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CAM photosynthesis is a clever adaptation some plants have where they turn light into sugar during the day, and only breathe in CO2 at night. This lets the plant close up its leaves so they don't lose water during the heat of the day.

CAM plants use sunlight to turn malic acid into sugar, and every night they breathe in plenty of carbon dioxide, storing it as a fresh supply of malic acid. If you have keen senses, you may be able to taste the difference between a CAM plant harvested during the day and one harvested at night because of this variation in sugar and acid content.

Having evolved several times independantly, you see CAM in lots of different kinds of plants: air plants and bromeliads, which have poorly developed root systems; cacti and other succulents, which grow in hot dry environments; you even see it in some aquatic plants. For these, CAM serves not to conserve water, but carbon dioxide - which is of course hard to come by when you don't have any air.

The "crassulacean" part of the name "crassulacean acid metabolism" is there because this phenomenon was first discovered in crassulas. Jade plants are an example of this genus.


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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

CW discussions of NSFW euphemistic language for genitals and Transphobia.I really hate that cis crossdressers/sissys/porn fetish type stuff uses the term "clitty" for a penis. It's super gross and rooted in the objectification of trans women.

(I know some trans woman use it and it's fine to reclaim etc)

But also calling a penis that has been feminised by estrogen a clitoris is accurate biologically/embryologicly, while also cool and based.

I'm probably going to start using that to describe it before bottom surgery anyway. But annoying to consider that other stuff.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

spoilerlearning they do that genuinely ruined calling it my clit

also DOWN WITH ALL SISSYS/PORN FETISH STUFF (CIS MEN). Some crossdressers/transvestites are based if its not just a fetish though

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 8 points 23 hours ago

spoilerYeah I'm going to use the full "clitoris" because I am 30 something professional woman.

I agree, sometimes crossdressing is a stage towards realising transneas, or it's a cool and based part of expressing gender non conforming/gender fluidity.

But the fact that cishet sexual fantasies dominate the societal perception of what a trans person is so gross and harmful.

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misgenderingit's like wild that my mom can somehow manage to use the wrong pronoun when it's just me and her talking. it's only the two of us and you're talking directly at me you like don't even have to use a third-person pronoun or gendered language here at all how are you fucking this up let alone after two years

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

going through life as an amab

when a man takes hrt (talking about E)

Why are you saying it like this

Also cis people discouraging people from taking hrt and talking about how a trans woman is "putting people in boxes" for suggesting a dysphoric person try hrt is disgusting DOWN WITH THE CIS

[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why are you saying it like this

Misgendering, but woke. Many such cases!

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Actually was just typing up more on this situation, sorry.

Decided to write more about the first part because I wasn't happy with how it sounded when I first posted. I guess I just find it really disappointing when NB people talk like this. Like we're supposed to be on the same team and you are perpetuating this bioessentialist, hurtful shit. What does "going through life as an amab" mean. I'm right here??

Should have just said something but whatever.

If anything I'd expect NB people to be even more sensitive to this type of thing which makes it even more annoying.

Some people treat nonbinary as something outside of the gender binary and some people treat it like man(lite)/woman(lite). WTF?

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

when a man takes hrt

also me lol

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bad day? Turns out a hand written letter πŸ’Œ by my gf cheered me up. Don't think I'm ever gonna not break down in tears when I read these πŸ₯Ή

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

i cast spell β€œtearful dreamer” on u πŸ§™β€β™€οΈπŸͺ„βœ¨πŸ₯Ή

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

Ooh I'm not feeling great about an ALP premier (labor state governor) caving to transphobia at zero pressure....

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

hello i really like the theme of this megathread i'm something of a nerd about crassulaceae

here are a few of my favourites:

Dudleya crassifolia is a really endangered member of the crassulaceae family in baja california that's threatened by human expansion and i really hope to see it one day but realistically i'll never be able to afford a flight to mexico

Crassula umbella is a crassula that's summer deciduous (its above-ground portion dies back in summer), and forms tiny little cup-like leaves. also it's a nightmare to get seeds to germinate apparently

Crassula deceptor is a cute little species (the only of the three mentioned that i am lucky enough to have in my collection) that is presumably shaped and coloured to resemble the rock fields it naturally grows in but in my collection the white with black speckles just kinda looks like bird shit but i still like it

Oh I love the crassula deceptor! And to be fair you wouldn't want to eat bird shit.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Summertime seasonal depression catgirl-flop

[–] tithonis@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Too many degrees. Why is the sun out for so long? It wants to kill us. Short sun. No degrees. Snow. Please?

Amen, I want my hoodies back.

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[–] Florn@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

I was walking with a friend yesterday and some asshole decided it was important to tell us how tall I look next to her

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Things I still want to do for my transition that I can't

  1. Ear piercings
  2. Laser or electrolysis
  3. SRS
  4. Tattoos (probably black and white carp swimming in circles on my back)

You will notice it's all physical stuff, BECAUSE MY PARENTS WOULD KILL ME IF THEY SAW TS.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Your parents probably wouldnt notice the laser hair removal though. And how often are you showing your parents your bare back for black and white carp? And they, surely, would NEVER see your genitals for SRS????

And also... okay they might notice ear piercings but so what. Like just studs arent really gendered anymore (like black nail polish, thanks gen z I guess), and theres plenty of traditional cultures where men and women both pierced their ears (mileage may vary for your family cause it depends on culture lol).

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 1 points 21 hours ago

Your parents probably wouldnt notice the laser hair removal though

They'd see the lack of a beard shadow

And how often are you showing your parents your bare back for black and white carp

This one is less likely fair, but it's another thing to hide

And they, surely, would NEVER see your genitals for SRS????

They'd see the gaping hole ... in my bank account balance

[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

People do not notice when you don't have facial hair anymore, if you can afford it go ahead and do the second one.

Also, lots of guys are interested in at least some degree of laser.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 1 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

I feel like my parents will. They have keen observations when it comes to changes to my body and always comment on my weight/figure/hair/etc

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If you laser you could just pretend to be shaving every morning?

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

What about the lack of a beard shadow tho?

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I hate trying to start a convo with someone and it immediately goes no where... idk if its my bad for what I said or if they just don't want to talk, either way it feels bad and I don't like it.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Silly comic I found (might cause voice dysphoria):

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[–] meler@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

family and not having oneI wish more than anything to have had accepting parents. Why the fuck did I get so unlucky as to have gotten the worst parents fucking ever? I just want to be loved the way they told me they did when I was younger. I want to be able to talk to them and get advice and get hugs from them and tell them I love them and for them to tell me back. I want more than what I got and I'm never going to have it. I want them to care about me. I want to be loved. I wish I could talk to either of them without wanting to throw them out a window. They told me they'd love me no matter what I did and then I was trans and none of that mattered. I didn't even do anything wrong and I'm basically dead to both of them. I'm just being myself and they don't even care to get to know me. I was a hollow shell of a person and now i feel like me and they don't give a flying fuck. They don't care about me and I wish more than anything that just ONE of them did.

It's fucking tragic how many of us have to deal with this, I'm sorry meler.

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Split between dying of isolation and loneliness and being terrified of meeting new people at a weekly trans hangout. Why is my brain like this

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 2 points 22 hours ago

my wxfe made dinner so I have an excuse. maybe I'll go to something tomorrow smdh

[–] RION@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Logged into my old notes app to see if I could find the name of a DND character I created for a friend's campaign in high school

Instead I found the details of some of the conversations I'd had with my mom about my gender and WOW they were much worse than I remember... choice selections:

  • I mentioned wanting to start hormones, which she was immediately unreceptive to. She proceeded to grill me on what I hoped to gain from it.

  • Ultimately she said she didn't approve of me going on HRT without much intensive therapy beforehand, while recognizing that I can do what I want as an adult. Seemed unfazed by my plans to talk to medical professionals and listen to their advice.

Later...

  • She said she wouldn't be able to handle watching me undergo HRT while living with me.

  • She repeatedly stated she knew deep down there must be some other problem, that I am her son and that HRT wouldn't fix anything.

She said she wouldn't be able to handle watching me undergo HRT while living with me.

Utterly childish

She repeatedly stated she knew deep down there must be some other problem, that I am her son and that HRT wouldn't fix anything.

She has mind reading powers???

She should be using them to fight the joker or something why she trynna mess with her daughter

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Boobs have become very fun to play with recently. It doesn't even feel sexual. Just euphoric and fidgety

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

You know before I grew mine, I really thought Id be playing with them... and I never really have. If you had asked me at 20 when I thought I was a dude years before I cracked my egg I wouldve said "oh hell yeah I would waste hours playing with my boobs if they grew on me suddenly" and the reality has been... I never really did lol

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 2 points 20 hours ago

Ok but have you considered the jiggle physics? It's like a

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