Lancer is a... weird little guy? I dunno even though I really liked undertale I didn't really vibe with deltarune and never played past ep1. I do vaguely remember having fun fighting him.
Soooo, uh, yeah, that's Lancer I guess. I'd love to hear about everybody's favourite little weirdos.
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I dont tell people that I use 'it', i just say "she/her" when they ask. Its just a few people who know. So idk if i would say i "confidently go by 'it'". But. I like being an it. Ive been called it durogatorily. But. Im not a person. I dont want to be a person. Its a pronoun i use cause i feel outside of the realm of personhood. But tbh, any pronoun can be used durogatorily. Ive been called "she" durogatorily. I guess some of it is a "yeah actually im not a person, but also fuck you just because im not a person doesnt mean i dont deserve respect". I dont want to let shitty people control my how i concieve of myself and percieve myself.
Also like, its ok to use a pronoun for a while, and then stop using it, and then use it again. Or use different pronouns in different contexts (i do this a little bit). Its an ask of others to be sure. But its not something thats unreasonable to ask imo.
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