Talking about serious emotional issues or relationship problems with other men is pretty much uniformly crap. Most men are conditioned to not open up, or prefer immature viewpoints about all of that - or are just immature and crude and actually think various stupid and abusive things about women. Unfortunately some women actually prefer that.

Yeah, I hate how girls will be disgusted when it's somehow suggested you'd want to have sex with them, while at the same time, I don't feel like I'm even supposed to have an opinion.

It's like, I'm a man, not in a relationship, not gay and not good at pretending I've never heard of sexuality, so if I don't want to have sex with a girl, that must mean I find her extremely ugly.

It’s cool my man, just find a partner with a similar sex drive or be open to atypical relationships. My wife has a fairly low sex drive, and mine’s not crazy but the disparity can be rough.

There’s almost certainly groups of people who feel like you do online, so if you want to, I’m sure you can find a place that feels super accepting.

But yeah, toxic masculinity/patriarchy is a bitch.

Stereotypes often tend to have some truth to them, that's why they became Stereotypes.

The trick is to never to assign a stereotype to an individual automatically.

It is still a stereotype that "boys only want sex". Those studies suggest a higher sexual drive on average, not that it applies for all boys, and certainly not that it's the only thing boys want.

Our whole culture is about conditioning men and women to get this result though.

Purely speaking from my anecdotal experiences, I have far more instances of getting aroused than my partners, but their sexual preferences are WAY more extreme. Most of the girls I've been with have wanted extremely rough sex, which I'm not even remotely into. They're also way way more voyeuristic than I ever will be, often wanting to share sexy photos online for the entire world to enjoy or showing interest in making online porn. So yeah, I want to bang more often, but they definitely are far more deviant than I am.

You only need to inject testosterone once to understand why this is the case.

It's important to note that our sexuality is socially constructed, our desires are not solely based on biology but culture.

"In the Christian medieval world, some theories held that women received far more pleasure from a sexual encounter than men, and had much greater sexual appetite." https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Medieval_female_sexuality

I wonder if these findings have been supported by female lead research.

i lol'd out loud

Just wanted to add that you can find the second-order alpha male energy correction by calculating ∑_{m≠n}(|<ψ_n^(0)|V|ψ_m^(0)>|^2)/(E_n^(0) - E_m^(0)) if anyone was wondering

I wanna stereotype my balls in your mouth doesn't quite have the same ring to it...

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If you are both sexual people, I should hope you are both looking forward to it when you are both ready.

As in if you're in a relationship with a man, will he be looking forward to having sex?

In the vast majority of cases the answer is yes, in a minority of cases the answer is that the person is asexual or simply insecure about their sexuality.

That's a discussion you need to have with your partner if you're questioning yourself.