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submitted 1 week ago by Pyrin@kbin.melroy.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

White guys saying the N word and being gangsta. There is nothing ever cool about a white guy pretending to be ghetto. Yes I'll include Eminem and I don't care if he's been given the pass.

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[-] 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago
[-] ultranaut@lemmy.world 59 points 1 week ago

American truck culture. It feels like parody or satire, except it's real.

[-] InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

And then they complain about the cost of fuel.

[-] Pyrin@kbin.melroy.org 7 points 1 week ago

And the cost of like everything else with the truck from payments to repairs.

[-] zelifcam@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

These people are some of the most sensitive, selfish, proudly ignorant snowflakes I’ve ever met.

Not to mention the trend of larger cars in general as a daily driver is insane and completely unnecessary.

[-] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 1 week ago

I agree on the n word part, but do you expect white guys raised in/by disadvantaged black communities to pretend to be a person they're not just because of the color of their skin?

[-] zelifcam@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

OP must be joking. Living one of the largest cities in the US/World for two decades, skin color has nothing to do with being “gansta”.

[-] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago

A good cringe-inducing thing is gatekeepers. Of music genre, fanbases, video games, any niche really. Saying there is a set criteria for being a fan of something, or being a 'practitioner' of a skill or activity. They act like something is a club or a cult and give it a generalization.

I wear my dad's classic rock icon band tees: name three songs, they demand. I could probably give you a line from one. No I don't listen to them on a regular basis. I have listened to at least three songs but not enough to recite their names. If someone donated or gifts you their old shirts from concerts--you wear them out of respect.

[-] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Oh you claim to be a fan of the fediverse?

Name Every Instance. (or else you arent part of our Lemming club)

/s

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[-] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Tik Tok brainrot

Like there are so many cool science videos or even gameplay content on youtube, so many movies and TV to watch on sites like netflix or any of the various media platforms, why are kids watching stupid dances and stupid "viral challenges"

[-] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago

tbh my grandma considered movies and TV brainrot and my parents don't understand why people watch someone playing a video game on Youtube rather than playing. I think there are legitimate criticisms of Tik Tok and other social media, but this just reads as that simpsons quote:

I used to be with ‘it’, but then they changed what ‘it’ was. Now what I’m with isn’t ‘it’ anymore and what’s ‘it’ seems weird and scary. It’ll happen to you!

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[-] Mesa@programming.dev 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Why are you conflating "ghetto", "gangsta," and black? 95% of it is about where and how you grew up.

There's plenty of white guys who, although will never experience and understand what it's like to live in America while black, understand the struggle of growing up in the ghettos, being socioeconomically alienated, and being pressured to look to the "gangsta" lifestyle.

These three can often overlap, but are importantly separate things. A white guy in that situation won't know what it means to be black like I do, but I will never have a fraction of their knowledge and experience of what it means to grow up to the streets.

[-] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

White guys saying the N word and being gangsta. There is nothing ever cool about a white guy pretending to be ghetto. Yes I'll include Eminem and I don't care if he's been given the pass.

He grew up in the ghetto around that culture. He wasn't pretending. I didn't know he used the n word in any songs. He may have used it in conversation idk.

Repeating song lyrics don't count bc usually you are alone anyway. It's a 'tree falls in the woods and no one there to hear it' situation.

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[-] mub@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 week ago

Large office buildings have been cringe to me for a few years. And wearing suits to the office, which just look like personalised school uniforms to me.

[-] lepinkainen@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

If I’m forced to wear an uniform to work, the employer should provide me with one.

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[-] fool@programming.dev 14 points 1 week ago

People who call others cringe can be pretty cringe. Also people who generalize -- e.g. via "all people who call others cringe are cringe" -- is a cringe. Also people who stay noncommittal, avoiding vulnerability under layers of irony, can be pretty cringe too.

[-] stembolts@programming.dev 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I agree with some of these things.

[-] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago

The sound of people chewing. It induces such a visceral cringe but I can't even explain why it bothers me so much. I just find the sound disgusting for some reason.

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[-] Allonzee@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The concept of faith.

Not just for God.

The idea of glorifying believing something without evidence.

If you believe in someone based on prior actions, that isn't faith.

If you put your faith in someone you don't know, fucking cringe.

"Imma turn my brain off" shouldn't be inspirational.

Nothing makes me cringe quite as hard as just have faith.

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 week ago

Adults doing TikTok dances. It's cringe enough when kids do it but there's something about a fully grown adult chasing internet fame that's just gives me second-hand embarrassment.

[-] Dirk@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 week ago

YouTube videos having intros and "introductions" before the video starts.

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[-] wildcardology@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Mine is "sorry about the quality of the video today because my camera broke and I'm using my iphone to record the video".

Dude you're talking about TikTok drama, nobody cares if they can count the hairs sticking out of your nose on 4K.

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[-] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 8 points 1 week ago

Ruling class/race making music about struggle.

Corporate speeches.

[-] Intergalactic@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Some of us grew up in ghetto circumstances. I have never said the N word, but at one point, I was up to no good.

[-] folaht@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

Did you start makin' trouble in your neighborhood?

[-] Intergalactic@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

One might say my mom got scared.

[-] jimmydoreisalefty@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Apologetics and celebrity worshippers: people that defend politicians instead of being critical and forcing them to bend to the will of the working class.

[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 1 week ago

Entitled customers make me cringe hard, especially when its someone I am with.

[-] whotookkarl@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Trustfunders and nepo babies who make no effort to try understand the working class and instead act like they are special or better than other people with different priorities and struggles due to circumstance.

Mistaking kindness for weakness.

Fashion policing, especially from religious clergy or judges.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 5 points 1 week ago

OP putting their answer in the body instead of as the first comment.

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[-] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 5 points 1 week ago

Evopsych type dudes.

They made up a whole pseudoscience to "explain" their inability to form meaningful bonds with other humans. And in the process broadcast to everyone they are on the spectrum but refuse to accept it.

Like my dude, I too have trouble intuiting the rules of proper social interaction and wonder where the manual everyone but me got is. But it's not because of some made up bullshit about the pleistocene. It's because I'm autistic, and it's high time you got your ass checked.

Referring to someone as queer. When I grew up that was a major insult. You just didn't use that word, like the n word. You used others like homosexual and such. But now it is mainstream and ok to use in the right way. But it still feels offensive in my head.

[-] Hugin@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

There was a deliberate movement to reclaim that word. Similar to black people using the N word. It also rhymes with here. "We're here. We're queer. Get used to it" was a big rallying cry in the 90s.

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[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

The concept of taking fictionkin seriously

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[-] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 4 points 1 week ago

People trying to be attention-seeking in public. I used to see this a lot driving down Melrose in Hollywood a lot, and I’d have to look away because it was so disgusting.

[-] digdilem@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

Adults saying "poop"

Am British where it's what kids call it. For adults it's poo or shit.

[-] tills13@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I change my answer -- being British will always be cringe to me.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

You've been sold a lie. There's no "Bri'ish" or "Caw blimey guvna". These are people from the UK who go abroad, suddenly get way more attention for their (slight) accent than they ever did back at home, and play to the popularity by Flanderizing themselves to appeal more to their foreign audience.

Any english/irish/scottish accent you hear on a mainstream TV show is not representative of the general population. Example: the BBC news accent is about as representative of the UK population as the 1950s MidWestern Radio accent was representative of the US population. It's a caricature that everyone but a foreign audience just mentally tunes out

[-] ieatpwns@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Bootlicking of the 1%

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