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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Egging

I feel like my mom socially transitioned as a child and still hasn't had her egg crack. Says she's a woman because of the bits she was born with, even if she dressed in mens clothes, has a deep voice, is fine with being he/him/sir'd, acknowledges she's treated as a guy in some social situations, and says she'd rather be on T.

[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think it would be amusing if she'd start HRT without cracking too, but her excuse for not taking T was recent health issues (the biggest one being associated with T) when I suggested she should take it because she expressed interest in doing so without any sort of leading. Honestly, if she's gotten what she's wanted from transitioning without cracking, perhaps there's not much point to realizing? And if she's actually set on not taking HRT because of health issues, perhaps cracking would just lead to more stress about what she's missing out on and how much she already missed out on?