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[–] Arghblarg@lemmy.ca 81 points 2 days ago (5 children)

What does this mean? That other employees are going to be expected to give up their own vacation/sick leave to pregnant co-workers? The state is so cheap they aren't willing to give them their own leave? WTAF.

[–] Ava@piefed.blahaj.zone 32 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Pretty much. Leave sharing policies are usually set up such that in some sort of extraordinary medical circumstance, employees can transfer paid leave to one another.

The idea is sorta that if a loved one has a major medical emergency and needs a lot of care for 3 months, other employees can transfer paid leave to help cover gaps. This makes sense as a way to cover edge cases in extreme circumstances, but "is having a child" definitely isn't such a case.

[–] mech@feddit.org 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

This makes sense as a way to cover edge cases in extreme circumstances

What would make sense is a law that guarantees extra leave in these edge cases.
For example in Germany, you can call in sick not only when you're sick but also when your child is.
There is no limit to how many sick days you can take.
(There are measures in place to prevent abuse of the system, of course. And being sick doesn't protect you from being fired, so you can't just stay home indefinitely. And the number of people abusing this system are VERY VERY low anyway. Cause most people actually aren't looking for ways to cheat all the time, and don't need to be watched over like prisoners.)

[–] FlordaMan@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I’m so happy to life in a country where all sick days are paid. Seems crazy to have to stress about getting paid when you are sick.

[–] shawn1122@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The American economy was birthed from chattel slavery so the idea of workers having rights has always been a challenging conceptualization here.

Many CEOs groan when they have to cede anything to their indentured.. cherished essential worker bangs pot.

[–] exu@feditown.com 8 points 2 days ago

The sane way is having regulation that protects your income and job for a few months

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[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't know what's more mind boggling to me, the OP or the fact that you can donate sick days. The fact that you can donate them means they're finite, what the fuck do you mean you don't know when you are going to be sick

[–] some_kind_of_guy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

My company just transitioned to a system where we get 30 days of paid leave annually. Sounds good for an American company, right? But that 30 days includes every category of leave (except parental, which is at least something, but only applies when your child is born.)

So in addition to maybe you want to take a vacation, this "bank" of leave also includes sick days, medical appointments, anything related to your kids after they're born, jury duty (you're required by federal law to attend if selected) and everything else. This is completely legal where I live btw.

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

It is your duty to cough on managers every time you're encouraged to come in sick.

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[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 44 points 2 days ago (2 children)

"Donated sick days"? WTF? Sick days should be a right. Maternity leave should be a right.

[–] PattyMcB@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (5 children)

FMLA IS a right (albeit crap compared to most of the rest of the civilized world). They just find ways to screw people out of it

[–] Tower@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

In addition to what everyone else has posted, FMLA also has the wonderful caveat of not coming into force until you've been at a job for one year. Yay...

[–] shawn1122@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

For people outside of the US, FMLA is up to three months of unpaid leave where you get the privilege of getting to keep your job and your benefits (though you continue to pay for them while not being paid) if you have a medical justification to be out of work.

For many American women, this is all they have access to for maternity leave. So they power through those three months (caring for a newborn no less) then have to scrap together the cash to put their 4 month old in day care ($15 to $20k annually) while not getting paid for that quarter of the year.

40% of infants are still breast feeding at 12 months. This means a new mom is often trying to find time at work to pump and is providing pumped milk to the daycare to be given to their child while they're working. Health officials consider only 40% to be less than ideal since breastfeeding has immunological and cognitive benefits for infants and remarkably cognitive benefits even for moms later in life. Many American women stop breast feeding at 6 months (the minimum recommended duration) since pumping at work becomes too cumbersome. 

Around 40 to 45% of women in the US don't even qualify for FMLA because your employer needs to be large enough (50+ employees) and you need to have worked for them long enough (usually a year) to qualify.

Blue states fill the gap with their own state run programs (still usually only three months, though you get some pay) but if you're in a red state the choice for many women is 1) have children and enter financial ruin or 2) don't have children.

America lags behind most advanced economies in this regard and there isn't any sign of these circumstances improving.

the right to take the time off, not the right to be paid for it.

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[–] sin_free_for_00_days@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Back when I was a teacher, we could "donate" a number of sick days to a pool that would help other teachers who ended up with long term health issues. And yes, you are correct.

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[–] Ilixtze@lemmy.ml 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Manufactured subjectivity for serfs: "Remember: Your children are very sacred to us until they are born into in this world; then they become slave-meat for degenerate billionaires."

[–] djmikeale@feddit.dk 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well we also don't get a lot of kids in Denmark, in spite of very generous parental benefits. But regardless, this news story is crazy dystopian.

[–] CancerMancer@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

Women often have to trade career progression for motherhood. That's a big ask considering the decades we've spent letting neoliberals devalue motherhood and labour in and out of the home.

~20 years ago my wife was mocked at university for wanting to have children. It hasn't improved much since.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 18 points 2 days ago (5 children)

What are "donated sick days" don't you have maternity leave in the USA?

[–] circuscritic@lemmy.ca 22 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It's where they make you beg your coworkers for their own sick leave to be transferred to you, or have HR send out an email blast begging employees to donate their own meager PTO to you, instead of the employer granting an appropriate amount of sick or maternity leave to begin with.

[–] BorgDrone@feddit.nl 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How does that even work? How can you transfer sick days? It’s not like you have a fixed amount of days you are allowed to be sick, right.. right?

[–] circuscritic@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You generally have a fixed amount of paid sick days per year. Those are what's being transferred.

[–] BorgDrone@feddit.nl 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That’s fucking insane.

Here, if you’re sick you get sick leave. There is no real limit other than after 2 years of illness you basically go on disability instead of sick leave.

[–] Lucelu2@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

You are told after a certain amount of time, if you do not return to work full time, you are laid off/fired and lose your health insurance. By law, they have to offer COBRA health insurance coverage to you but that is like 3X the cost of your insurance while employed. At that point, you apply for state funded health insurance (Medicaid) and are still given a work requirement... 80 hrs a month now unless you can prove disability and it takes at least 2 years to qualify for SSD (Social Security Disability). There are some carve outs... like if you have really bad cancer, there is a Medicaid spend down for treatment, or if you are in kidney failure and need regular hemodialysis.

[–] GMac@feddit.org 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

That's kinda sick (in the sense of being twisted and cruel)

[–] inclementimmigrant@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Americans have maternity leave under the Family Medical Leave Act but it's a paltry 12 weeks and unpaid.

So for many people, including these teachers, they have the choice of paying your bills or taking care of your kid or begging your coworkers to please give up their vacation days so you can continue to live while having a baby

Like every other third world country.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Like you get two hours to recover and they shove you back to work.

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[–] CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

“Guarantee access to donated leave bank” fuck you. New mothers need a guaranteed six weeks of recovery time and should be able to tag in with their partner for at least a year. Federally guaranteed.

The early years of human life are absolutely crucial for healthy development.

[–] Lucelu2@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

Our state legislatures really don't care about babies after they are born.

Who is expected to donate these sick days? Are any women not done with children ever going to donate days? Because you might need those for your own pregnancies. And once you have kids, you need all of your sick days because your kids can't go to daycare or school when they're sick. If you're done raising kids, you're probably old enough for aging related illnesses, you'll need those days for managing care and prevention (colonoscopy for example). That leaves the younger single folks without children, who inevitably have fewer sick days to start. I never had any sick days when I was teaching part time, and no health insurance either.

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think it's fascinating how they keep doing bizarro socialism (your sick days? our sick days), just to avoid making capitalists contribute to society.

It's more fascinating that we continue to vote for these people or don't care enough to vote against them.

[–] alaphic@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

I live in this state.

These same folks can't seem to figure out why we've had an ever worsening teacher shortage for the last couple of decades or so, btw. (Spoiler alert: It may not solely be due to the fact that everyone who can gets the fuck out of here as soon as humanly possible 🤯)

[–] mr_satan@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

For a moment there I was majorly confused as I read it:

William says Volkswagen teachers who are pregnant, new mothers would have access to donated sick days.

But the Bill is probably not a name here and the Volkswagen is VW not WV.


The grammar of the headline is still trash tho:

The law says some states teachers who are pregnant, new mothers would have access to donated sick days.

[–] Darkcoffee@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

West Virginia lol. One of the worst states

[–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

You misunderstood it, rewrote it incorrectly and then got mad at yourself.

It's a bill, not law yet so it's not correct to call it a law. In the US it's pretty common to shorten states to some initials (such as FL, NY, CA).

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 days ago

What an uncivilized shithole.

[–] notsosure@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You couldn’t make this shit up

[–] Darkcoffee@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

Should have posted this in nottheonion honestly.

[–] rogsson@piefed.social 8 points 2 days ago

Thanks I hate it

[–] warm@kbin.earth 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Thanks for nothing, Elliott Prick.

Also, fuck you.

[–] boogiebored@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

The idea is women should not be working in the first place. Taking all the men jobs like teaching children!

🤡

[–] RedGreenBlue@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Bill will donate every dollar of his for this. Right? I don't think bill thought this through.

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