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My mother has been experiencing back pain for a few months now, and insists her chiropractor is making it "tolerable."

Whenever I plead with her to see a doctor or a physical therapist, or suggest that maybe the chiropractor is the problem she gets very upset with me. There is no convincing her of any alternative, she won't even get a second opinion and I'm not quite sure how to help at this point.

My sister got her got her an appointment to see a massage therapist, which she went to and said nothing but good things about, but she will not budge on the chiropractor.

I dunno maybe I'll just shut up about it, but it all just seems like quackery to me.

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[–] Jabril@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

The only thing that will potentially solve physical pain like this is getting stronger. A good physical therapist will guide on how to do it properly, targeting specific muscles in a specific order for your specific symptoms. Getting massage done can be helpful for relief and getting blood flow to the areas you are working on but on its own it won't solve the problem of being physically weak and your muscles not being able to distribute the kinetic load properly without getting injured.