jtrek

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[–] jtrek@startrek.website 2 points 6 hours ago

Ehh people do it even when they're aware of it. Other automatic processes don't cause nearly so much trouble.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 2 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

The main problem with humanity is unawareness.

Ehhh.

The worst problem is we weigh in-group status more than facts. We evaluate situations based on in-group fidelity and emotional shortcuts. That's why you can't change someone's minds with facts. People almost only change their mind when it's from in-group influence.

We all do this to some extent. You're more likely to listen to someone you trust than a stranger. You're probably more likely to trust a stranger that looks basically like you.

But yes, the defense mechanisms people have to protect their ego is part of the problem. People will go to great lengths to protect their sense of self. The Oatmeal has a comic about it: https://theoatmeal.com/comics/believe

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 4 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Reminds me of the olde classic video "Happy Souls" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2kr7KDCsIws

I played the whole franchise with a friend and had a blast.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 2 points 21 hours ago

I believe "fun" and "good" are two different attributes, so both cats can be right.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Rich people are stupid.

You know how someone who plays a shooter using an aim-bot and god-mode is going to be bad at the game? Same principle. They have money, they don't have to really struggle or practice, they never get good.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website -1 points 1 day ago

Seems like another example where the people making decisions are not qualified to make those decisions.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I did that once for some big assignment. I got a B and a "you can do better" from the teacher.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Conservatives only whine about debt when they're not in charge. They're irresponsible fools and scum bags.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My current cat does not help with bugs. One time a giant centipede looking thing came into the bedroom, on the ceiling. He looked at it, got up, and left the room.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 6 points 2 days ago

I see a lot of Nirvana shirts on the youth and I'm never sure if they like the band or just the shirt, either.

I did see a blue-haired youth with a My Chemical Romance shirt the other day and I'm pretty sure they were a sincere fan, though.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 18 points 2 days ago

It's all projection. They have poor empathy and don't understand other people, so they just imagine themselves.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 11 points 2 days ago

That's because they're obviously horrible people who do not have the best interests of the world in mind.

 

I'm a simple man. I do a lot of rice and beans with random spices for dinner, and oatmeal with peanut butter and sometimes fruit for lunch.

Sometimes I get fake-burgers, which are tasty and super easy in the air fryer, but aren't nearly as cheap.

There's lots of other stuff out there. What do you like that's the best intersection of fast, easy, cheap?

 

As the title says, how often do you admit you're wrong? Is it different when it's a factual dispute versus something more subjective?

I make an effort to concede early if I'm in error. I think because my mother almost never admits fault. She'll fall back to "that's not what I meant" or similar deflections first, and that's really annoying.

The last big factual error I made was about the distance of walking, and that's where I learned about Taxicab Geometry ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taxicab_geometry ).

I think some people believe admitting fault is a sign of weakness, but I find it's more of a power move. It takes strength to do it, and people can tell when you're sweating and desperate. Usually it leads to resolving the conflict faster and cheaper, too.

(I expect some people will feel the urge to reply they're never wrong. I'll file that under never admits fault.)

 

This is the bad place.

It's fucking toilet paper. I don't need a summary.

Not only are they wasting time, energy, and screen space with this slop, it seems to have come with a bug preventing me from adding anything to my cart. I just get 403s when trying.

I can only assume management demanded engineering maximize their AI usage at the expense of boring things like testing and stability.

I hate this.

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