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The planet Venus is the easiest of the planets to spot with the naked eye from here on earth. Due to her high albedo and proximity to the sun she will appear at dusk, heralding the appearance of the stars before disappearing through the night, only to return at dawn as the stars fade into the morning light.

She may also harbor life.Conditions on her surface are rightly described as "hellish". The high temperatures, pressures, intense volcanism and presence of chemicals such as sulfuric acid are notorious for "killing" probes in a matter of minutes. Earthlings would probably not fare much better.

Phosphine is a gas produced by either volcanic or biological processes. In 2020, phosphine was detected in the upper atmosphere of Venus in concentrations higher than what could be accounted for by volcanic processes alone. Now, there have been published studies attempting to disprove these observations but, despite what the shitheads at Wikipedia say, the presence of phosphine has been validated by repeat observations.

This discovery has lead to some renewed interest in...

Fuck it, its not that serious, I can write this like I'm posting on hexbear, because I'm posting on hexbear.

Look at this picture okay?

An image of venus in the visible spectrum

Thats her, thats Venus, thats what she actually looks like to the naked eye. If you stood before her, in all her terror and glory, this is what you would see (more or less). Virtually every other picture you have ever seen of Venus has been some kind of false color image, usually in the ultraviolet spectrum, maybe in the infrared or really high or low ends of the visible spectrum with the contrast jacked way, way up.

a picture of venus in the ultraviolet spectrum

This is an image of Venus, taken by Mariner 10, in the ultraviolet range.

The dark lines are areas where UV light is being absorbed. We don't know whats doing that. We call it the "unknown ultraviolet absorber" and we don't really know what it is. We have been staring at this thing for nearly a century and we don't know what it is. Its prevalent enough to impact Venus's weather cycle, its intensity waxes and wanes over time, it moves around, and best guesses have it absorbing about 50% of all UV light hitting Venus.

And we have no idea what it is.

The discovery of phosphine has lead to a reexamination of old data and... okay here's the arxiv link and here's the direct link to the pdf. If you have gotten this far and can parse astrobiological scientific journal articles you should read this because the argument it makes is rock-solid and very, very thoroughly detailed. If that's not your jam here's a youtube link to a lecture by Astrobiology rockstar Sara Seager about astrobiological study on Venus, it covers most of the same content.

Basically, there is a whole lot of really specific, really weird things going on in the atmosphere of Venus. No feasible combination of abiotic factors are able to form a model that explains all of them. Carl Sagan once proposed that the Unknown UV Absorber was microbial in nature and that seems to get more and more likely every day.

We won't know for sure until we get some in-situ studies going on. Thankfully there are a handful on the way, including one planning on launching either this or next year. Its not sexy, basically a probe will fall through the atmosphere and use a laser to check for organic molecules, but its going to be the first of many. And its lead by Sara Seager, the aformentioned astrobio rockstar.

I just think about this a lot. We may have been looking at life, elsewhere in the universe, since before we were even human.

and it will have been on Venus, marscucks btfo lmao


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

GayTuckerCarlson* (6/1 - 6/7)
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​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

My best friend made a list of all the ways she wished her boyfriend would support her but isn't. Then she says "oh you're doing every single one of those btw"??????????

Girl... this is literally one step away from the "I wish I could date someone just like you (but not you!)" trope. How cooked am I?

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[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I hate being mentally ill and trans. People get the wrong idea. It's like no, I hate myself for other reasons!! Being trans is actually cool and awesome and I love it and it's a big source of joy. I fixed that part of myself! Sadly the rest of me is still broken.

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Being trans didnt cause the mental illness but not being allowed to transition for the first 20 years of our life and getting treated like an outcast for reasons we couldnt comprehend sure did

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I identify as a goth baddie now, I just need a couple tattoos

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This cute old lady was gendering me correctly out of nowhere and the other person, that knows me as deadname "corrected" her like 5 times and she insisted so much. It made me happy somehow

[–] tithonis@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

Finding random people who embrace you for who you really are is always a fountain of joy. At some point getting deadnamed crosses from tragedy into farce.

[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I get compliments in public a lot, like almost every time I go somewhere. I assume I'm not like extremely pretty or cool and most are just people being nice to the very obvious removed. But still, it's pretty nice. Makes me feel good.

I also get a lot of people pointing at me, laughing to their friends, saying shit like "what is that thing" and stuff. Honestly, I like that too. It also makes me feel good. Like, I GET noticed. Gender presentation is art, and my art is not boring. All great art has its vocal haters. It doesn't bother me that my gender is beyond the comprehension of the average slop feeding amerikkkan hog

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Parents leave > I get happy > they come back > I get sad

What could ever be the cause of my depression, I wonder

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I was trying to find some old photos to do a transition comparison. And the problem is I was really good at not having my photo taken. Like I hated it. So the only ones are like group shots or stuff like that. Photos of me appear, but they're from the time I thought I was non-binary, so I look better in them (great physical shape, long hair, fashion) and a little happy.

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I uh came out to my mom again... Like with help and everything from my therapist.

It went exactly like I expected: "Insert non-violent I don't approve because god christian bullshit"

So yeah, I won't get any real respect and love in this house, no. But it will be fine for now.

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[–] rafflesia@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

the last few times i've been to the endocrinologist they've taken my blood but didn't check the hormone levels? puzzled

wtf give me my blood back then

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I had an amuse-bouche of T4T for the first time on the weekend and god I can't wait until my ex and I are living in different places which is very soon.

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Could do without ever seeing a "trans positive" artpiece thats just a blatant transmisogynistic caricature but "positive" ever again

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Going to a queer thing today and I’m going to try to look girl. Should be fun, still nervous but I gotta get over that eventually

[–] tithonis@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Today is a year since I really got my life back. I'm so proud of myself for how far I've come. I barely recognize who I was before. This is how it should be.

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I did not know Venus was built like that.

[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Shes amazing and I love her.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

"I think I should stop trying to calculate my identity/orientation and just try to enjoy life freely. "

pronoun field is mandatory to fill in

catgirl-cry

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

I decided at least for today, if I feel eepy, I go to sleep.

So on that note

doggirl-sleep mi mi mi mi

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

My disgust of ai slop has gotten me back into writing that plus feeling helpless under capitalism, it's my world my story I can shape it how I see fit. Yeah I might borrow ideas but I'll use them with tender love and care and make something for me to show I have agency and I'm not being swept away in the deluge of troubles of everydayblackbeard-writing

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (6 children)

mfw I did not achieve the noble path and must repeat the cycle of suffering kitty-cri-screm

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

I love you gay people

[–] nine99@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

got asked recently for the first time if i was a man or a woman by a security pat-down person hexbear-non-binary

i guess growing my hair out and taking care of my skin goes a longer way than i thought

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Had a call with my cousin, another cousin and my aunt. Literally all of them unprompted complimented my hair. Feels nice haha

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

::: spoiler down (short) I need to recharge. To be cozy and held. To treat myself nicely. I dont know how to have that, how to do that. Im scared and sad... Melancholic. I want to be happy again.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (16 children)

You see a big hole in the ground. Very dark inside. What do you do?

A) Where there's a hole there's a goal! jump in right away

B) I'm a cautious person so I'm going to observe the hole first. [This doesn't accomplish anything it just makes you look smart] spend 2 minutes "pondering" before choosing another option

C) What an unusual hole! Surely the municipality will take care of it? [Do you know the emergency/service numbers of this strange dimension you've arrived in?] give up and try another option

D) Where ... where am I? [Realise that you don't know remember anything from before you saw the hole. You are strangely compelled to go in the hole anyway] pick another option

E) This is how horror movies start. I'm outta here. [Lol I'm not letting you leave] pick another option

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

So fucked up how all the stereotypical names are the ones that sound cute to me smdh

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I have a stereotypical name (didn't realize until after lol) so I get not wanting it to be stereotypical but at the same time it is my favorite. I also think cis people are less aware of those types of stereotypes compared to us- I've only had other trans people point it out πŸ™„

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

I accidentally called my gf my fiancee when introducing her to one of my friends which is a bit of a slip since we've talked a fair bit about getting married and I've said that I am looking to propose sometime once I get settled in the new job and I'm able to bank a few paychecks to buy us bands. She was so happy. I love her so much.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Every now and again I see a piece of transphobia that really frustrates/saddens/gets to me. Hate this

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

God I'm an idiot.

I was trying to replace a metal collar with a similar one because my old one broke, i had it's circumference from my emails, but the one I wanted to buy only had diameter and for whole ass moment I was like "well shit"

Then I was like wait... math!

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

content warning

She's so me fr fr 😭

[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

GrindrWhy do people on Grindr cancel so much? Another trans girl was supposed to come over and I even gave her my address. But she never responded to my question when she'll come over and it's past the meet up time I proposed. She's not responding to my messages either. This is like the third time this happened.

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[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

(extreme?) piercingI just learned you can get like corset piercings on the back of your thighs and honestly I'm like a little obsessed,,, I'd been trying to think of what tattoos to get on my legs but maybe I've been thinking about this the entirely wrong way,,,

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[–] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Went to a protest against the ehrc guidance last night and I am tired as shit today. But also kind of pumped.

CW: voice dysphoriaReally wish I could shout without sounding like a fucking man though.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

weightUp 12lbs award

If it's going to good places I guess I don't mind, I'll forever wish I had less tummy though

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

::: spoiler downer I dont think I'm supposed to be a part of society or social circles. I dont know how to interact with people. I dont even know who i am half the time. And the times I do its a mask. Im tired of trying to exist in this world. Ill wake up tomorrow and keep going. But. Its just hard, with the people and social and everything. im so tired from trying to make existence work.

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Learn from my example comrades, I worried and waited too long to go to a local trans group and now the only person I know is moving kitty-cri kitty-cri-screm

Gotta seize the moment and not let yourself get in your own way (mileage may vary depending on mental state but that’s how I got here in the first place)

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (8 children)

Because I'm a perfidious Australian trans woman, I'm getting an estrogen implant soon.

Reading about implants it's wild how dog shit most trans medicine is.

Like you should just go to the doctor and be like "One trans feminine sex change please", they read you all the risks, then bang they put in an estrogen implant and a long lasting anti-androgen like gosrelin (just for the first go while the estrogen builds up), then 6 months later, another estrogen implant and a progesterone one (we don't have bio-identical ones yet), then like every 6 months like getting your oil changed they top you up.

They should also offer this for menopausal women and a comparable testosterone regime for trans masculine types. Plus it should be free.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (7 children)

And like lots of injectable medicines, insulin, GLP-1s, auto immune things, all come in dose able injector pens. Why not estradiol? Why are we drawing up with a needle and vial, like I should be able to twist device to my dose, put a cap on then press it to my thigh or tummy etc.

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Listening to two coworkers chatting about laser hair removal and IPL and stuff and wanting so badly to join them but I just can't...

[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (9 children)

You should've joined them! Laser hair removal is awesome, and you don't have to out yourself to talk about it. Most people who do it are cis!

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (16 children)

Eating peaches while nude. The juices drip down my cleavage. I'd feel so sexy if I didn't have a gut. Sigh

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Picking a name is so hard :((( like I want it to mean something but I don't want it to be too common or indivisible from some other cultural thing. I'm also divided on keeping it starting with an R because my sister asked me if I could keep the R and that pisses me off the more I think about it. But otoh the R is familiar and I'm somewhat attached to it

Funny enough, Riona is actually in the running

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