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To whoever said that (or anyone who DON'T talk to people when trying to date): have you tried improv? Improv comedy would help you talk to people better, and would probably give you the confidence and courage
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/play-your-way-sane/202303/7-research-backed-benefits-of-improv-comedy
I've played dungeons and dragons a lot. Does that count?
I put on my wizards hat
Edit: God, I realized that the joke I referenced is so old and niche by now in internet culture I have to provide a link: https://www.albinoblacksheep.com/text/bloodninja
Roll a charisma check.
Might have to be a saving throw actually
There is a new bash.org here:
https://qdb.lol/quote/104383
Hey, they're recycling the classics!
If it's any consolation many of us are old fogeys (from an internet perspective), and likely understood it immediately. I know I did!
Certainly, but it works better when you are the DM rather than a player.
So if a person struggles with confidence your solution is for them to stand upon stage? There seems to be an important first step that seems to have been skipped.
You've gotta take the first step yourself, no one can do that for you.
Or don't. Be a shutin. Fear the mailman. Die a virgin. I'm not your boss.
The first steps are the part they have difficulty with.
It is like asking help with addition and subtraction, and giving info on how to do matrices and arithmetic.
Improv doesn't have to be on a stage.
To practice improv is just to practice social skills. And, I don't know how else to say this, a lack of social skill is the fundamental root problem here. Anyone who lacks confidence in this way is going to have to learn them one way or another.
A real first step might be learning to be brave and charging through one's anxiety to get to the improv center, but they have to go. Whether it's improv or something else, they have to go.
You find a class or a club, not an open mic.
I suggest reading the link about improv