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Male circumcision is genital mutilation, and I think it's pretty gross that it's still so common. I'm grateful that I'm American and my parents didn't mutilate my dick when I was a baby.
I'm glad you're asking and taking people's opinions with validity because it's important that you don't do that to your baby.
America has a 90 percent circumcision rate.
Canada has a 40 percent rate.
Most of the rest of the world doesn't do that.
I'm not letting any stranger cut a piece of my boys parts off.
Nope. Don’t mutilate your child.
Nope. Heavens no. It’s a feel-good part of the body, hell no.
The only requirement is to keep it clean. Parents shouldn’t shy away from educating your boys about this and have some open conversations about it.
Might as well ask if you wouldn’t mind having one fingertip shaved off at birth, the difference being you’d know what you were missing because you have the other fingers to compare it to.
Never! Just wash your penises with soap, it's not that hard!
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No
Have I ever wished someone had genitally mutilated me as a baby?
Never even crossed my mind.
women who are generally grossed out by uncircumcised men
And this must be an American thing, because I haven't met one and from what I've been told, most women find uncirc more attractive.
And as for bullying, in my school, if anything, the circumsised would have been bullied for having "half dicks". Not that I ever saw anyone be bullied over their dicks, that's just fucking weird.
I mean, pull the skin back and you can’t tell…
Considering that so many people are circumsized, and I have yet to meet anyone who says they are terribly unhappy about it, I'll start off by saying that I really don't think it matters either way.
However, I am uncircumsized, and American. I literally don't think about it at all. I was bullied a lot in school - but never about my foreskin. I've slept with a lot of women - none of them have ever cared (the foreskin stretches away when you get hard, you can't even see it).
Focus on giving your kid material resources and emotional support, and on setting a good example of being a happy, functional human. This just doesn't matter
Fuck no.
There will always be one kid who will try and find something to bully someone else about.
Not American, not circumcised and I never want to be.
When my son was born, I casually asked his mother (my now-ex-wife) whether he should be circumcised because it was a question on a form. I hadn't thought about till then, we hadn't discussed it. She was vehemently against it, and I didn't care one way or the other, so that was the end of that.
There won't be any bullying about this, because most boys don't see each other naked anymore, in P.E. for instance, at least not in the U.S., and most boys are not circumcised now.
Of course, circumcision started with and is tied to religious BS, but in the sixties, when I was born, it was so common even my atheist parents had it done to their two sons. I supposed it was recommended for "health reasons", I dunno. Also, my dad was, but I don't know why--I don't know much about that side of my family.
It's just how I've always been, I've never resented them for having it done. I've never wished I wasn't or wondered what I missed, or had any desire to try to recreate it. I'm sure my uncircumcised son feels the same way, we haven't discussed it.
No and We would never even see if anyone was circumcised or not in school
No, of course not. That’s weird.
Nope
Nope, never.
I live in the UK, I’m in my 40’s and I’ve only ever known a single person who needed to be circumcised for medical reasons.
Beyond medical reasons, which are honestly pretty rare in reality, there’s no need.
I’ve literally never heard an uncircumcised person express a desire to be circumcised.
Same. I bet it was the same person.
IMO circumcision is genital mutilation and that's always wrong in general. In the very few cases where it actually has health benefits you can still do it later in life, it's not a big problem. You're not missing out on anything if you don't do it.
I have no idea where this American obsession with male circumcision comes from. It is an unnecessary medical procedure that you only share with Jews, but they at least can cite their ancient religion as an excuse.
Anyone else in the world just shake their heads about this.
Yeah. "Did you ever wish you were circumcised?"
Bro I don't even remember circumcision exists until an American brings it up lmao, hell no.
It was supposed to help stop masturbation or something. Why it's still a thing is a bit of a mystery, but then they've always been a bit odd over there.
I'd never sacrifice 50% of the feelings for the sake of a shriveled tip to please some invisible sky daddy.
Male genital mutilation should be as outlawed as female.
And... Kids bullying others over their foreskin? I don't think I ever saw any classmate's dick in my life. Why is that even a thing?
I have never met anyone circumcised before, nor even heard of one outside of celebrities and internet randoms like this.
So the thing about some being grossed out is purely cultural and not a universal thing. I find it odd that some would be grossed out about a thing like that, but if you choose to remain within that culture, it’s probably sensible to account for that. But I would bet it’s really not a big deal for anyone despite what they say. There are more important things going on whenever people end up in a situation where that comes up. I wouldn’t worry about that, but the again I don’t know your culture, maybe it is a big deal.
For me personally, I really like my “hood” so to say. Keeps the senses more heightened there when the delicate part does not chafe around and touch everything all the time. On top of that, I find much more hygienic to have a natural “shield” that is easy to clean and keep regulated in terms of pH and all. No doubt it would be more problematic in hot climates where there might be more sweating and stuff, that would require more intense and frequent upkeep, but here in the global North, I think it would be disadvantageous not to have the natural luxury.
Not only would I not want a circumsization, I find it actively harmful to myself and my personal health. I also find the practice extremely off-putting and horrifying, but then again all cultures come with their own “barbaric” traditions so to say, so I’m not about to yuck anyone’s yum. You do you, I say, live your best life.
It does come with some required upkeep and work, but so do our teeth. If you maintain them, they’re going to be healthy and beneficial overall. No need to cut them off in my opinion, just because it’s extra work. But that’s not the justification for the cut, so I also don’t mean to sound patronizing here. Just my view on it.
i for a moment read global north as north Korea and was really confused.
It’s not even that much “upkeep”, honestly, to the point I wouldn’t really consider it as such. But these things are attached to men, and despite being a man myself it is amazing how alienated from my own gender I feel whenever the topic of basic personal hygiene comes up. I’m Captain Man right up until I use a public washroom and the seat’s got piss on it and the dude’s walking out of there without washing his hands like bro.
I was circumcised at 40 for medical reasons, due to phimosis. That was a blessing after several years of issues with having normal intercourse and having little operations done that were ultimately ineffective.
Anyway, it's definitely different and I am much less sensitive. I definitely prefer being uncircumcised, just not, you know, with phimosis.
Why is Christianity always so obsessed with little boys penises? It’s fucking gross.
Yes, I have a sometimes uncomfortably tight foreskin and even asked my doctor about it. In the end, I decided it wasn't bad enough to warrant the surgery.
No, I have never wished that. But then again no one I know is circumcised
No, not once have I ever even considered it.
I have never ever wished that. But I'm also not American or Jewish so I wasn't bullied for being intact.
