Transfem

Didn't even register for one millisecond that you are mtf as I was scrolling by. I'd say you pass easily. Don't be so hard on yourself.

The dysphoria lies. These ones started older than you appear to be now and are doing fine.

Sister-doppleganger jumpscare. You look SHOCKINGLY close to my sister Crystal.

Also, if this is Crystal. Mean. This is Talon. I will remember this, no more enchiladas for you.

You are the type of girl people would RUIN their lives for ❤️‍🔥

Tell you truth, I read the title of this post, clicked the image, thought "huh, why is she screwed?" and tried to find the problem in the image. Then I read the community name and the rest of your post.

You're passing just fine.

Your brain is lying to you.

Sorry if a cis male isn't supposed to comment here, but I was genuinely curious as to what you meant by "I'm screwed," because I didn't think you could possibly mean you didn't look femine (passing?) because you do.

I think you look great and I hope you feel that about yourself soon, too!

Again, I'm sorry if I'm not welcome here, not using the correct terminology, or have completely missed the point of this post.

3 years into HRT starting at 33yo over here. No, you're ahead of the curve girl. You look more like a woman than you give yourself credit for and time will only make that more true.

(Please take this kindly.)

I'm truly, honestly not sure whether this is a troll/bait post or just someone with severe confidence issues. But I'll assume the latter until proven otherwise. You would hardly be the first passing trans gal that's convinced themselves they're hopeless. Gender dysphoria is a bitch like that.

Girl, at least from what I can tell in this photo, you already pass. If you find yourself not passing in public, there are a few possibilities. It might be something that we can't see in a front-facing photo, but can be seen in side profile. It might be your voice. It might be mannerisms. But even if you're getting read male in public, it's no reason to doom. If it's voice or mannerisms, well you can change those. If it's side profile, that does require FFS to change, but that hardly means you're doomed.

But really, from the photo, I would say it's mostly in your head. If you hadn't told me you were trans, I wouldn't have known.

Your options are to continue trying or to stop and give up. Both of these suck, but one sucks much more.

You may not reach your goal by continuing to try and end up disappointed, but not trying will definitely result in regret and the burning wondering "what-if?" for the rest of your life.

By continuing to try, your worst outcome is not getting what you want. But at the very minimum you'll know you did the best you could with the cards you were dealt. And there is solace in that.

c’est la vie

1. There is no time too late to start.

2. I scrolled by and wondered what this very cute girl is going through that shes "screwed" about.

Fym sister? You already pass

Thats the dysphoria talking. A) you already look pretty Passing B) in your other post you said you've only been HRT for 5,5 months? Give it time. I promise you it will be worth it.

I had the same type of mid-HRT dysphoria were I thought I would never pass. And just a few months later I couldn't boymode anymore since I was already passing too well. It will happen for your too. Im 31 btw. Dont know how old you are but you look younger than that. "Too late" is a dirty lie the dysphoria tells you. Dont believe it.

holyholyfuck no no no you're so pretty you're so pass TwT

the brain goblins are in your head u got this

Granted I'm cis but you pass to my eyes, you're very pretty though your eyes are so sad. Don't let the dysphoria demon win. Your brain is lying to you.

omg you're really pretty! honestly, you already do pass; like, you pass better than some cis women i know.

idk, i don't see any screws. are you sure you aren't glued together?

you look fine girl don't sweat it :) 5.5 months is also barely any time in hrt standards, its a years long journey and it won't do the heavy lifting for you! gotta work on your confidence and outward expression yourself. hrt just makes it a little easier in my experience

pro tip: get bangs 😉

Girly pop: chat its so joever sends most pretty girly girl photo ever

Ok but you don’t look old? Plus you look really pretty?? Also who cares what you look like/pass or not, you’re a beautiful woman and that’s that??? Also those bottoms fucn rock where you get them????

Transitioning isn’t an over night process it takes years not just for physically but also mentally. It takes time to allow yourself to pass your own expectations of what it means to be a woman. Overall you gotta look forward towards the expectation of being yourself, cuz there’s no other woman like ya in the world.

~~Hope we worded that right lol~~

Girl... you are beautiful!

With any luck you will be (sorry, couldn't resist the bad joke)

HRT effects take place over a very long period of time. Give yourself a chance. I know that you want to go from point A to point E but you have to give yourself time to get there.

Nurture yourself. Work on your mental health, take good care of yourself physically. Like you will get the best results of HRT if you are in the best place otherwise to receive them. Its unfortunately not something you can rush. You must gradually work towards it. If passing really really matters to you then work on your mannerisms, voice train, practice with makeup, develop your fashion sensibilities and invest time in your presentation. All those things take time to develop too, and its also totally valid to not bother with any of it. I am a very conventionally feminine woman and those things have mattered to me so I have worked a lot on them. It all takes time.

And to echo statements in other comments, you're never too late to transition. You look really pretty and you will absolutely have great results with time. Try your best to be patient with yourself.

Girl, you're beautiful. Just remember that we are our own worst critic. Try to ignore the bad thoughts and ask for feedback from friends and stuff. hugs

Imo you probably have no issue of getting screwed , you look pretty good. Voice training and other things are important as well tho.

???

Are you screwed? You look fantastic and you've barely even started HRT.

You don't need to prove who you are to anyone but you. Nobody that matters thinks otherwise, and anyone who thinks otherwise doesn't matter. If they don't like who you are, they can kick rocks. You got this, girl!

i need you to believe me when i say, i wish i looked even a tenth as great as you. 🥺

I see a woman.