I don't think I'll make any difference. I've known people like her my entire life and you always think that their most recent self-inflicted bad experience would encourage some introspection, but it never does.
The reason they think the way they do in the first place is because they desperately desperately want all of their failings and all of their insecurities to be the fault of someone else. Then all someone needs to come and hand them a convenient punching bag and they're happy. The problem is they'll never get better because all of their problems are self-inflicted, and it would require real introspection for them to realise that.
It's the paradox of tolerance all over again, if you hold back on these people because you feel that doing so would encourage them to change, you are denying them any incentive to change. Yet at the same time if you scold them for their beliefs they'll simply use that as reinforcement that they are the victims.
I would love to know what you feel the solution to that is. How many times in this community have you seen people say "Trump has destroyed my life, I'd still vote for him again though"?



Personally I feel that if you're buying a gun someone should know why, and who else better than the government?
You already ID people for buying knives, and you limit how many packs of painkillers people can purchase. I don't see why it's necessarily any different for a gun.
Do you know what violent people who do not have access to guns are? Extremely annoying. That it. Then you called the police who come and deal with them. There are so many idiots that are still alive today who's drunken escapades would have got them shot in the United States rather than a stint in the cells to sober up.