traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
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For those who go by "it" confidently, how do you do it?
only let queer pals use my neos
What exactly are neos? I'm sure you mean pronouns, but idk if I've noticed people calling pronouns "neo pronouns" before.
my neopronouns! generally i understand the term to refer to non-traditional pronouns, in my case "it/its".
Neopronouns is an umbrella term typically used for pronouns that aren't he/she/they
I dont tell people that I use 'it', i just say "she/her" when they ask. Its just a few people who know. So idk if i would say i "confidently go by 'it'". But. I like being an it. Ive been called it durogatorily. But. Im not a person. I dont want to be a person. Its a pronoun i use cause i feel outside of the realm of personhood. But tbh, any pronoun can be used durogatorily. Ive been called "she" durogatorily. I guess some of it is a "yeah actually im not a person, but also fuck you just because im not a person doesnt mean i dont deserve respect". I dont want to let shitty people control my how i concieve of myself and percieve myself.
Also like, its ok to use a pronoun for a while, and then stop using it, and then use it again. Or use different pronouns in different contexts (i do this a little bit). Its an ask of others to be sure. But its not something thats unreasonable to ask imo.
If youd like you can demo/test pronouns with trusted friends or in online spaces (like here!) to see if 'it' is a pronoun thats functional for you