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My mom passed in December too, her anniversary was 2 days ago. idk what to think, I mean the hospital wouldn't release him if he was going to die, right? Please send me good karma, I might be at odds with him and he's not a good person, but I don't want him to die on me.

edit: just got off the phone with him, called to check in, he said he's feeling better, he was listening to his music and vibing with his cat so that puts my mind a bit more at ease.

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[–] Saeculum@hexbear.net 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Hospitals don't like people staying there any longer than they have to because they are the most dangerous place a vulnerable person can be. Full of disease.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago

Makes sense I guess.

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

hospitals are absolutely filthy, noisy, crawling with disease, uncomfortable and have shitty food. hospitals are geared towards treating a patient rather than recovery. if they discharged your dad that means that the doctors think he probably only needs rest and his medications. hopefully they are right and your dad makes a full recovery.

[–] P1d40n3@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I will keep your father in my prayers

[–] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

He'll probably be okay but it depends on what kinda pneumonia he's got and what other complications and all that but yeah I assume that the hospital wouldn't just send him home if he were worsening. If it's bacterial and he's on antibiotics and not getting worse then he'll probably be okay for sure IMO*

*not a doctor

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's his heart rn, I think he's over the sickness? Anyway that's at least a bit more reassuring, thank you.

[–] supdawg813@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

If he keeps getting sick don't let them send you off without a good explanation. My grandpa would get repeated blood infections. Could never figure out what was wrong, we (the family) all assumed he was just bad about finishing his antibiotics. Medical staff didn't figure out till wayyy too late and some months in the hospital that his heart valve replacement was infected. Could have saved us a whole lot of grief if that was caught sooner. NAD and not to scare you, just to say that medical neglect does happen so trust your gut.

On a lighter note, sending good vibes your way cuddle

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Sending you love. My relationship with my dad is different than yours, but he too is also in failing health. If you ever wanna DM to vent, feel free Care-Comrade

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

ty and will do

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 1 points 2 days ago
[–] toarmspunies@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago
[–] HarryLime@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago

meow-hug Hoping the best for you and your dad

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago
[–] deforestgump@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)
[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Wishing a swift recovery to your dad sfs

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 1 points 2 days ago