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i am a new user on the fediverse but what is the thing that in Big Social

but the fediverse is not prepared to replace

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[–] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Tech enthusiasts are usually the early adopters. They’re okay with a bit of fiddling to get stuff working.

Normies are not. That’s where you’ll see some conflict.

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 48 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

"Success" by which I mean a massive influx of millions of users: IMO it's kind of in a sweet spot because it's not as easy to use as most social media, so a lot of the dumber people just don't come here because they can't figure it out (for example, they think there's nothing here because they don't understand the filter/how instances work).

If things are made too easy, they'll start showing up in droves and they'll bring tons of reddit's bullshit over here. More bots, spammers, scammers, malicious hackers, and trolls pretty much everywhere and the mod tools on Lemmy aren't terribly advanced, which is one of the main forum platforms in the Fediverse.

[–] SlayersFan@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I feel this is a good thing, kinda like linux, I got into it and I love it, at the beginning I wanted for linux to grow and grow in popularity to become huge and widely used, but then i realized this would also mean being on the sights of the big corporations controlling the market right now and goverments, and it may start to get regulated more or some bullshit they will cook up to hurt it and the people who use it to gain back the market share lost. I do want both linux and lemmy to grow more, but up to a point so they stay safe.

[–] thejml@sh.itjust.works 5 points 5 days ago

While i don't disagree, large corporations have been large Linux contributors for quite a while now. FOSS means some oversight, but i worry some "control" could slip in there in ways people don't notice.

[–] trojanbark@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yeah unfortunately this happens with a lot of fun, cool projects as they gain in popularity. Linux is getting more "user friendly" to appeal to the lowest common denominator, for example.

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 20 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

That one I'm a lot less concerned about because there will always be more complex distros aimed at enthusiasts. Nothing wrong with using Mint, but there are lots of choices out there for everybody. Having something like Ubuntu exist doesn't mean that stuff like Arch or Gentoo can't be used anymore. Plus, it helps mitigate Microsoft's monopoly on operating systems.

[–] SlayersFan@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'll second this, after distro hopping a bit at the beginning I ended up choosing Mint, it works and with i3 its like 500mb of idle ram, so far I haven't found any reason to switch to a less user friendly distro, I don't know what the advantages would be in using a more complicated/prone to breaking distro instead of mint. I'm open to switching though if I find something I like more, but Mint is amazing as a gateway drug distro, made coming over to linux SO much better, now I'm slowly infecting my family computers with mint aswell, gotta spread the virus

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 5 points 5 days ago

I've been using various distros off and on since the late 90s: Linux has come a very long way and Mint is a great example of it if you ask me.

[–] roundabout@feddit.org 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The more dangerous monopoly is Android/iOS. They use 'hardware attestation' to ensure that you don't switch by using bank apps, ID apps and video streaming to lock you in.

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[–] barnacles@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Doesn't that just mean it will attract a certain type of user, where FOSS and tech are huge parts of identity? I'm not mocking that type of user at all, but honestly my primary use case for Reddit was shitposting in /r/cricket threads. There's never going to be that sort of community, because frankly anyone not into tech would find this platform completely incomprehensible.

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[–] Adniem@thelemmy.club 4 points 5 days ago

"The Fediverse, Assemble"

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 36 points 5 days ago (4 children)

we havent solved the 'new user' -> instance' problem

its hard to explain to people the concept that the server you login to is just the home base of an entire network. explaining the dance of instance interoperability immediately tunes out potential new users.

the fediverse isnt really open to newcomers.. they tend to land on the big ones like .world and then slowly warm up to the idea theyre communicating with many remote servers... if they stick around

[–] tacosanonymous@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Or that simply joining certain instances means you can’t interact with some communities.

Also, have a backup for downtimes and closures.

I’m on my fifth account and not bc I’m choosy but bc every instance I’ve joined has shuttered.

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I’m on my fifth account and not bc I’m choosy but bc every instance I’ve joined has shuttered.

theres another big problem.. funding and administration. anyone can throw a federating server up.. it takes some work to make it (and keep it) reliable

For real. Hosting is work, not necessarily a huge amount but it's continuous work. I would probably technically be able to get an instance off the ground and usable, but I don't have the time to do maintenance or user management or the hundred other little things that come with hosting public resources. If you "succeed" and establish a userbase, congratulations, you now have a (optional, but with an implied understanding with your users that you will continue to do it) job that pays anywhere from a little bit to negative a lot.

[–] Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This is kind of a problem I'm dealing with. I get the federation and the different servers, that's just using gmail to message Yahoo. However, I picked lemmy.world when I bailed out of reddit because I wasn't keen on losing my account if a smaller server closed. Now I don't know where to move because half the verse has a block on world.

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 4 points 5 days ago (2 children)

yeah, not sure what to tell you.. theres just no warning when your instance is run by shit heads.

you could go check https://fedidb.com/servers for places to test.

theres some open servers minimal on de-federation that have been around for awhile.. i would call these 'on-ramp' servers.. they host little locally-created content, but users can interface with the rest of the verse freely... mine is one of those.

cept im not using lemmy. lemmy is kinda fugly imho. i wanted a more contemporary old.reddit

[–] zarathustrad@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

As a casual user, having your server (picked due to larger size) blocked by others due to poor moderating (assuming this is the problem with .world), will likely lead to simple abandonment of the platform. At least by those who are generally well meaning, but not engaged enough to learn more quickly.

I imagine the attrition rate from this alone will keep adoption low.

I'm willing to put in a bit more effort, but I'm in the same boat... Just chilling on .world, probably missing out on things I don't even know about, and I'm not likely to put in the time to change that soon, I have other problems lol.

If the general trend is to wall up when in disagreement, and larger servers collapse too easily under the weight of to many casual users vs dedicated mods (as selection pressure would tend to move more dedicated people to smaller more controlled servers)... Well hopefully the smaller communities can grow at a sustainable pace, while us casuals try to find the right one/s.

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[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

theres a frontend that works exactly like old reddit called mlmym

theres a few instances that host it like old.lemmy.today old.lemmy.zip old.lemmy.world

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[–] driftwood@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 days ago

I’m on .zip just because the voyager iOS app puts it at the top of the list when you sign up 😂

It was simple to sign up but I think maybe the waiting period between sign up and account creation might put off younger users who haven’t experienced it on forums etc. before, also.

[–] Adniem@thelemmy.club 4 points 5 days ago

maybe mastodon and lemmy could have a tutorial button/mode that is a "Learn As You Go" if you click on a user profile it explains federation or others like when you click on a community it teachs you the chronological algorithm

i think its a bit kiddish but maybe

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 25 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

Fedi was built on the same premise that makes all tech products fail:

The idea that people will behave themselves and act in good faith.

They won't, and they don't. And it only takes a handful of bad actors to ruin it for everyone else.

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

The main thing the fediverse offered is a way to avoid any single admin from taking over the whole thing. One instance gets too dictatory, users can move to another instance and still have at least some of what they left behind. And because of that, it will limit the amount of money that capitalists are willing to spend on it because their purchase itself would turn the asset toxic.

But it's otherwise still people running, moderating, participating, lurking, and automating here, and they cover the whole spectrum.

[–] naught101@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Idk, the moderation distribution helps, I think. I agree that it will become a problem for very large fedi servers, but that's just an argument for increasing the number of small and medium servers

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[–] neidu4@piefed.social 26 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Mainstream popularity.

If lemmy becomes big enough to have a user base that is a substantial slice of the population as a whole, corpo will try to ruin it as it ruined the internet as a whole.

So far the attention has mostly been a couple of content bots from news sites, and big socials spinning up their own instances only to get defenerated immediately. Once more effort is seen as profitable, that's when there will be a real problem with bots, ads camouflaged as content, astroturfing, and everything else that follows.

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[–] churrodestroyer@lemmy.zip 24 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Moderation of bad actors. Not just people who are assholes, or people who post spam, but I mean astroturfing and vote manipulation schemes that cross instances.

I've been followed around by a set of accounts who never post and never comment but downvote everything I comment. I have zero ways to report them directly. They were consistently downvoting a set of accounts including me and upvoting a different set of accounts. I DM'd 3 admins but the only attention I got was from a dedicated comm mod who could only ban them from a few comms and they talked to their admin on my behalf.

https://lemvotes.org/ paints a picture of a vote manipulation ring but all I could do was manually message people who couldn't be bothered. I couldn't care less they were downvoting me, I have nothing important to say, but the fake engagement around who they were boosting didn't sit right with me.

This sort of sums up my experience: https://lemmy.zip/comment/29353636 and it's corresponding https://lemvotes.org/comment/lemmy.zip/comment/29353636

[–] Wakko@hell.cloud 5 points 5 days ago

This is why I just disable downvotes entirely. When the choice is between upvote or nothing, there's less ability to be manipulative.

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Sharing audio clips. You can post photos and videos anywhere, there's always a button for those. Audio? Go make a separate account somewhere else.

[–] earlier_riser@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

LOL I can't tell you how many times I wanted to share an audio somewhere but reddit/random forum/whatever site wouldn't let me. I'd have to make a video with that as the audio track. I don't get it. Audio invariably takes up LESS space than a video with the same audio. Not even uploading but just embedding, too.

[–] Kaligalis@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago

Success.

With success come the bots, trolls, and buyouts. All the big platforms started as places people liked to be. The enshittification always came after the success.

[–] kepix@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] invertedspear@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 days ago

Yeah, they’ve left us alone so far because we’re small potatoes. It’s only a matter of time.

[–] chaospatterns@lemmy.world 21 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Spammers and other nefarious actors.

There's a lot of trust built into federation.

[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

To be fair, I encounter way more spammers and bots on corporate social media.

[–] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

It’s hard to sell to communists, anarchists, and tech hoarders

Reddit used to be the most toxic site to advertisers on the web.

I had a friend who took out ads that were akin to “just testing” with even selling spots to company and he got hate mail.

Later I worked for a company and a manager asked about astroturfing on Reddit many many years ago. We convinced them not to with numerous examples of companies getting eviscerated for it.

Nowadays Reddit is a cesspit. It’s just reaction memes on engagement bait (Petahh what is this obvious porn screencap?!?!) and threads with 12 joke comments. The news I e already read a week ago from a primary source, and it’s been watered down into complete misinformation. Then there’s the obvious hate propaganda political subs.

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[–] Necrifyre@piefed.blahaj.zone 14 points 5 days ago

It's not ready to really replace what it's meant to replace.

I mean, people are told all of the time to make instances and make servers if the things they're not seeing aren't there. But there's a problem, they're only one person. It takes numerous people to make a community. The users we have on paper, would say that we have more than a capable amount to make these things possible.

But in practice and in activity, that's not what we're seeing. We can't estimate how long exactly things will pick up as we are nearing 4 years into the fediverse. But we just know that how long it's taking, we can expect that it'll be quite a time before the fediverse even sniffs a quarter of activity the big social networks have.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago

Dealing with the avalanche of bot accounts.
Seen around the mod chat that instances with signup approvals are getting slammed with marketing people vometing llm bots everywhere.

[–] earlier_riser@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Normies. I want decentralized social media to grow but to do that it needs people who aren't self-selecting.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 4 days ago
[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago

Spam and bots.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

assuming if there is a exodus from reddit, the instances are not prepared for a large influx of people. cue the last big instance, there wasnt enough people maintaing the instance. its not likely going to happen since people will be scattered to different sites anyways,.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

They can come, but they won't stay. Lemmy on my PC is utterly borked. There's not another site I know of with so many bugs.

Then they'll get an eyeful of what a new user sees and bail. My god, it took me two weeks of non-stop blocking to get a start on the furry porn and little girls in lingerie (anime as some call it 🙄).

[–] nullspace@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

There's no way the moderation would be able to keep up.

[–] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 10 points 5 days ago
  • there’s no way to know your admins aren’t compromised in some way
  • there’s not much to defend against an influx of LLM user accounts
  • eventually someone will post something or do something serious that gets the attention of law enforcement/intelligence agencies and they go after the entire federation instead of the problem users or servers
  • identity verification laws
[–] Lehmuusa@nord.pub 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The legislation trying to mandate proof of identity from all users of all social media.

We'd need to diversify the locations of Fediverse servers so that there would be a place to easily migrate to if a server suddenly is forced to implement this demand – basically meaning it needs to be closed down.

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[–] im_fine_sandy@nord.pub 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

LOL.

Users. As soon as there's enough MAUs to be worth manipulating, everyone will defederate, because we have not protection against this threat.

[–] Adniem@thelemmy.club 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

i think its not that way

due to probably it getting more decentralized so because a server may not handle 20k users correct those 20k will split and migrate to other servers

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[–] BooBees@fedinsfw.app 4 points 5 days ago

If an explosion of ai-based hacking bots causes servers to adopt a new tech for approving browsing based data requests, I wonder how quickly Lemmy can innovate into that system as well. As it stands the fediverse still hasn’t solved the problem of basically DDOSing a site when a post is made and all the instances call the same site for thumbnails and post text. I wonder if they’re prepared to follow any potential future changes in how those calls for data are even made to begin with, let along proliferating them amongst all instances.

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