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Live in the past, is mine. I will listen to things over and over because some songs or even podcast episodes, rewind me back to times where I felt comfortable in. I do sometimes poke my head out to see where things are currently in the present, but nothing around really makes me gravitate to anything current-day. But, then I just go back to my hole in living in the past.

People used to tell old people to get over it about them remembering things as they were all of the time. I'm understanding why they do that. Sometimes the present really truly sucks.

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[–] spaghettiwestern@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

I've never had much of a taste for classical music. A year ago I started playing it in the background while doing other things. Some of it is truly amazing and I wish I had started listening to it years ago.

[–] Teppichbrand@feddit.org 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Yeah, classical music is cool, but have you ever heard mediaeval and renaissance music? It's much simpler (sometimes) yet still right in the feels.

[–] grumpo_potamus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

A coffee and a crossword puzzle is really all it takes to make a great morning these days.

[–] BrianTheeBiscuiteer@lemmy.world 11 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Didn't think I'd be telling my kids the TV is rotting their brains. Yeah, Looney Tunes wasn't educational in the least but at least the shorts had plotlines. Stuff my kids watch (mostly on YouTube) will transition between scenes within seconds and there's no point or resolution to any of it!

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

this is why I limit YouTube to 1 hour per week.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago

I don't give a single shit what people think about me anymore.

And it stems from the constantly-reinforced experience that people almost always have no idea what they're talking about.

For now, I've at least retained a basic level of decorum, but the line is blurring in a way that has me a bit frightened to be honest. Throw in some neurological degeneration and I totally understand why old people act like lunatics in public

[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

Pill box... I have take enough pills that it helps to have a pill box to organize them. Not just any pill box, mine has separate compartments for morning and night pills.

I'm 55. Sigh...

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 hours ago

I'm in my 30s and still feel pretty close to when I was 16-18 just more tempered.

Still a night person, still like games, still like technology. Idk I guess I'm not old enough yet lmao

[–] chocrates@piefed.world 3 points 4 hours ago

Valuing the wisdom of age and experience.
I'm not 40 yet and reflect on a decision, almost every week, that I would have made wrong just a few years ago.

[–] Heikki2@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Wear reading glasses glasses. I never had to wear anything until the last month. Noticed I was struggling to read an old textbook. Someone handed me their readers. Wow... I've been missing out

[–] IlmariGanander@lemmy.wtf 3 points 5 hours ago

I got bifocals.

They're already not strong enough :(

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 9 points 6 hours ago

Biggest thing is probably the switchover from night owl to morning person. I mean, I'm using morning person loosely as I still hate getting up. It's just that by 9:30 at night I'm drowsy and by 6:30 a.m. I've already been laying in bed for 45 minutes trying to fall back to sleep and now I'm so bored I get up just for the sake of getting up.

Also, weirdly vacuuming. It's a daily thing these days. Used to hate it.

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 42 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Thinking a lot of new technologies are stupid and unnecessary. Of course, at least in big tech, lot of them objectively are.

[–] tuckerm@feddit.online 7 points 6 hours ago (4 children)

Yeah, this is me too. Although, to be fair to my younger self, back then a lot of new technologies actually were notable improvements over the previous tech, and older people were missing out by not trying them. I'm talking about going from cassette tapes to CDs, things like that.

Nowadays the new thing really is just worse than the old thing. E.g. going from a desktop environment to "the metaverse." Those of us who didn't embrace the metaverse were not just sticking to our old cassette tapes; the metaverse really was stupid as hell.

[–] Tja@programming.dev 3 points 5 hours ago

The meta verse has 500 users, total, worldwide. Out of 8 billion people. It's not exactly a popular new tech.

AI on the other hand, fits the description much better. It is very useful, and people who reject it out of spite are missing out. Sure, it's being shoved down our throats in literally every product, whether it makes sense or not, I get the sentiment. But rejecting it completely makes you miss it's useful applications.

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[–] kescusay@lemmy.world 22 points 9 hours ago (5 children)

My favorite example: Copilot to read your emails for you and send responses automatically. Get two people with Copilot sending each other emails with neither person actually involved. Efficient!

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[–] lolo@sh.itjust.works 11 points 7 hours ago

When seeing a kid/now-adult I haven’t seen in 20 years, “Omg, I remember when you were this big!” When I was a kid this always made me feel weird. Like, I don’t know you, stranger. Idk why I can’t seem to stop myself!

[–] Bluegrass_Addict@lemmy.ca 24 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

flat out rejecting modern anything. I have zero desire to buy new phones, computers, new clothes, appliances etc... it's ALL junk designed to fail so I buy again.

I just don't now. I buy nothing and I don't care. subscriptions? get fuked. replacing anything that breaks? hell no.. I'll fix it instead.

I used to like companies, but I've learned they are all criminal scum, liars and thieves and deserve very special treatment. they pushed me over the edge and I will never return and never stop voicing my distrust and dislike for all of them. even in the stores themselves when I have to go buy food... I'm very vocal about how overly priced and absurd everything is to the point where people look at me... I want that, I want others to actively think about it especially when they are in the stores too.

I'm essentially done with 'society' whatever the hell that means

[–] etherphon@piefed.world 4 points 6 hours ago

Lol I've found myself doing this as well... "$6 FOR GUMMI WORMS ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS I THOUGHT THIS WAS A FREE COUNTRY."

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[–] How_do_I_computah@lemmy.world 26 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Try to identify birds and trees. How did I go through life not being able to identify my natural surroundings?

[–] YurkshireLad@lemmy.ca 6 points 7 hours ago

My wife and I will happily stare at birds in the trees and rabbits in the yard.

[–] BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social 11 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Random noises when getting up from sitting.

Random noises when sitting!

[–] chocrates@piefed.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Omg I started making old man noises young. I don't know why I do it. Also all my joints pop when I stand

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 23 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

I fall asleep at every holiday party. My grandpa used to do that shit. Now... I'm tired and I don't want to deal with anyone's bullshit. Wake me when it's time to say goodbye.

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[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 15 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Not want to leave the house after 9-10 PM

Eat better

Prefer getting my clothes from Costco

Get excited about new appliances okay nevermind I actually got a blender as a teenager and loved it that doesn’t count.

But still it’s funny how much of a stereotype we all become in some small ways.

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 10 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

I’ve stopped buying clothes. I’ll live with what I have as long as I can.

Everything is so thin and cheap looking. I’m defo old.

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Theres a local group that makes clothes. Its so much better than store bought clothes. And they are repairable!

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Get random bruises on my hands. Thank you orange makeup!

[–] JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social 8 points 7 hours ago

Walks. Like just for sunshine and air. It used to be I was out on a bike from sun up till sun down. You'd see the old people just walking and enjoying life and think damn, I'll never be that lame. Well here I am. No bike. Just my legs. They weren't lame. I was a dumb teenager. Walks are awesome.

[–] pwalshj@lemmy.world 10 points 8 hours ago (3 children)
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[–] Digit@lemmy.wtf 1 points 4 hours ago

not be a millionaire yet

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

I'm not nostalgic like that, love to hear new music, and see new shows, read new books.

But boy do I like to know what bird that is in the yard. I feed the crows. I grow things. I wear clothes with elastic waist and flat shoes.

And teatime meal >late supper, I feel so much better if I eat earlier.

[–] MurrayL@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Listening to smooth jazz and fusion.

I was an insufferable prog & classic rock snob in my teens and early 20s, but these days I can appreciate just about anything, including smooth jazz.

The Rippingtons fucking rule.

[–] chocrates@piefed.world 1 points 4 hours ago

I've started listening to the classical station 😊

[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 10 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Waking up early on weekends. I gotta be up early for work on weekdays and its easier to stick to a consistent schedule.

[–] KnightontheSun@sh.itjust.works 6 points 8 hours ago

And staying up late one night can wreck your sleep pattern for days afterwards. "Why are you tired today?" "Because I stayed up late three days ago!" Lol, ugh.

[–] SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 12 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Early to bed. I try to stay up until at least 9pm so I don't wake up at 3am.

[–] dkppunk@piefed.social 1 points 3 hours ago

Same and sometimes it’s a struggle to stay up until 9pm. It’s just after 8pm now and I probably won’t make it to 9 on a Friday night…

I usually wake up 4:30-5am which is nice because I can get all of my chores done early and have a full day ahead of me.

[–] Seaguy05@lemmy.world 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

So there's this weed picker tool I use that's at the end of a long stick where the grab motion is done by stepping on the lever then rocking the stick back and forth. It's too save my knees and back over the course of the lawn. My wife used to make fun of me calling it my grandpa stick but then she used it and apologized.

Haha is literally called a grandpas weeder

Grampa's Weeder | Weed Puller | Vintage Tool Designs https://share.google/7dWo6ZDCwYcXvKy8a

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 1 points 4 hours ago

We have this one:

https://www.bunnings.com.au/fiskars-4-prongs-xact-weed-puller_p2970049

There's this pump action slide that "ejects" the weed you pulled but if you do it right it kinda finds it across the yard. Kids love it.

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