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Hello everyone~ The megathread is very eepy this week so I am being very quiet and not posting a whole essay as that might disturb their rest. The megathread does a lot of work for us after all, so they deserve to rest a little. Our regularly scheduled effortposts will continue next week.

Nonetheless, I hope that you (yes you!) are doing well, whenever it may be that you happen to be dropping in. I wish you all the best~


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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

One of my irl adopted little sisters and I did a little picnic lunch today where we each made eachother desserts and she made me a whole cake and I can't I do not deserve this especially when I only made her mediocre raspberry and lemon crepes

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I think it was a physics class where we started to learn the rate of cooling for liquids and I kick myself for not paying better attention to that for how long I gotta wait for my soup to cool down sicko-no

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Was going over space in my hard drive and realized couple Gbs of space were just minecraft modpacks I forgot about. Did get the urge to play some of them but thought against it, minecraft is more fun when I was playing it with friends than by myself.

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Introducing the new doggirl walkie talkie idea, so you know how like regular walkie talkies use like magic/radiowaves to transit sounds we'll use a network of doggirl-thumbsup to pass messages along doggirl to doggirl. I'm more the idea haver so someone else will need to set this up and remember to give me credit alright catgirl-salute

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

awwrrryyfff!!! we volunteeerrrr :3

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[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

I made a really huge decision a little bit ago and made it official last night. It has the potential to REALLY fuck up the rest of my life, but it was kinda necessary :(

I very rarely wish I was cis but these are the kinds of things that put me in that mentality sometimes

[โ€“] SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 week ago

Me too Kiki, me too

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

me when I'm playing any soulsbourne game

[โ€“] ahrienby@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hey everyone. I just need to inform everyone, that my fav Vtuber Rain, the Radical Dame has reached 2k subs during the last livestream.

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[โ€“] rando895@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 week ago

Maybe some childhood trauma? But mostly good feels:

spoiler

I have had a lot of dreams throughout my life that were some flavour of "they're going to find out your faking it!" (It being gender something)

And since my egg exploded into a thousand pieces I haven't really had any dreams where I see myself as any gender presentation.

Well, the other night, I had a dream that a friend and I were going to another friend's house, and this friend was (relevant) Muslim. We get there, she invites us in, and she wasn't wearing her (it was a dream so I don't know, hijab maybe? ) and I was confused. I said something like " ohh, your not wearing your (hijab)?" And she said to me: "well, you're a woman aren't you?".

So I guess this means my brain is starting to work through the mess of -phobia's and emotional suppressions/repressions , and moving towards acceptance?

Not sure lol but I know I have been on an emotional rollercoaster, and I am sooooo happy that I have incredibly supportive friends! Like (I'm getting yappy now lol) I was terrified to come out to them, but it turns out that its because I didn't know they cared so much about me and now I'm both happy that they do, and that I'm now emotionally available enough to know it. Family will be harder for me but we all have to go at our own speed, and it sort of feels like I'm speed running it.

More yappy lol:

spoiler

Now that I feel myself around friends, all I want to do is hang out and chat with them. I worry, maybe unfounded, that I am waaay too much (adhd makes impulse control really hard) for them. And I probably am to some extent. Idk, its probably good to spread myself out between different friends/friend groups so I don't Icarus this lol

[โ€“] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

How do you keep a middle part in place?

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

might go to a karaoke night next week. should i sing Baka Mitai or is that too dorky?

vote kiryu-dame-da-ne for "he'll yeah EstraDoll, that's a great song you should do it"

vote kiryu-pain for "no EstraDoll that's weeb shit from a video game sing Who Can It Be Now instead"

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I feel like baka mitai would go hard if you can really fucking nail it, anything less and it will come off as cringe

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Oh damn, I just realized why I am feeling so depressed and stuff. It's cause I haven't had any E for the past multiple weeks (not that I forgot to take shots, but because of circumstances).

Once I can resume hormones again, I think I will switch from my 10 days schedule to a weekly schedule again. I'm done with the negativity and mood swings.

[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

and i can go rot in the corner to make space for the pretty girls

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (4 children)

No, you can come join our gremlin circle instead! We have board games

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[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

age, dysphoriaPreemptively bumming myself out because I'm gonna be way older than everyone else at school. I'm not a freshman girl. I'm gonna turn 30. I'll never have those formative experiences of being feminine.

It would have been cool to learn feminine things from a feminine person. As it stands I feel like I'm teaching myself rune magic, or alchemy or some shit.

spoiler doom Part of me is like, what if we just wild out? It's not like anybody is going to say anything either way. I think I've given people a lot of time and space to step up, notice, hold space in the ways that make sense to me. I think I've been very quiet so others can speak comfortably. I think I've waited for people to turn to me and say "you're acting different. what's up?" or "is everything okay?" and they didn't.

All of this was me being accommodating. Presenting myself in a way that people could help but I wasn't forcing them to by weaponizing my mental illness or something shitty like that. I wanted people to want to help.

But maybe everyone had their chance to ask, you know? Maybe any behavior that makes you wonder is just not up for discussion in the way it once was. Maybe there was a time that my habits were more malleable, but oh, you just missed it. Maybe. :::

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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Hey, can anyone doing diy help me out? I'm unsure about it, and don't know what to choose from where and if I should do it

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

If you think about it, transition is a form of cultivation. We ingest/inject pills and herbs and substances to convert our yang essence into ying essence. Not only does this allow us to comprehend the dao to a higher degree, it also makes dual cultivation techniques more effective.

Oh, why yes. I did recently stumble upon niche Internet forums discussing Chinese YA fantasy novels. How could you tell?

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Up with eep

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

will I watch:

anime I'm 9/70 episodes into โŒ

new season of king of the hill, which is actually pretty good โŒ

all of hazbin hotel S1 for probably the 8th time โœ…

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[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I have got to buzz my hair off , I tie my hair too low and when I do my hair gets kind of ruined.

Seperate: Does anyone know the website that shows albums in a grid?

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[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Saw an acquaintance on hinge and sent them a message. They messaged me back and I don't really know what to do. We already have each other on signal and see each other around every now and then so it's not like I'll lose all contact if I don't get back to them. I think they're very interesting, intelligent, and attractive and would love to go out with them but no idea how to approach that. The message I sent was a comment on one of their pictures. Basically, "Hey, this picture is kind of scary lol" and they responded with "Haha, yeah I think so too". No idea how to proceed from here with my creature brain.

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

You can only message if you both liked each other right? Please do not do the thing where you both like each other but neither makes a move

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You know I was joking about transitioning being a form of cultivation. But there is apparently an actual cultivation novel with that premise. Haven't read it yet, but here you go

https://www.scribblehub.com/series/111627/the-yin-physique/

Unfortunately it seems abandoned... ๐Ÿ˜•

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[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Every injury/medical happening has me convinced that it's the end of the world until I get a second opinion. Spent all weekend freaking myself out over something that I've actually been managing properly. Lol

I saw Superman and Fantastic Four. I liked Superman more, but I thought both were like, good.

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[โ€“] Des@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

time to share a fun passage from my Inanna: Queen of Heaven and Earth book (stories and hymns from sumer).

NSFW(?)

Inanna placed the shugurra, the crown of the steppe, on her head

She went to the sheepfold, to the shepherd

She leaned back against the apple tree

When she leaned against the apple tree, her vulva was wondrous to behold.

Rejoicing at her wondrous vulva, the young woman Inanna applauded herself

(textbook gender euphoria)


(edit: fixed the formatting)

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