Droggelbecher

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[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Ah fair! I wasn't super clear, I was more talking about my comment than the original post.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

It's more nuanced. It's 'this is a social construct, therefore I can just decide whether I want to accept it, and I dont'

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

With the added /s it still reads like you're using an example to explain why things shouldn't be rejected based on them being social constructs. The edit just reads like you're smug about it. If that's not what you're saying, can you explain what you mean?

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago

Makes sense that if your political views include that whether you deserve to stay alive is tied to how much value you create for shareholders, you spend less time nurturing your creativity.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Austrian rail wanted a higher speed line through most of the country. Iirc the plan was to extend it to Zürich-Budapest eventually. Only problem was a few dozen km of the line goes through Germany and they didn't want the higher speed tracks installed. Like, Austrian rail was going to pay for them. They just didn't want noise. It's unfortunately a big enough portion of the line that it made it not worthwhile.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 12 points 4 hours ago (5 children)

Not accepting every social construct isn't the same as rejecting every social construct.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Weird is such a nondescript word anyway. Stopped using it to describe myself years ago. Like, OP, do you mean you have niche interests? Uncommon kinks? Introverted? I assure you, there's potential partners for any of those that would like you more for that, not less.

I'm also chronically ill, and it doesn't make me undatable or a burden on my partner. I'm lovable and I'm enough, and so are you.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Valid to not care!

I have fun with my nails, I don't see them as expected/socially required maintenance. In my field it's actually seen as less professional to have long nails, especially in noticable polish. I get excited when I get to work from home for a week because that means I can go crazy with nails and makeup.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 1 points 23 hours ago

I read the first line and was like, yeah, same here, that seems way too long. We do about 5, mid-late November to 26/12/, then the decorations kinda stay but the celebrations and music stop. Then I read the rest. I'm so sorry.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

China praise is so puzzling. Chinese people aren't locked in the way north Koreans are. They can, and do, leave the country. And then, they can tell you about china. Have they met someone who grew up in china irl? I have, and it's made me all the more lib-dem socialist.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Microwaving some soy milk and stirring in some powder isn't exactly 'make'

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

Not at all. The genocide isn't new, it's built into the very fabric of modern Israel. https://www.theguardian.com/books/2001/may/31/londonreviewofbooks

 

Hey fellow enbies!

Does anyone here have experience with binders? Specifically, do they permanently alter the shape of your chest? I like my naked body and view is as gender neutral, but I'd like to be READ as more neutral while wearing clothes sometimes. So I want to bind in a way that won't alter how my naked body looks. What's your experience with that?

Thanks!

 

I used to be super lazy and not take anything. Just lived with the tight feeling of my face after washing it with shower soap. The only cosmetics I'd take were always deodorant, tooth paste, tooth brush, shower soap. Hair was washed with the shower soap, too.

These days I take proper face wash, my moisturiser, sun screen (I've never gotten a sun burn, so I used to not be diligent about this), floss, and, if it's more than like 3-4 days, shampoo.

If it's for a fancy event like a wedding, I'll bring conditioner and the small number of makeup products I'm going to wear (eyeliner and/or lipstick. I don't do base and have black lashes and eyebrows).

The only cosmetics i usually use that I'm not bringing: (sometimes) conditioner, retinol serum, BHA peel, the clay I use for clay masks and cuticle oil. I use hand cream, but only when I teach, because the chalk dries my out like nobody's business. So I keep the cream at work. I do keep the cuticle oil, retinol and bha at my partner's place because I sometimes stay there for two weeks or longer, remote working.

I think it'll be a different story when I go backpacking!

How about you? What do you bring? What things that you usually use do you not bring?

ETA: actually going away for four days right now, somehow I packed my cuticle oil but forgot my floss! I guess I'm not consistent haha.

 

Hi there! I've tried researching this myself, but found myself overwhelmed because I'm simply not knowledgable enough.

I've got a 20 year old 50cc vespa. I got this idea in my head that I should convert it to electric, since getting a new vehicle has such a huge environmental impact. The battery is on its last legs, and I'm not so sure about the engine either, and I was thinking I'd convert instead of replacing the existing parts. I'd like to keep it at a similar power bc that way, people who don't have a motorcycle license could legally drive it, too. (If they have a car license.)

Has anyone done anything like this or has some other pointers?

TIA!

 

A red button. Image says: 'Would you press the button?' [results of pressing the button:] there exists a pill that makes your disability a LOT less debilitating BUT it's near-impossible to get because the non-disabled enjoy taking the pill for fun and the government doesn't want them to.

 

I hope this is how cross posts work

 

I know, not all omnis. But this is based on personal experience.

 

Two part meme. Part one is a crying young person who looks like they're desperate to get someone to understand something. Caption: 'Me explaining why I can walk fast and run but can't stand or walk slowly well'. Part two is a super annoyed looking, slightly older person. Caption: 'people still assuming I'm lying out of laziness'.

 

I'm aware that I, the consumer, won't change the world and that we need structural change.

Still, I've been wondering. I've come to learn that plastic recycling is largely a myth/scam, but what about glass and metal recycling? Also, what happens to the plastic coating on metal during recycling?

TIA

 

I regret nothing. Say what you want.

Edit: I just saw the two typos. If you find them, you're welcome to keep them.

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Edit: I love this community so much, thank you all for trying to help!

 

For real. When I can get my skin to clear up, people guess my age accurately. When I have a breakout, I get carded for beer, which is 16+. I'm 27.

Looking young isn't the be all, end all imo. I prefer to look my age. As I get wiser and more experienced and know myself better, I develop white hairs and fine lines and I wouldn't have it any other way.

 

I'm using DDG or searx for all my casual searching, but haven't been able to find a good search engine for scholarly articles specifically. Scrolling through pages upon pages of forum posts and educational stuff for teens/kids is unfortunately too time consuming when I'm specifically looking for research papers. I'd also need to be filtering by year of publication since I need to know what's currently going on in my field, not what was going on 30 years ago.

TIA!

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