was 25 and she was 14, and probably before that. This is portrayed as a romantic and happy ending.

It also goes against the show's themes and messages about grief and moving on, but the above thing tends to overshadow that.

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Last movie that made me cry was The Whale. I saw it in a theatre and rarely I had to refrain myself from crying in public this bad. Once I got home though I just bawled my eyes out.

[–] steal_your_face@lemmy.ml 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] CoolThingAboutMe@aussie.zone 1 points 2 hours ago

This is my recommendation too. I just watched again recently, and my dad is on his way out and I just bawled. Such a great movie.

[–] vala@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

When the Wind Blows

In this hand-drawn animated tale, elderly married couple Hilda (Peggy Ashcroft) and Jim Bloggs (John Mills) have their quiet, simple lives in the English countryside interrupted when they learn of an impending nuclear attack. Not completely understanding the gravity of their situation, Hilda and Jim react archaically and insufficiently after the attack -- and the film takes a dark turn as the radiation begins taking its toll on the unsuspecting couple.

[–] obsoleteacct@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

I didn't make it through that movie, though it's very well done.

It wasn't so much a tear jerker for me. It just left me feeling sick to my stomach.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The Wild Robot is well worth a watch. It looks like a kids movie, but I think the themes work just as well if not better for adults.

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

Yeah I legit choked up at the scene where the little bird leave with the rest and the robot is watching, and I don't even have kids

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[–] PodPerson@lemmy.zip 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Stillwater@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

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[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Everything Everywhere All At Once

This has me all the way from to tears of sadness to tears of joy and really made me feel for the main character. It seems too whimsical to take seriously at first, but if you let it wash over you it rewards you. it can be an incredibly powerful movie and I loved the message.

Also, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. It’s a really sad breakup movie. Lots of emotion. Some of Jim Carry’s best acting.

[–] Bosht@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

EEAAO is truly a masterpiece and I do not say that shit lightly. For all it's multiverse goofiness there really is a solid layer depicting the struggle of women, mother, and girls becoming women. There's also cultural bits obviously as well, and marriage. My god the dad breaks my heart every time. Just good from beginning to end.

[–] quetzaldilla@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The dad is just such a good person.

The googly eyes, the silliness, he just wanted to make his family smile.

[–] logos@sh.itjust.works 5 points 12 hours ago

It's how he fights!

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[–] Ludrol@szmer.info 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Grave of fireflies - film that you watch only once as it's too sad to watch the second time.

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

Yeah this will wreck you, and knowing that the movie is a autobiographical story of its creators own experience during the war and what happened to his sister just makes it worse

[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 4 points 23 hours ago

What's going to hit will be a bit dependent on where your soft spots are.

Kids: Grave of the Fireflies or Bridge to Teribithea or My Girl or The Cure

Romantic love: The Fountain

Existential trauma: Psycho-Pass (series) or A.I.

Dogs: Marley & Me or Hachi

Loss: Up

Also:

River

[–] pwnicholson@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

"The Secret Life of Walter Mitty" (2013 version) is beautiful and thoughtful. Completely unlike any other Ben Stiller movie that I know of.

"The Fountain" (2006) might qualify too, though it's a lot heavier.

"Amélie" (2001)

"Hector and the Search for Happiness" (2014) is decent too, though I'm a Simon Pegg fan so it gets extra points for that

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[–] jimmux@programming.dev 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Two movies that usually appear on lists like this, but I don't see them: The Fountain, and The Fall.

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