Self-sabotage. Procrastination. Rotting in bed.
this post was submitted on 11 Nov 2024
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The best thing to do for procrastination is find youtube videos about procrastination and add them to your watch later list
My Watch Later playlist is full :|
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mmm ill have one of those, to go.
The way the world is going right now? …survival.
Lifting weights, shooting, weighing less.
Making burritos. I've taken to adding in a bit of salsa and sour cream, and then finishing it in the oven with a layer of cheese on top and drizzling some hot sauce afterwards. I'm currently figuring out side dishes to go alongside them, and then i'll move onto the next dish that catches my attention.
Legal writing & holding local public officials accountable fo bad actions.
Making it to the end of the year will be a feat in itself
Protecting my privacy. I am gender nonconforming and on HRT. So with the current political atmosphere and the fact that it has enabled and encouraged hate speech and attacks, I'll new to be more careful on platforms that my identity is more prevalent.
I'm not going to hide, as I'm not hiding by posting here. But I'm going to remove my data from corporate platforms that have connections to law enforcement and have poor security that insist on keeping my personal details. Can't trust the federal government or any company, starting next year if the Project 2025 or Trump's plan are truly put in place.
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I started learning how to make karaoke videos. Because the songs I like to sing are not readily available in karaoke format on YouTube.
I made a channel for it and everything 😉 I'm getting ready to publish my 2nd video very soon.
My goal is to try to do 1 song per month at a minimum. But, I do also have a day job and life stuff to juggle. So the YouTube channel is just a hobby.
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lowering my expectations
hopefully, pretending to be straight or asexual; and being able to be happy without friends, as these will be needed survival skills
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I switched to arch on my main PC, so probably better at managing Linux. Ramping up my road biking workouts, so I'll probably be faster (I normally do a 500mi riding event from Christmas eve to new years and hoping to crush that this year).
Basic music theory and guitar playing.
Also, learning how to use an Altair 8800 clone
Running, hopefully.
Exobiology in Elite: Dangerous. Just started last night and is already making some progress.
Me
Deno2 and typescript. For no particular reason the release of Deno2 has prompted me to build a web app in my spare time. I mostly a sysadmin, I haven't written anything but APIs and utility scripts for at least 5 years.
Singing
I love to sing, how does one get better at singing?
Depends on the skill level that you are starting on. If your are starting more or less new then I cannot overstate how useful a teacher can be in getting things right from the get go.
Generally speaking you want to start out with training basics like correct breathing and how to create a tone correctly. I'm the end singing is a very physical thing. You learn to use the muscles in your mouth and throat properly.
Also things like hitting the right pitch and rhythm are a thing. Depends if you have a musical background otherwise.
And very important: If something hurts die out after singing, you're not using the right technique. It will occur that your do things wrong while practising but listen to your body and don't overdo it.
I can warmly recommend Catherine Sadolin's Complete Vocal Technique. It is a fantastic book especially if you don't want to / can't get a private teacher.
I hope this was somewhat helpful to you, cheers!
Swimming, I used to swim in high school but I've been out of practice for a couple decades, I got back in the pool a couple of weeks ago and struggled to swim 500 yards which is something I used to do in 6 minutes so I've been going a few times a week and pushed myself to 600 yards the last few sessions, anyway I want to try for 1000 yards by the end of the year.
gunsmithing and 3d printing (just check my post history)
Me too! I have a pile of broken or malfunctioning guns and I want to figure out each problem. Had dropped out of gunsmithing for the past year or two, want back in.
Crying
Oh no is it that time of that year already?!
Maybe I should do the things I'm planning to do all year.
Reading japanese, living life. Hopefuly I want to be better at overcoming my trauma but that outcome is kinda independed of my actions towards that.
Flute! I started learning it last December, it's been nearly a year and I've learned SO much. Going to keep at it and get even better!
Traditional wetshaving
Safety razor is the way to go! Take it slow and let the weight of the safety razor do the work. It's so much cheaper than the multi blade razors too!
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Software development. I'm still not very good, but I'm better than I was at the start of the year.
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Reading academic literature hopefully. This shit is such a drag
Hopefully my hobbies and mental health. Hopefully...
I kinda hate doing my hobbies as they were "talented" ones and just about everyone in my life was toxic competitive about it. I was seen as "good" and everyone competed with me. But then they see I'm not good and still hate me for being "better" despite being not good. So improving and unfortunately actually becoming good is just triggering now.
I want to get better at deeply understanding people, which probably starts with getting better at listening
- Programming
- Cooking
- Sticking to a diet
- Managing finances
- Driving
- Cultural knowledge stuff
- Socializing
- Cleaning
- Lifting weights :p
- Trip/travel planning
- Cycling
- Phone repair
- Python programming
- Embedded development
And probably more. Don't sit still, do diverse stuff and you'll get a lot done. Well, we do.
Writing, I hope. I'll have more time to spend on it here in about 5 days.
Failing
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