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[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Neil fuckin Gaiman.

The ~~man~~ monster went from my favorite author to a name that elicits rage and disgust.

[–] fritobugger2017@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

OJ Simpson, Scott Adams, Joss Whedon, friends and family that are MAGA

[–] Rooty@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Tim Sweeny

Back when Epic was Epic Megagames I played a shitton of their shareware catalogue - ZZT, Jazz Jackrabbit, Epic Pinball, Jill of the Jungle. As a teen I loved Unreal and Unreal Tournament. After Tim sold Epic to Tencent and became a vocal piece of shit I actively avoid all Epic software.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I was a big Bill Cosby fan, back int he 60s. I had several of his albums, and I'd take them to friends' houses to listen to them.

I started hearing crazy stuff in the 90s, and then it all turned out to be true. I was heartbroken.

[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 hours ago

Yup. Tis sad as a lot of that stuff was funny.

[–] BanMe@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Steve Jobs. There was some magic to him, but also an extremely dark side. I had a corporate bio from the early 90s that made him and Woz seem like superhero partners, when in reality he shorted Wozniak and Esposito and only really looked out for himself. He seemed like a countercultural LSD dropping hippie, and he was some of that, but when it came time to get rich and get his, he went down that path too. Shitty father, terrible boss. None of the things I would say my own life aspires to now.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 14 points 7 hours ago

Hulk Hogan. Also, not really a hero, but his work had a log of influence on me- Orson Scott Card. The reasons I liked it so much are kind of cringe looking back as an adult anyway though.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 12 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

What about the anti-theist and leftist public intellectuals like Dawkins, Kraus, and Chomsky who turned out to be somewhere between anti-feminist and full-blown sex-offender? Even NDTyson has some pretty credible accusations for those who remember. Dennett seemed like the only one of the "Four Horseman" who could be considered a decent human being, but nope... he's flying the Lolita Express.

But nobody has fallen farther than Richard Dawkins. Fame did to Dawkins what the One Ring did to Smeagol.

[–] whimsy@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 hours ago

This is true for me as well and kinda hurts. Dawkins in particular was quite a big part of my radicalisation pipeline/growing up. His books also helped me go through some stuff when I was questioning faith and my beliefs. I still think his books had a very positive impact on me and my approach towards science. But yeah, it's heartbreaking to see him (and the other horsemen) turn out be a bit of the very thing they swore to destroy

[–] Sharkticon@lemmy.zip -3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Man if those are your childhood Heroes you must have had a shit childhood.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)
[–] Sharkticon@lemmy.zip 1 points 11 minutes ago

Fuck I'll stand by it man that's a sad kid. 8-year-old comes up to me and says their hero is Noam Chomsky then that kid needs a hug.

[–] UniversalBasicJustice@quokk.au 19 points 13 hours ago (7 children)

I reserve 'cunt' and 'dumb bitch' as especially strong, disrespectful expletives to call a woman.

When I say "Fuck that dumb bitch TERF cunt JK Rowling" it carries the hurt and ire of a broken childhood love of Harry Potter. The series itself was incredibly important to me and provided a world I could escape to when the real world was overwhelming. The hate and bigotry that cunt has shown breaks my heart and sullies too many childhood memories to describe.

I was deeply inspired to pursue engineering after watching the first Falcon 9 boosters land themselves. I was enamored by the idea of using my little blip in humanity's timeline to assist our expansion to another planet. I wanted to contribute to something important, something that turned many brilliant minds towards an achievement that would eventually benefit the entirety of mankind.

I even hopped on the Tesla train; I recognized the existential threat that carbon emissions bore as well as the damaging, restrictive nature of building a society that scorns public transportation and promotes individual car ownership.

I didn't worship Elon so much as admired the causes he was advancing. That admiration withered over the years but my dream of contributing to the colonization of Mars helped me push through the ten years it took to earn my four year engineering degree. As details of his derangement came out, as he acquired twitter and more overtly spread his billionaire propaganda, that dream started to fade. The fascist salutes at Trump's inauguration crushed those dreams and ground them into a dust too fine to even attempt a rebuild.

My jaded ass still wants to benefit humanity so I've set my eyes on climate science, even as the country I was born in denies the havoc and damage our relentless consumption has wrought. Not just denial, but outright derision and contempt for the future of our world. Thus I hope to take my dreams elsewhere, hoping to find a culture with a clearer view of the consequences we must face and the changes we must make to preserve our planet.

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[–] btsax@reddthat.com 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I can't think of any artist more divorced from their work than Orson Scott Card

[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 5 points 9 hours ago

He was such an amazing writer. Some of his books and themes in those books broaden lots of horizons around peace, acceptance, gender, and even race. It was clear, at least to me, that when ender used the n-word he was rebuking the other boy for his use of a Chinese slur. That was a positive message in my childhood.

And yet later he goes quite racist with that shit essay about the Obamas, and obviously homophobic in a bunch of his other activities and works.

That being said, In a way I almost don't blame him for it, he was raised as a member of the LDS Church. While some people break out of the Mormon church, it's not easily done. The only thing that made his standard Mormon views on these topics "important" or "special" was that he is more famous than most members of the church.

I disagree with him on most things, but he's been programmed to act that way well beyond anything I experienced in my childhood and had to overcome.

Disappointed is the better word for my views on him.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 16 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

Nobody mentioned God?

I was raised Christian. Never deeply religious, but had all the bible study stuff, religious school, etc. Religion was comforting.

Then I got older and started seeing the fanboys for who they were. Hypocrites of the highest order. Assholes that armored themselves with being “Christians”. Trying to game the system or to buy their way into heaven, making it transactional. Heaven also seems like a shitty place; an existence locked into worshipping a deity while in a drugged out euphoria and never being able to learn, grow, and experience things again. A “Matrix”-like place. A God that is psychotic, manipulative, and a classic narcissistic abuser. Jesus would probably be a cool guy, but nobody actually gives a fuck about him. A book full of contradictions and other awful things that are constantly rationalized and massaged to mean whatever the needs of the individual might be. Just generally how awful any religion is, how it’s used to control people, do shitty things, and consolidate power and money.

Yeah, if you’re formerly religious, you get it. I’m an scientific atheist now.

Ironically, thanks to modern “christians”, I’ve found myself citing scripture to shitty people who claim to be religious to point out their hypocrisy, idolatry or whatever, and occasionally listening to religious people who point out how awful and un-christian these people are.

[–] Aljernon@lemmy.today 2 points 3 hours ago

If the Christian god was a person and he moved next door, i would move out of town. Can't trust that bastard.

[–] fyrilsol@kbin.melroy.org 11 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Bill Cosby (Obvious) Scott Adams (Shitty perspectives) 2 The Ranting Gryphon (Shitty perspectives) David Draiman (Signing Bombs, Pro-Israel)

[–] Aljernon@lemmy.today 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Scott Adams

I'll never understand how a guy who build his career on lambasting the Pointy Haired Boss would think the IRL Pointy Haired Boss would make a great president.

[–] BanMe@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Some people were born without critical thinking, some people seem to have discarded it midlife like a tattered coat.

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