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My mother has been experiencing back pain for a few months now, and insists her chiropractor is making it "tolerable."

Whenever I plead with her to see a doctor or a physical therapist, or suggest that maybe the chiropractor is the problem she gets very upset with me. There is no convincing her of any alternative, she won't even get a second opinion and I'm not quite sure how to help at this point.

My sister got her got her an appointment to see a massage therapist, which she went to and said nothing but good things about, but she will not budge on the chiropractor.

I dunno maybe I'll just shut up about it, but it all just seems like quackery to me.

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[–] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 15 points 15 hours ago

It's quackery and I'll tell you this, actual physiotherapy from medical professionals is often around the same price as chiropractic care. If you have back issues that "need a chiropractor" then what you really need is physiotherapy where they can target the areas that are giving you trouble and help you develop muscles with exercises that strengthen the back and relieve the pain. Eventually, you don't even need the physiotherapy at all anymore. Unlike chiropractic which will expect that you will never improve and need regular care for the rest of your life.

[–] Nopeace@hexbear.net 17 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

fuckin crazy to me medical insurance covers chiro but not dental

[–] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 12 points 15 hours ago

the american dental association is literally evil and has fought viciously to keep it this way its also why dental is not part of medicare

For spinal manipulation therapy, it helps with acute relief a decent amount and helps with chronic relief a little bit^[Rubinstein et al. 2019 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30867144/]. It isn't good but very slightly better than nothing.

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 53 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

It's nonsense and the outcome ranges from decent massage to life-changing injury.

[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 23 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

What happened to Kevin Sorbo is fucked

The guy who invented it was taught by a ghost, and claimed the the first adjustment he preformed was perfect and that every subsequent adjustment preformed by anyone would decline in quality, which is not how medicine or science works

[–] red_giant@hexbear.net 11 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Chiro turns you into a born again Christian nut job?

[–] Robert_Kennedy_Jr@hexbear.net 21 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

He had a stroke after a chiro cracked his neck and seemingly had a personality shift after.

[–] Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net 10 points 18 hours ago

Forced Fettermanization, you hate to see it folks

[–] Rom@hexbear.net 10 points 19 hours ago

Many such cases

[–] D61@hexbear.net 8 points 19 hours ago

holy shit, I had no idea about this.

[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 6 points 20 hours ago

It did to Sorbo

[–] FloridaBoi@hexbear.net 14 points 21 hours ago
[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 22 points 19 hours ago

Best case scenario, it's just massage therapy with a fancy hat on. Worst case scenario, you end up paralyzed.

[–] Jabril@hexbear.net 11 points 16 hours ago

The only thing that will potentially solve physical pain like this is getting stronger. A good physical therapist will guide on how to do it properly, targeting specific muscles in a specific order for your specific symptoms. Getting massage done can be helpful for relief and getting blood flow to the areas you are working on but on its own it won't solve the problem of being physically weak and your muscles not being able to distribute the kinetic load properly without getting injured.

[–] lowspeedchase@lemmy.dbzer0.com 45 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

It's a placebo. A glorified massage masquerading as medical treatment. You get a long time in a room with someone playing doctor, they spend on average 6x the amount of time per client than a real doctor. They listen to your concerns, they 'address' them on the spot, no pills, no needles. They spend the entire time making you feel like you are working on the issue(s) together. Many people flock to this nonsense because of how comercialized and de-humanized American medicine has become as an institution.

[–] Civility@hexbear.net 3 points 15 hours ago

G O O D post

[–] Carl@hexbear.net 10 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

There is definitely something to be learned about where our medical system falls short. Granted, it falls short first and foremost in terms of being delivered to people who need it, but if we solved that problem the next one we might think about looking at is the percieved impersonality of doctors and the alienating nature of the whole medical system.

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 2 points 16 hours ago

Medicine will always be like that under capitalism, because it is true: as a patient, you are a profit vector for the hospital and all the medical suppliers. It is therefore rational to treat patients as so many dollar bills flowing through the campus.

Only when medicine is not a means for profit, but instead a means for humanization itself - for reduction of suffering, either by cure or by palliation - will it be possible for the patient experience to be tolerable. Otherwise it’s about as futile as wishing for capitalist reforms to solve the labor problem in general.

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 20 points 19 hours ago

It's a part of the health grift scene imo.

Years ago I went to one, once. As my physical therapist actually suggested it. I had terrible back pain at the time and this person started talking about chakras and my internal organs and how something in me isn't aligned right. Also lots of detox talk and psych talk. She manipulated my back with one of those muscle hammers and made things so much worse. I have a degree related to exercise and rehab myself and the things she said were such woowoo that I am still annoyed I spent money on it.

The anti-vax etc. stuff and drinking silver water and such venn diagram also tends to be a full circle with these people.

[–] sourquincelog@hexbear.net 24 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

PT/massage/stretching (it's free) is how you're actually supposed to treat this type of pain

[–] Inui@hexbear.net 6 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I think people's issue is that they hear physical "therapy" and assume that those people are only there to treat major injuries. Like all those movies where someone learns to walk again after an accident. To the average person, it sounds like going to a surgeon when you're just complaining about a headache.

[–] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 7 points 15 hours ago

also remember that early chiropractic was a cult and the cofounder murdered the founder because he wasnt monotozing the cult enough

[–] TheAsianDonKnots@lemmy.zip 21 points 21 hours ago

The most life changing therapy for me was Physical Therapy. For years I was going to a chiropractor for neck pain or I’d just crack my neck myself, nothing worked. Then I got into a Motorsport accident and was assigned a PT named Doug who worked with me for three months and gave me a personalized workbook to keep going at home. The neck pain was a pinched nerve in my shoulder. If I feel it getting stiff again, a few stretches and it goes away. I love you, Doug!

[–] BodyBySisyphus@hexbear.net 19 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I'd argue that any "medical" practice whose founder claimed he learned his techniques from a ghost should probably be avoided on that basis alone.

It is, however, a legitimate if controversial strategy in Go.

[–] glimmer_twin@hexbear.net 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

What about from a Geist? Asking for a friend hegel

[–] GoodGuyWithACat@hexbear.net 3 points 16 hours ago

What about a spectre haunting Europe?

[–] glimmer_twin@hexbear.net 11 points 19 hours ago

I like to pop the fluid bubbles in my joints cos it feels good.

I would not pay some quack vast amounts of money to fuck around with my skeletal system and the parts of my body when my extremely important nerves travel to my brain.

[–] commieradcat@hexbear.net 9 points 18 hours ago

It faaaake fr

[–] Omegamint@hexbear.net 12 points 19 hours ago

I just got done with months of visits to a chiropractor, shit is so fake lol. The place I was sent to is literally a patient mill to essentially defraud insurance, as far as I could tell. Except it’s not really “fraud” since this is seen as legitimate medical care. It’s plainly absurd.

Honestly can’t wait to buy an inverter table and get way more benefits than these visits ever did lol

[–] regul@hexbear.net 17 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

It's quackery.

But for some reason, in the US, it's often covered by insurance.

[–] NewAcctWhoDis@hexbear.net 10 points 19 hours ago

They're extremely good at lobbying

[–] stink@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 11 hours ago

Squat University has hundreds of free videos on youtube that give good exercises that target weak muscles. She will need to see a real doctor who can figure out what's wrong.

[–] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 13 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

It's a load of shit pseudomedicalscience filled with charlatans that believe in their own myths so fervently they make scientologists look impious in comparison, who's bankrollers have put enough money in the right pockets to get the appearance of legitimacy in the professional world. It's the perfect petite bourgeois commodity because it treats symptoms without curing them ensuring a long-term revenue stream for what you could get with a few quarters in the old mall massage chair.

I legit get bewildered looks when I suggest people go to a physical therapist instead of one of those charlatans. They're so widely seen as orthopedic spine physicians that saying otherwise undermines your credibility instead of theirs.

[I remembered this vid by doc Raynor giving a good overview of the history of the pseudomedicalscience and gives a more expert perspective on it and positive alternatives to chiropractic charlatans

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 15 points 21 hours ago

look up something called "innate intelligence", it's the foundation of chiropracty and it should be too ridiculous even for your mom to take seriously.

or she's got some other reason to be seeing the chiro

[–] Robert_Kennedy_Jr@hexbear.net 14 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I've heard that there are reasonable chiropractors but the majority of them are going to tell you you can cure ear infections by cracking your neck. There's been a number of people who die from sessions because they stroked out from pinched/damaged arteries.

https://the-health-site.com/has-a-chiropractor-ever-killed-someone.html

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 7 points 19 hours ago

even the "reasonable" ones are just glorified massage therapists, and carry the same inherent danger of forcibly fucking with your spine

you can replicate all the effective things they do by getting some hot and cold packs and learning to stretch and relax different muscles

[–] D61@hexbear.net 8 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I side with the "its bullshit" crowd but also there are people who open a chiropractic shop with backgrounds in like, sports medicine and physical therapy.

In a moment of desperation I went to a local chiropractor for a bit who did have a background in actual physical therapy stuff. It was nice to be taken seriously about the pain and discomfort but outside of having an actual person with some background knowledge saying "hey, here's some light exercises and stretching to do on your own and here's some machines you can use" paying them 50 bucks for 30 minutes of "me using their equipment on my own and ending the time with 5 minutes of having a vibrating popping gun thing on my back" once or twice a week was way too much money.

[–] Keld@hexbear.net 2 points 16 hours ago

but also there are people who open a chiropractic shop with backgrounds in like, sports medicine and physical therapy.

There are doctors who give acupuncture.

[–] sewer_rat_420@hexbear.net 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

When I was suspended from college for drugs, I had to get drug tested monthly at a local chiropractor and he weirded me out. He was always wearing a tux vest and a bowtie. And I guess offering drug testing was just another easy cash flow.

Once I slipped and dropped my piss all over his nice bathroom, he was furious but it was funny except I had to chug some water and generate more piss.

Anyway, chiropractic is 100% a sham medicine with a very dubious history that for some reason we tolerate and treat as if it is real medicine. It's a strange synthesis of various crockeries with an "eastern" veneer. If you really wanted alternative medicine, I would go to a legitimate traditional eastern practicioner before I ever went to a chiropractor, because at least traditional eastern medicine has millenia of history. Chiropractors can certainly fuck up your shit worse then how you came in.

And fuck off with anyone performing chiropractic on animals or even infants which I have seen.

And also as others chatters say, your mother probably needs to see a psychical therapist to actually get at the root of her problems. I am young (ish) but had some back and hip pain recently flare up, losing 10 lbs and gaining a tiny amount of strength pretty much made it go away.

I'm guessing your mom is older and probably will always have some level of back pain, but PT is the best way to get some relief. My dad recently had both knees replaced and it helped his back pain immensely, so I would also suggest looking into potential knee or hip problems that cause back pain due to the way she compensates. Of course, that's a pretty drastic surgery, which obviously costs money if you live in a shit hole like the USA, with its own tough recovery that requires it's own PT (I am very happy my dad got to medicare age and is a good patient when it comes to PT)

[–] Bobson_Dugnutt@hexbear.net 7 points 19 hours ago

You might get some temporary relief, but in my experience physical therapy, massage, yoga, stretching, and exercise are all better in the long term.

I have a spot in my back that often gets "stuck" for lack of a better word. Like everything gets painfully clenched up and I can't stand up straight fully. I've gone to a couple chiropractors and sometimes they're able to crack that spot and get it unstuck, but that relief usually only lasts a few days. For a while my insurance paid for me to get a massage and a physical therapy session every week, and that helped more than anything, although it took a couple weeks to see big results. Eventually I was able to stretch and loosen up that spot in my back by myself.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 9 points 21 hours ago

From what I gather off watching asmr edits of woo woo chiro stuff it's a load of quackery.

[–] nothx@hexbear.net 4 points 19 hours ago

Yeah, chiropractors are bullshit and most real doctors think so too.

A deep tissue massage and a physical therapist to teach good stretching techniques will do more in the long term for less money.

[–] NewAcctWhoDis@hexbear.net 4 points 19 hours ago