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Not my nails, obvs.

Some (beginner-focused) tips for painting your nails:

Lighter colors and solid colors are easier to work with. Pick a good color or few, you don't need to start too fancy.

Don't shake nail polish, that can mess it up. Roll it slowly if you ever need to mix.

Don't just do the coloration and call it a day, put clear nail polish on first, and put it over the color. That will protect your nails.

Consider getting nail polish remover when you get your nail polish, mistakes are easy.

Put your nails down on a flat surface, clean your nails (maybe with that nail polish remover?), and apply the clear base coat (doesn't need to be perfect). Stroke from the base of the nail to the top, until the nail is covered. It might get on your skin, that's normal, anything on your skin can be dealt with at the end. Let it dry, like you would any other kind of base coat.

Now that it's dry, do like what you did with your clear polish for colors. Base to tip, going from the center outwards. If you can still see through after it's covered, wait for it to dry a little, then do another layer.

Then apply your top coat to make smooth, shiny, and somewhat protected painted nails. Wait for it all to dry (very important), which could as long as normal working hours + commute. Don't mess it up. If you do, you might have to restart on some nails.

Now that it's dry the polish on your skin should act sorta like glue, where you can just peel it off, but if it's stubborn you could use a cotton swab with nail polish remover to carefully remove it (don't let it touch your nails!).

Now you should have nice smooth nails.


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[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

when you realize we're never getting the epstein files because warped tour is back

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I gotta admit when I'm not being a hater no-copyright mania is alright, really was sold on it when I suddenly started playing mean beanis machine for a boss fight. Mania it's better than generations I'll give it that catgirl-smug

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

The superstar theme from Mario Odyssey is in my head and I haven't actually played that in years, its a fun jingle but I dunno WHAT made it come up

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

Submitting my dreams as proof that I can talk to hot people like they people, I don't know where I'm going with this. Today is one of those nights where I keep waking up from vivid dreams and that was the lastest one I can remember.

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

Idk feeling a sense of calmness like everything happens for a reason to get me to this point right now. There's a lot of things I'd like different like not being so lonely for one but starting to feel like there's a plan or something I'm not aware of or schedule.

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The Taiwanese wanted me to experience Taiwanese culture so much, they made me work from 9 am to 10 pm on an empty stomach catgirl-heart

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[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Is it fair to say that trans people are probably a manifestation of something that everyone probably feels? I still haven't been able to wrap my mind around how many cis people there supposedly are. I mean we all know that gender as a concept was just kind of forced on all of us. What if everyone is some degree of dissatisfied with that, but trans people are just more in touch with those feelings? I don't want to invalidate the cis, but it is kind of a thing where I just can't accept that transness is anything but just the natural response to being born into a world with something as arbitrary as gender.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is it fair to say that trans people are probably a manifestation of something that everyone probably feels?

I mean, at least the way I experience it, no.

What if everyone is some degree of dissatisfied with that

Cis people are dissatisfied with specific, shitty, patriarchal standards. Women don't like men talking over them, men wish they could show more emotion, etc. But they still like being men or women. They don't dislike their gender- just specific shitty things people do. Cis women don't hate that men look at them as women, they hate that men are misogynists. This is pretty much all the "dissatisfaction" I can remember cis people having with their gender. Or wishing sexually dimorphic traits were even more dimorphic- men wanting to be taller, women wanting bigger boobs, that kind of thing.

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Most cis people just haven't thought of it. Youve thought of it because youre gender was incongruous with the role assigned by hegemonic society, some cis women think about it even a little because they get a shit end of the stick in the great gender binary

Cis+ people exist, they've like confronted and thought about gender and decided "yup Im actually quite happy to be my assigned gender" - and those people I always applaud cause they've at least done a little introspection.

But that everyone feels in some way dissatisfied with everyday life is likely true, its just that we have this shortcut to one part of that overlapping multi headed hydra of capitalism and oppression. Modern life is intensely alienating, even the rich must hollow themselves out of their own humanity (cant remember the Marx quote but you've probably read it). That feeling of separation, the Lacan style Real, is the trauma at the center of everyone's lives - and for me, and maybe some other trans people, I had a name for a good chunk of it called "gender dysphoria" but not all of it for sure.

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

idk how doxxable this is but i got bored and wrote my own disco elysium character sheet for myself IRL and what I think my stats would be

spoilernah, my logic should be a lot higher than that, actually. I'd have at least a 10 in it

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I always try to rp myself but then I hit so many roadblocks because I can't do much, I'd be on the streets if it wasn't for this beautiful man kitsupogi

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it's probably because you're not a cop. i hope you're not a cop, anyway

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

would anyone like to make the trans mega tomorrow? i know it's late notice but i need someone to fill the spot

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