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[โ€“] Stuart_Munto@lemmy.world 54 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[โ€“] 0_o7@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Finally... Phew!

[โ€“] cobysev@lemmy.world 35 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I just wish I could see how life goes on without me. How our world changes in the future beyond my limited time on this planet.

I think about people who lived hundreds of years ago. How they couldn't even imagine the scientific and technological advancements that we have. And then I think about hundreds of years into the future. What changes will be so extreme and advanced that I can't even imagine it today?

I wish there was some way for me to glimpse into that future and see where society is heading. Will we expand out to the stars? Will we be extinct long before we leave this planet? What's the ultimate future for humanity? These are questions I want to know, but will never get a chance to find out, unless everyone but me dies out in the next 30-40 years. And I highly doubt that's gonna happen.

[โ€“] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 month ago

Tried to figure out how to post this comment a couple times without it sounding like proselyting my own view point. Can't manage it. So I'll just add this here: that's not what I'm doing! I'm not attempting to convince anyone of anything. Lol.

I'm a nondualist. Panentheism, to be more specific. I believe that existence is God's way of experiencing. In other words, we are not just ourselves, and not just reincarnated as the next thing down the line, or spending eternity in heaven. But that every creature, every rock, every thing that has ever or will ever exist is you. You are Ghandi, and you're also your own mother. You're hitler, and you're Stalin. You are God. And in between, after, and before, when you're in that state of being without limitations, without boundaries and illusions of duality and separateness, you are fully aware of every thing you have been and will be. You understand all.

It brings me comfort. It has allowed me to come to peace with the fact that I will die some day. It hasn't given me peace for the people I have lost, but I try to remember them as the forms of God I love best, and the forms of God that knew me best. One day I will be gone, and I will dissolve back into the divine, and I won't be so sad about losing those forms and those people, because I will be with them, as them, and know them better than I could ever have in this form.

As a little aside, another way I like to look at this is through a Betty White quote. She once asked her mother what happens after we die, and her mother told her it was a secret. So whenever Betty lost someone she would say to herself "they learned the secret today"

The secret is that you get to learn everything, at least as far as I believe.

[โ€“] West_of_West@piefed.social 5 points 1 month ago

When you lost Age of Empires and the fog of war disappeared and you could see everything for the rest fo the game. That's the goal.

[โ€“] mp3@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

I don't want just to see the future, but the past as well. Would be nice to witness some unadulterated historical moments.

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[โ€“] Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I just want to know that my wife is safe. That's the only thing that would keep me here.

[โ€“] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My first instinct is to make a crude joke about your wife.

But that's actually really sweet!

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[โ€“] murmelade@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 month ago

Comprehensive stats for my run.

[โ€“] crazyminner@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There is no "know" after you die. Best to know before you die. After there is nothing.

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[โ€“] PiecePractical@midwest.social 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

OMG! So many things. I'd probably spend months looking through the stats of my life alone. But first, dinosaurs! What did they actually look like? How did they act? What actually killed them?

[โ€“] viking@beehaw.org 3 points 1 month ago

I want to know how many steps I took and how much time I spent taking showers and how many times I narrowly escaped death, etc.

[โ€“] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago

Why am I still here?

[โ€“] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[โ€“] everett@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

At the time of death, or, uh, cumulatively?

[โ€“] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

A little from column A little from column b

[โ€“] NightFantom@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 month ago

So that's why it's called cumsum?

[โ€“] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What was the purpose of all these shenanigans?

[โ€“] Antagnostic@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

To have them.

[โ€“] theneverfox@pawb.social 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Why I signed up to go through this hellscape

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[โ€“] Sergio@piefed.social 8 points 1 month ago

"The dead know only one thing: it's better to be alive." -Full Metal Jacket

[โ€“] ZeroHora@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago

Was HL3 good?

[โ€“] gray@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago

Why do we have consciousness?

[โ€“] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

The exact weight of all my poops combined. I feel like I had a productive life.

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[โ€“] andallthat@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

If I know anything at all after I'm dead, I will already have the answer to the biggest question from all major religions

How does this whole haunting thing work? Cuz I got a few heart attacks to dish out.

[โ€“] Shdwdrgn@mander.xyz 5 points 1 month ago

How to live forever. Oh wait...

[โ€“] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Well Iโ€™d definitely want to know how the universe was formed.

[โ€“] JustVik@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago

I just humbly want to know who would have thought that creating a universe with so many terrible things was a good idea?

[โ€“] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Is my partner okay and do my comrades succeed

[โ€“] TechnoCat@piefed.social 5 points 1 month ago

I'd want to know future generations know I'm sorry for the planet we left them.

[โ€“] Gates9@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

wtf was that all about?

[โ€“] moretruth@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

I want to know if the Gnostics were right and this really is a prison planet for consciousnesses. The next thing I want to know is how to escape from the prison.

[โ€“] sylver_dragon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Wait, I'm conscious enough to have questions? So, now what?

[โ€“] frankenswine@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

my score and current rank

[โ€“] MercuryGenisus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

That I mattered.

[โ€“] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

I want to know what the weirdest thing that has or will ever happen in the universe. Not necesarily what caused it, but a thorough understanding of what it was and why it was weird.

[โ€“] rudra_sanatana@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

How not to be born again, how not to exist. Be free of the worldly miseries.

Advaita Vedanta courtesy

[โ€“] Inkstainthebat@pawb.social 3 points 1 month ago

If I get infinite attempts cus I feel like if I don't go for another run I'm gonna get bored at some point

[โ€“] dumbass@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago
[โ€“] chunes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

How to destroy this universe as well as anyone who had a hand in its creation.

[โ€“] daannii@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

"In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and has been widely regarded as a bad move"

-Hitchhikers guide to the galaxy, Douglas Adams

That I was able to retaliate against the billionaire class that made my people suffer. Can I throw rubbish at them while their spirits are chained in the bad place?

[โ€“] TevTra@lemmy.tevtra.com 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

First thing first: Where are all my cats that already went ahead of me. We've got lots of things to catch up on.

[โ€“] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

We can find lost things after we die? I wanna be reunited with all the ponytail holders-rubberbands-hair-baubles I've lost over the years.

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