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[–] tal@lemmy.today 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh, hon. It's too cold for that.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

California. It's about 70°F (21°C) outdoors.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

It's hot in LA, from what I hear.

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 2 points 3 weeks ago

I'm barefoot.

Ditto - it's 18°C here. That weird gap that I'm still shirtless, barefoot, but my cat is already looking for her blanket.

[–] robolemmy@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Im in Winnie the Pooh mode right now… just a shirt.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] robolemmy@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

Trust me, my friend nobody wants that

[–] supermurs@kbin.earth 6 points 3 weeks ago

I'm wearing house slippers. The floors are cold so plain socks are not comfortable enough for me.

[–] GreyShuck@feddit.uk 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] GreyShuck@feddit.uk 6 points 3 weeks ago

No - I have worn moccasins around the house, at least in the winter, since I was a kid and make-them-yourself kits were in fashion back in the '70s. No idea how many pairs I have had since then.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

None! I'm barefoot in pajamas right now!

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I hope you are in a warm climate.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

I'm calling the cops

[–] BertramDitore@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I wear Sanuk Cozy Mats around the house. They’ve got that awesome heel that folds down so you can slip into them and wear them like slippers or pop them up and wear them like shoes. Probably the most comfortable footwear I’ve ever owned. Bought two pairs just in case they stop making them.

[–] Lennnny@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sanuks are SO COMFY! I've definitely gone to the store, looked down, and realized I'm still wearing my slippers. I get through a pair o dice each summer.

[–] BertramDitore@lemm.ee 1 points 2 weeks ago

They really are, I’ve totally worn mine outside by accident more than once! I had an old pair of suede slippers of theirs for more than a decade before they finally wore out. The stitching and materials are top-notch, it’s clear they care about quality.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Currently not wearing any with my feet on my living room table.

..but normally I wear these. I picked them up on the company tab (cow not included) for use at work a coupleofyears ago, but they turned out to be so damn comfortable and high quality that I use them for everything.

Protective composite toe that don't set off airport metal detectors, and they're ESD safe.

[–] zaphodb2002@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Converse All Star Hi Tops, red.

[–] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

Loved mine, but hated that they broke after 2 years of daily use

[–] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago
[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Hiking shoes

Went on a hike today, didn't get home between then and work. Now on the way home from work and looking forward to taking them off!

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

They are! Great for walking. For sitting around, I prefer something more loose though. I wouldn't normally wear them to work (even though that's more standing and only some sitting).

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

An old pair of Adidas slides that I inherited when my youngest stepson left them with us when he moved to live with his dad. They’re really work down and I need to replace them soon.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

That's a story right there

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Crocs and socks.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I think my mother would teleport go my home if she thought I was wearing shoes in bed.

They might protect my toes from a kitten though. Maybe I'll just start wearing very thick socks!

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 weeks ago

Wool shearling slippers

[–] Today@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

My favorites! Frye fuzzy-inside boots on a snow day!

[–] higgsboson@dubvee.org 3 points 3 weeks ago

House shoes. Been out in the slush and salt a lot, so I can't just wear my boots like i prefer.

[–] wyrmroot@programming.dev 3 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

A pair of Lems Chillum shoes. They have a wide toe box and zero drop but still look and act like a real shoe compared to something more “barefoot”. My current daily driver.

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[–] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Manitobah Mucklucks, makawa boot

Amazing. I'm getting more.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Malakalikimaka is the thing to say

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 2 points 3 weeks ago

On a bright Hawaiian Christmas day

[–] Jourei@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

Some icebug brand I think. They're fantastic for wintery conditions.

[–] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

A pair of black BeLenka minimalist boots with wool lining. They’re very flexible and comfy but still keep my feet warm.

[–] buzz86us@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm wearing Converse lugged.. I like these shoes for the $20 I paid. They are very versatile, I use them kinda as boots. I hope they are on sale next year as I plan to buy 2 more pairs.

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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

On my right foot I have the left shoe of a pair of Nike SB Dunk Low (Freddy Krueger edition) sneakers.

On my left foot I have the left one of a pair of Red Christian Louboutin Boots.

On my other foot I have the right one of a pair of counterfeit Ugg boots bought off Vinted for £4.99

I feel special.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Wait a minute

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Jet black sneakers. I'm not goth or emo but was feeling all black today (light black tanktop, black plaid shirt which is around my waist, black jeans, and black sneakers, with only a white temple garment bra/panties) because I had to help someone test some cinema technology in a dark environment.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

light black tanktop

Odd way to say grey

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

It's like a burnt or charcoal grey, so just dark enough to wonder if it's considered black yet.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Whatever these are that I got from Walmart for $5:

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

What are thoooooooooose?!?

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