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For me it was Cheater Bennington. Linkin Park music helped me through some hard times and I know some of the more impactful lyrics came from him and what he experienced.

Knowing he couldn’t take it anymore definitely hit Me hard particularly as someone I looked up to from young age …

Who was yours ?

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[–] Town@lemmy.zip 66 points 5 months ago (4 children)
[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 5 points 5 months ago

After hearing he had Lewey Body disease and it was very advanced. It was crippling to comprehend.

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[–] pedz@lemmy.ca 36 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I don't know if he counts as a celebrity but, Aaron Schwartz.

[–] linkshandig@lemmy.today 35 points 5 months ago (3 children)
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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 34 points 5 months ago (2 children)
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[–] Kevo@lemmy.world 31 points 5 months ago

Chadwick Boseman. I was 24 when he died. I'm mixed and a huge nerd. He was one of the first times I saw representation like that in a comic book hero in a movie or TV show. T'Challa was a king, and his death came out of nowhere

[–] cerement@slrpnk.net 26 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] TwodogsFighting 19 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Margaret Thatcher.

What a happy fucking day.

[–] Omgpwnies@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Had me in the first half....

[–] jared@mander.xyz 19 points 5 months ago (2 children)
[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 18 points 5 months ago

Leonard Nimoy. Grew up with a lot of Star Trek. Both him and Keanu Reeves helped me understand that it's entirely fine to be introverted.

As I understood it, Nimoy's death was from lung problems that developed as a result of his smoking habit - even though he had quit smoking many years prior that. It was the catalyst I needed to finally say, "I can't wait anymore, time may already be up. I need to quit smoking now." And that was when I finally did quit smoking and make it stick.

[–] iguessimlemming@lemmy.ml 18 points 5 months ago (2 children)

David Bowie. I really mourned him, didn't expect to feel so strongly about someone I never met. Feel like the world got significantly duller and darker since he took off.

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[–] MTZ@lemmy.world 18 points 5 months ago (3 children)
[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] Vespair@lemmy.zip 18 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Sorry for the convenience.

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[–] morriscox@lemmy.world 17 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Robin Williams, on my birthday. Great guy, a gamer, and knew his way around computers. It might not have hit as hard if it hadn't been my birthday.

[–] Hayduke@lemmy.world 16 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] CelloMike@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Sean Lock

The first time I've felt genuine shock at a celebrity death, RIP undisputed Carrot in a Box champion

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[–] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Anton Yelchin was so goddamn young and had an entire career ahead of him.

The few things he got to do were all spectacular. Fuck Chrysler for making the shitty vehicle that ended up killing him.

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[–] 48954246@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago (2 children)

John "TotalBiscuit" Bain.

Hit at a rough time for me and at that point I had been following his content for many years.

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[–] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 5 months ago (2 children)
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[–] perfectduck@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (6 children)
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[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (5 children)

Taking the question literally, I'll say Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

[–] SelfHigh5@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

She was on HELL of a legal mind but goddammit why didn’t she retire when Obama could have appointed her replacement. The fucking hubris.

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[–] TheDarkQuark@lemmy.world 11 points 5 months ago

Chester Bennington and Kurt Cobain. Although I discovered their songs years after their death.

[–] normalentrance@lemmy.zip 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Chris Cornell hit hard especially when you go back and listen to his lyrics.

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[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] sunbeam60@feddit.uk 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I dont know why, but Sean Lock, a U.K. stand-up comedian who was the backbone of a couple of U.K. panel shows. He never spoke about his illness, but lost a lot of weight and the suddenly gone. I still watch and laugh out loud from the many, many laugh out loud moments of his career.

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[–] DaanBanaan@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago
  1. Prince
  2. Lady Di
  3. Amy winehouse
[–] boydster@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 months ago

A couple I haven't seen yet but both were impactful to me: Prince and David Bowie. Both deaths felt so close in time together and came by complete surprise.

[–] dnick@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 months ago

Frank Zappa and Christopher Hitchens. Maybe not personally, but i really feel like there are some losses that the world doesn't realize.

[–] Yosmonkol@piefed.social 8 points 5 months ago

Fred Rogers, it was like a grandfather died when he passed.

Kurt Cobain

[–] gajahmada@awful.systems 7 points 5 months ago

Well, I read the title and the only thing popped up is Chester.

I always shrugged off celebrity deaths cuz it never affects me before. But that morning my then SO woke me up and I'm in dazed cuz teens me just full of angst lol and how he did it after just released One More Light is too much, I think I avoid listening to LP for a few years after that. It's also after Cornell did it not long before I think? AFAIK they're Godfathers to each other kids.

I think contrary to what generally believe LP lyrics all are Mike's. But understandable since Chester is the one actually sung it. don't think LP would be this big if they didn't have Chester, the band said so themselves (the label want to get rid of Chester at first but they pushed back).

I just wished Mike would just rename the band like Audioslaves did and leave LP as a legacy. Don't get me wrong Emily is badass.

[–] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago

David Lynch. His death hit me like a punch to the heart.

Also Adam Yauch (MCA).

[–] decended_being@midwest.social 7 points 5 months ago

Grant Imahara, first person I had a parasocial relationship who died. It was also such a sudden and tragic death.

[–] Augustiner@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Mac Miller was probably the worst one… I’m a little younger than him and watching his career from early on felt like watching an older brother develop and making it big. He made the soundtrack to most of my youth.

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[–] fta@lemmy.zip 7 points 5 months ago

Norm Macdonald

[–] omgboom@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago

Anthony Bourdain

[–] Bullerfar@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Definetly Chester Bennington. Linking park inspired me to be a muscisian, Chester inspired me to become a singer. His passing was really hard on me. I really gave up on linking park after the minutes to midnight album, since I see it as the last album where they were honest to their roots and still not too experimental. But after many years I was talking to my wife, and we agree that next time they played in our country, we would see them nomatter what. I shit you not, the next day we saw on the news he was dead. It was almost like we knew it was about time to go watch a show since they wouldn't be around for long. Anyways, I have massive respect for Chester as a guy who delt with my own mental sickness and also have had thoughts of sucide and so on. Chester and linkin park helped me through a lot of tough times. I wish his family all the best.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 6 points 5 months ago (5 children)

Hearing about Rush Limbaugh's death made me smile pretty big.

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[–] fushuan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

You might want to edit Chester

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Tom Petty and Whitney Houston. Two of my favourite singers of the 1980s and 1990s.

Chester Bennington didn't hit me at all β€” at first. Linkin Park had been growing out of favour with me, especially with regards to some of the things the band (and I think Chester) were saying about fans who preferred Hybrid Theory or Meteora to the newer stuff. Then I heard what Chester went through in his youth and how the music was therapy for him. It gave context to what he/the others said, and then it hit me. I hate that he felt he wasn't enough to overcome his demons, but I hope that his music makes the next person stronger. Truly a loss for humanity and the arts. Good on Linkin Park for forging ahead, though I didn't care for the new record. (Nothing against the singer, I just didn't like the album.)

It's worth noting that my favourite band was hand-picked by Chester to tour with them, but then he died and that didn't happen. The band is ONE OK ROCK, originally from Japan (based out of Los Angeles for the last 10 years, though, and most of their songs are in English, or at least their music since the move). They did fine without Linkin Park, but I would have loved to see the two of them together (with Chester). Mike Shinoda either did a few live shows with ONE OK ROCK, or Takahiro Moriuchi did a few live shows with Linkin Park (or maybe just Mike Shinoda), shortly after Chester died. It's just some live stuff though, and poorly recorded. Taka would have made a better singer for Linkin Park as he could do most of Chester's style, but I wouldn't have liked the move as it would have ended my favourite band. So I'm glad we still have both, and maybe Linkin Park's next album will be better β€” I will certainly be here for it.

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