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[–] saimen@feddit.org -1 points 1 hour ago
[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 9 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Ursula is great if you think “little bear” and not “octopus villain”

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 20 hours ago

I think neither, but "Ursula von der Leyen" and so am not convinced... ;-)

[–] affenlehrer@feddit.org 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hildegard und Brunhilde natürlich

[–] raldone01@lemmy.world 1 points 20 minutes ago* (last edited 18 minutes ago)

und Kunigunde!

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 day ago
[–] NotACentrifugalBird@infosec.pub 5 points 22 hours ago (2 children)
[–] Lawnman23@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

If you’re late, you don’t get fruit cup.

Edit: wrong movie, same Cloris. I’m leaving it.

[–] human@slrpnk.net 3 points 18 hours ago
[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's actually kind of a hard question, as most of the ones in common use are imports from other languages.

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yeah, im also not interested in common names, but cool ones. If they're imported, it doesn't really matter. I just want a name that fits into the German language well.

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you are considering naming a child, think twice about using a "cool" exotic name.

Think about your child having to visit school one day and especially girl groups will happily take any strange standout feature as a source for bullying (own experience with a girl in elementary school).

Having said that, Mathilde will probably be ok, Brunhilde less so, although it is arguably much cooler.

It's complicated...

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Maybe your child was being bullied for another reason. I myself have a name which is represented in the world by exactly 2 people, and I did not get bullied in the slightest. Also, I'm naming my future girlfriend. Not my child, I would never torture a soul by birthing it on earth.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Naming your future girlfriend? What does that mean?

[–] Rednax@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

My guess is that he is a DnD player that has to flash out the background of his character, so the DM can start using characters from his background.

[–] eneff@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not OP, but I would guess their partner is transitioning and looking for a new name.

[–] tja@sh.itjust.works 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Or maybe it's for an AI roleplay bot

[–] meow@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 21 hours ago

No, its for me :3

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, you got that slightly wrong.
My daughter was one of the bullies... 🫣

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Individually, each of the girls is super sweet, thoughtful and considerate.

As a group it is all about fitting in and punishing any kind of non-conformity.

They are slowly learning, though.

This type of group dynamic seems not to be uncommon, I've been told.
Especially (but not exclusively) within girl groups.

Hence my earlier call for caution.

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

That's a British name, though.

In German, "Imogen" sounds like it is the name of some prescription medicine.

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Oops :/ it sounds like a medicine in American English too. I still think it's a pretty name though.

[–] No_Money_Just_Change@feddit.org 2 points 20 hours ago

As a German: I like Franziska and Elisabeth (even though it also exists in English)

[–] embed_me@programming.dev 3 points 23 hours ago
[–] theTarrasque@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] melodious_thunk@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] gigachad@piefed.social 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I do genealogy. I have a great great great great grandmother who is named "Rosine Concordie". Other than that, I like classics like "Adelheid" or "Elfriede"

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

TIL that "Rosine" had been a common name in Southern Germany until the end of the 19. century, when it started being used the way it is today (as the name for raisins).

I also learned that the word for "raisin" before "Rosine" was "Zibebe".

[–] gigachad@piefed.social 1 points 18 hours ago

Oh wow, now I learned something too, never heard that term before. I have two Rosine's in my family tree, born 1793 and 1826, both in Saxony-Anhalt.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 21 hours ago

I realized I never even met a German...

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago
[–] renzhexiangjiao@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] smiletolerantly@awful.systems 7 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

(I know this is in reference to Sousou no Frieren, but just in case: that's not an actual German name, it's just a German verb. Never even seen it used as a name.)

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I wonder if by now it would have become acceptable as a girl's name by the German authorities.
There might already exist real-life Frierens in Germany!

[–] smiletolerantly@awful.systems 1 points 20 hours ago

Hm... Maybe? Only one way to find out!

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Babette

Was my great grandma's name, who loved me so much when I was little.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 1 points 17 hours ago

So?

It was a very common firstname around here at that time.

[–] HerrVorragend@lemmy.world 0 points 20 hours ago