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Maybe I’m oversensitive? We all know our votes here are public record, but to me it seems like weird, obsessive, and unhealthy behavior.

It definitely is a red flag for me to the point where I wonder if I shouldn’t just outright block people who go around making it known it’s something the participate in.

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[–] datavoid@sh.itjust.works 75 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes, the internet is filled with weirdos - next question

[–] fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.com 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 47 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yeah. I did it though. Wish I hadn't but shitty pattern seeking brain was like "but what if something interesting happens? What if you have an arch enemy"

No such luck, but it turns out there's a few accounts who just downvote everything indiscriminately and that's a little funny

[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 31 points 1 month ago (4 children)

The doing it doesn’t bother me so much as the “Hey so I was browsing through my downvotes and noticed you downvoted me. Justify your actions to me!” PMs.

Like - I don’t even know who you are or what you’re talking about. Thanks for the research project so I can piece together all these disparate pieces of information so I can figure out wtf you’re even talking about.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 20 points 1 month ago

The doing it doesn’t bother me so much as the “Hey so I was browsing through my downvotes and noticed you downvoted me. Justify your actions to me!” PMs.

That is not healthy behavior.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh. Yeah that's fuggin weird. Did somebody do that to you? How fragile.

[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah. Not sure I’m proud of the response but I hadn’t given my self much time to think before responding…

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 12 points 1 month ago

I'm not judging. Weird conversation to be forced to have, hope they grow out of it

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[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I was curious who the single down vote on every cat post was so I checked. It was a bunch of different people. I’m still confused.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 month ago

No arch enemies either? Want to be mine? We can downvote and reply-guy eachother until everyone's uncomfortable

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 7 points 1 month ago

When enough people see something someone is likely to either dislike it or fat finger the down vote button accidentally. Nothing to overthink.

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I always think the single random downvote on an uncontroversial comment or post is odd, so sometimes I check into those. A few times it's been from some account that has like 3 comments from 18 months ago and no activity since. Still scratching my head over those ones.

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[–] BassTurd@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'll look at some users who post a ridiculous take on something. I mostly look to see if they are just a shitty troll or if it was a one off and decide if I want to block them. I don't look through there posts for context, just the raw vote numbers. If someone is majority negative on their posts, then they don't need to show up in my feed.

There are a handful of other users on here who I see frequently that I don't agree with on a lot of things, and the community agrees with me based on votes, but those users also make good comments that are beneficial to some conversations and sometimes I learn something new. I'll put up with the bad for the good.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm with you there. I don't block for disagreement, I block for assholery

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[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago (7 children)

You should immediately block everyone who disagrees with you. Then all of your BS will be eternally enabled and you'll never be wrong about anything.

[–] schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Legitimately the reason I hesitated to block people I was reporting on reddit.

Lemmy's public downvoting could be easily gamed.

[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (8 children)

I can't imagine how any of these things could actually matter. Like... ...ever.

Even a little bit.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 23 points 1 month ago (9 children)

It's public to stop vote manipulation and brigading. When you can see that a ton of up/downvotes on a post all come from 37 alts of the same user, it makes it easier to ban those people.

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[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 month ago

It's creepy when they questionably ascribe motivations to how someone has voted and make accusations and threats based on it, act like a downvote is a personal attack, demand people vote a certain way to demonstrate ideological loyalty, or otherwise be really weird about it. If they're not doing that, it is probably fine imo.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

For some people, that's all they have. Vote like everyone can see and give no shits about lurkers being vexed.

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

Same goes for commenting. Sometimes it can be funny when someone goes through your post history just to quote a comment you make 2+ years ago and still be wrong.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Yes, those people are creepy.

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[–] KaChilde@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago

I think if you obsess over ‘figuring out’ the person, it can be weird.

I have definitely checked post history and upvotes on some users just to get context for their comments. It has saved me wasting time trying to have a discussion with someone who only seems to ever look for fights.

[–] catsarebadpeople@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 month ago

Creepy? Probably. Pathetic? Absolutely.

[–] Beth@piefed.social 14 points 1 month ago

Personally not how I’d spend my energy. If someone’s bothering me I block.

[–] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 13 points 1 month ago

More sad than creepy IMO

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Sirius006@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] creamfresh@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

Where can I even see post votes?

[–] Fuckfuckmyfuckingass@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)

How do you even see who down votes?

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

This is up and down votes for your comment: (I gave you a downvote so you can see how it looks. Sorry)

https://lemvotes.org/comment/lemmy.world/comment/25430224

If you click the colored link icon that looks like a spiderweb, you get a direct link to your comment, copy the last numbered part in this case: 25430224 and add it to this lemvotes link: https://lemvotes.org/comment/lemmy.world/comment/

AFAIK some apps have the function built in.

[–] Fuckfuckmyfuckingass@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

NOOO MY IMAGINARY INTERNET POINTS IM BLOCKING YOU 5EVER!!!!

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Goddammit! 4ever I can handle but 5ever that is brutal. 😋

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[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 month ago

Usually, yes, it's weird. One day a while back, a lot of my recent comments were all getting one downvote, and I was curious. Apparently one person was mad at something I said and went through my comment history to downvote things. There are times where it's somewhat useful to view, but obsessing over it is strange.

[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 month ago

I dunno. It's how the platform was designed. Lemmy was designed to imitate Reddit but with some changes. Looking back at a Redditor's post history was always controversial. Vote history just adds a new layer to that.

I got banned from a bunch of AI comms I've never visited; I can only guess because I'm a member of "Fuck AI". Truth is, I'm curiously cautious, or cautiously curious, I'm not sure. I'm not too big on AI, but neither am I vehemently against it (besides its affect on the gaming industry). I think the ban was just a knee-jerk reaction and probably a bit uncalled for, but again, the platform has the feature for a reason.

I always thought I had the sanest take on Reddit when it came to viewing post history. If someone was vitriolic, I'd check their history to see if this is how they are all the time or if they're having a bad day. If the former, I might downvote/block... if the latter, I might give it a few days and reply, hoping they'd be in a better mood then.

I've never looked at another user's vote history. It's not really any of my business; I don't see a real benefit for me to do so.

[–] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 7 points 1 month ago

It's certainly a waste of time.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

"I went through your post history and so now I feel confident stereotyping you" is a borderline temp ban red flag, imo. It definitely indicates that the person is tilted hard enough, for one reason or another, to not take the discussion rationally and maybe need a break. If your community excludes certain harmful opinions then a post history check can be helpful for moderation, but using it to ad hominem someone in a discussion forum where all the important information should be in the discussion is flame war tactics and can lead to stalking.

Usually doesn't happen here to the degree it happens on reddit, but literally this week I had someone do it to try and claim that I hate cars because I post in /c/fuckcars@lemmy.world, even though I myself own two cars. Indeed, it was a stupid topic that dependably gets some people irrationally incensed, which primed this guy to try and make it personal.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I used to ban people who repeatedly downvoted content on my conservative community but the last couple months I’ve stopped doing that and it hasn’t changed the vibe of the community at all.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 6 points 1 month ago

Yet another example of how the pearl clutching about down votes is stupid.

[–] ZkhqrD5o@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I only do that with accounts that are sus, like posting propaganda, ads, etc. To check if it is a bot and to report it.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Sometimes I'll check post and comment history if something seems a little off. For example, does this account show patterns you might see in a troll or bot?

Looking at votes though? That never even occurred to me, and even know I don't see what the point would be.

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