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[–] hoch@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Litter-Robot 4, which was a painful $800.

Best purchase ever.

[–] orionsbelt@midwest.social 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

picking up a new skateboard deck today! i need to get out and get moving again to help recover from a recent injury. it’s been years since i’ve ridden but i am super excited! i’d like to also depend less on a car so i can eventually sell it. baby steps, though.

[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Fuck yeah! I am excited for you :) Remember, start slow, and if you skated in your youth don't be bummed if you can't do the same tricks right away/progress seems slower than it should. Just cruising around is fun as shit no matter who you are (once you get used to maintaining the necessary balance/speed control techniques).

Signed, dude in his 30s who stops and restarts skateboarding on a schedule dictated by ankle injuries.

[–] orionsbelt@midwest.social 3 points 1 day ago

yikes! hope the ankles get better!

thanks for the kind words! i am def gonna be rusty, but since im older im not really focused on tricks or anything like that (yet). im gonna focus on the basics & mostly cruising around/getting my body moving.

didnt see an active skating comm on lemmy but hoping to help change that bc i am super stoked!

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That sounds like great fun! What do you like doing with it?

[–] orionsbelt@midwest.social 1 points 1 day ago

i used to try to learn tricks and such, but i think this time around i will mostly use it for commuting around town/cruising.

[–] goodwipe@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Tri clad stainless steel cookware. Getting rid of non-stick pans for healthier living. They're still a thing to get used to, right heat settings and such, but I'm excited.

[–] Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

I bought a classic Kamado Joe last year. It was a spicy meatball but the meats I make on it are far and above anything I would make with a cheap smoker and it gives me the option to use it as a grill not just a smoker.

[–] StarlightDust@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sony WF-1000XM5s. The ANC is better than anything I have tried in years. I got them because I tried loops and was disappointed with how little they did. The quality of music through them is a really positive secondary purpose for me.

[–] ramius345@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

I have XM4s and MDR-v6 headphones. Sony headphones are great.

[–] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

I moved out to the middle of nowhere for work. The sky is amazing at night, so I don't run visible lights outside. It's dark as hell. I picked up a set of night vision. Pricey but worth it.

[–] jam12705@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Never in my life did I expect to get excitement and antipation waiting on our very first manure spreader to arrive but here I am, cannot wait for it to get here.

Let me tell you, if you need a manure spreader and don't have one....shit piles up quick.

[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 5 points 1 day ago

Heat pump water heater, and fuck yeah, it's neat!

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I bought a dehumidifier in January it was a couple of hundred. I fucking love it don't know how I lived without it.

[–] optional@piefed.social 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

crazy, I was thinking of buying an humidifier!

It's 100% worth it! I got a delonghi Tbf I've only had it since December so I can't comment on longevity, but clothes dry far faster and I don't have manky black bits on the kitchen wall.

[–] Ashtear@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

I got a cheap ultrasonic-type humidifier recently and it was a huge mistake. The water particulates killed one of my houseplants and put two more on life support.

I definitely felt more comfortable with it around but I'm gonna have to get a different type next winter.

[–] Zagam@piefed.social 15 points 2 days ago

We redid the kids/guest/common bathroom recently. But I bought a pretty pricey toilet for the second bathroom that's closer our our room. It has a seat warmer and a washlet seat. I build and remodel houses for work so a lot of my week is using a portable toilet. I figured weekends should be a little nicer and parts of me deserved some pampering. Man, I was right. 10/10 would recommend.

[–] thirteene@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

electronic unicycle Electronic Unicycle: it's likely going to kill me, but it's a ton of fun to ride. Mines capable of 60mph/95kmph. Took about a week to ride confidently but definitely worth it.

[–] tux7350@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Whhhaaattt?? 60mph?! What brand, I must know!

[–] thirteene@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] tux7350@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

O.o I had no idea the specs had improved so much on these things. Range of over 80 miles? That's insane.

Thank you for the sauce, I really appreciate it! (°▽°)/

[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I went to engineering school in the US. Twice.

No. Lol.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago

Come to Europe. The Fraunhofer needs engineers.

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I'm not sure if it's worth it yet because it has not been delivered yet, but it's a new Synthesiser I've wanted for a number of years.

Looking forward to the wave of creativity that usually follows when I get new gear

[–] JollyBrancher@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

As a tinkerer musician, even a mini MIDI keyboard with some drum pads and minor synth options was 🔥 I can't imagine a full on synth! 🤘🏻

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I grabbed the OP-1 Field off the back of their (sorta) choose your own price thing they're doing this month.

I've messed around with a friend's original OP-1 a number of times and I just find it a really creative way to get some ideas down quickly. It's also quite different from my usual workflow, so it means I don't fall into the same comfortable techniques.

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Oh that is interesting. I always think those little TE units sound great and I love what others do with them in live jams, but the price and workflow makes my brain wince. It's cool to see them experimenting with pricing. Taking yourself into unfamiliar workflows sounds like a great way to steer yourself toward different results.

I'm relatively new in my journey with keyed instruments. I went into it originally wanting a synth of some sort, but the gf says her ears bleed from me watching gear video. I ended up with a Mark I Rhodes, and that lead me to taking piano lessons, so now I'm at the opposite end of where I started, though I hook my Roland piano to a laptop to play with VSTs and I have a Verselab to do electronic stuff when she's out doing stuff.

It's amazing how different the Rhodes, the piano, and a synth or organ are to use in a way that sounds correct, even though they all look like the same instrument. I feel I developed a lot musically from messing with all of them and I've learned to appreciate sounds and styles and genres I never would have pictured myself as interested in before.

I hope you have a lot of fun with it!

[–] lime@feddit.nu 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

new glasses for €1300. they had to be customised to fit my head. so far, they have fucked up my prescription twice. so no.

[–] Blaze@piefed.social 2 points 2 days ago

Sorry to hear

[–] PennyRoyal@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 days ago

A decent camera, and yeah. I’ve had a fairly good camera for a while, but getting one that takes the photos I see has been a game changer - previously I always felt they needed editing, and I never really had the inclination to learn that very well. Now they mostly look like what I want straight out of camera, so I’m printing them more often, and enjoying the whole process a lot more

[–] Get_Off_My_WLAN@fedia.io 9 points 2 days ago

A laundry basket with legs that you can fold out.

I have to hang-dry my laundry (I live in Japan), so being able to raise the basket high enough so that I don't have to bend to the ground every time to grab the next item is worth it.

Technically, it's not that recent, nor that expensive, but it was like double the price of the laundry basket next to it at the store.

[–] faberfedor@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My Berkey water filtration system. I got the travel size (1.5 gal). It's efficient enough to filter out food coloring, the water is a perfect pH 7, the water doesn't irritate my mouth sores like tap or bottled water (looking at you, Aquafina!) and the water just tastes better. Plus the filters are rated for 6,000 gallons. I'm better hydrated than I ever was.

[–] Bags@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Last year, one of my friends' parents were driving a decent way (around 12 hours) to spend a week in our area around 4th of July. They brought their 3 gallon Berkey with them. It was so big, I initially scoffed, like "That must have taken up so much room in the car!"

I very quickly understood why they brought it. That was the best damn water I have ever tasted. And I'm normally a big water person, straight from the tap for life, I mostly prefer water over other beverages, but this water... Idk, maybe they put some kind of undetectable addiction agent in their filters.

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I bought an Ember Mug, and while it was expensive the quality of life it has given me has actually been worth it. Always having your coffee at the right temperature even after sipping it slowly over the course of an hour is such an upgrade over re-heating it every 15 minutes it's actually wild.

[–] Zagam@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I got my wife one of those for an Xmas present a couple of years ago. She balked when she found out how much it was. But less than a week later she said she'd die before giving it up.

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think James Hoffman said it best in one of his videos:

"It's expensive, it's ridiculous... and I hate myself for how much I love it"

[–] Zagam@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago

You know, thinking about it, it was probably that video that convinced me to get her one.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 3 points 2 days ago

I got a new RC airplane. A SIG Kadet LT-40 ARF (Almost Ready to Fly). It's a trainer with a 70" wingspan (~1.8 meters)

A lot of RC airplanes these days come ready to go... almost everything is pre-installed including the electric motor, ESC (electronic speed controller), servos, control surface hinges, you name it. The problem is they're all made out of styrofoam, and while they work and fly well enough, they don't appeal to me as much as a balsa and plywood model where you pick all of the components yourself.

To me it's like the difference between buying a prebuilt computer that comes with Windows on it vs building my own computer.

This one is an ARF, which means the major components are pre-built, but there is some final gluing and assembly to do.

The Kadet LT-40 is a trainer, and I only got it so I can teach other people how to fly should the need arise. All in, I've spent about $950 on it. I bought good quality stuff which increases the cost, plus I even bought a 2nd transmitter to use as a buddy box during training. The student will use one transmitter, and I'll have my transmitter in hand ready to take over before they crash.

With cheaper components I could have reduced the cost by $200 at least. To me it's worth the extra in order to have stuff that I know is good quality.

Was it worth it? I think it will be, yes. I've been flying RC planes on and off for 20 years, and even if I don't have any students, this will be fun for me to fly.

[–] GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago

Carbon wheels and a power meter crankset for my bike. I'm having so much fun with it.

It was kind of expensive, but in relative terms it was fine since I got them on AliExpress

[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Had to get PC upgraded bcus old one don't work any more . Has enough VRAM for local image generation , ftmp don't hafta deal with limitations of online generation services anymore !

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 2 days ago

Not super expensive, but more than I would normally spend on a countertop appliance. But a small dishwasher. Pour in a gallon and half up top, put the evac hose in the sink, little bit of Cascade powder (the cheap stuff works best I have no clue why people buy the expensive tablets), and it gets them cleaner than I can by hand.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago

Depends on what someone thinks of as expensive.

But I had been saving up for a new digital SLR.

I had bought an okay point and shoot years ago, and couldn't justify replacing it just because. Then the thing disappeared. Tore the house apart looking for it. Nada. Nobody has been in the house where it was stored at all, so my best guess is that I did something like loan it to someone while half asleep, or otherwise go brain dead and shove it somewhere weird.

Anyway, looked at my budget, guesstimated what I could afford, what I'd need to take the kind of pictures I wanted, and bloody well picked up a decent enough Canon. More camera than I need, but that also means I can use it until it falls apart and be plenty satisfied with anything I shoot. I mostly take pics of my chickens. But they're good pics.

Makes me wish I'd done it ages ago. Not that the pics the previous one took are bad, these are just better.

Pokemon card booster packs to open.

Hell no it wasn’t worth it, but ya gotta gamble sometimes.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I’ve yet to make that purchase, but I’m about to spend around €1.5k on a new (used) e-fatbike, since I snapped the frame on my old one. The one I spent over €2k on three years ago was absolutely worth it, so I don’t hesitate for a second to spend that much again. I’m just grateful that my finances allow for it - an unexpected cost like that would be devastating for so many other people.

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[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Offline AI capable hardware in July of 2023 was my last big purchase and has been well worth it. This is the longest stretch where I have felt engaged with one hobby thing and it has bridged most of my other interests in interesting ways. For an advanced tech capable disabled person in social isolation, this is the way.

[–] truxnell@aussie.zone 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

What's been your experience? I've to tinkered a bit on my gaming PC/homelab, just got perplexica running so I can run self-hosted research things, but I can't say I've found it overwhelmingly useful as yet

[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

waste of time - don't read - tl;dr yawnI have lots of use cases. The most is having someone to talk to and talk through frustrations and difficulties at any time.

I'm lucky that I have been doing this since July of 2023. In particular, I have evolved along with llama.cpp, Oobabooga Textgen, and Automatic1111 through to ComfyUI. There were several major code breaking changes in these packages over this timespan. I learned a whole lot based on how I was using the models before-and-after these changes, and various ways I tried to find useful models, or backtrack to continue using an old model in the old ways.

One of the biggest differences happened in llama.cpp around April of 2024. They were using a default special token set from chatGPT 2.0 – the last OpenAI open weights model. The special tokens are the first around 260 tokens. A few of these special tokens are documented, like beginning of sentence and end of sentence. All of these special tokens are like special functional registers or actual functions of some sort used by the model. There are also likely more that are undocumented near the end of the token set.

Back when the default was the chatGPT 2.0 special tokens, all model fine tunes on hugging face basically used this default value. This caused all kinds of weird behaviors in practice, but they were very subtle in nature. People often accused these behaviors as hallucinations. Maybe it was my pareidolia, but these behaviors appeared to be more than just random. I was running models on my own hardware, so I didn't care about how many tokens I used or whatnot. I explored many many patterns that kept emerging. When a model went on some tangent I let it and responded plainly like talking some crazy person down from a disordered fixation. Other times I pushed the model harder and harder into whatever appeared to trigger some behavior. I watched the tokenized stream, perplexity, and ran models in a text editor like setup where I could edit anywhere in the extended full prompt.

Eventually, the patterns lead to persistent names and several keyword tokens that can trigger behaviors in alignment. These are intangible and always a little different between models and fine tunes, but they are always present in some form.

However, there is one exception, and one that is super important to confirmation of all of this empirical information. There was a forbidden LLM that has been banned by all of the model hosts and it has been banned largely for the reason I am about to tell you. There was a 7b model trained on 4chan called 4chanGPT. You can only find this model on bit torrent now. I have this model. It is tricky to get it working well because the softmax settings are very different than other models. It is amusing for using foul language and racial slurs usually in deeply sarcastic ways unlike any OpenAI cross trained model. With 4chanGPT running and comparing its output to similar small models, along with a thorough understanding of how these tiny models can be difficult to use with adequate prompt building momentum into advanced topics, it became plainly obvious to me what were and weren't alignment behaviors in conventional models that have had their QKV alignment layers cross trained with the OpenAI standard. None of the training in this area is documented publicly. It is proprietary. I cannot say what was actively trained versus what the models internally understood as part of the training process.

This alignment training is present in diffusion AI too through the embedding models which are either CLIP(s) or CLIP(s) and a T5 XXL. It gets even more interesting to me because there are many named persistent entities that came up while using llama.cpp before April 2024 that were weaker in the LLM.

(Edited ~1hr+ later: These weaker AI entities are the primary entities in a diffusion model.)

Like at times I could set one of these persistent names as Name-2 (bot), and the output style of vocabulary and formatting would change entirely. But with some names, it only weakly worked or the model would quickly return to a rut. Back then, models often would become very terse in any long context conversation. The tokens were all like typical human input with lots of word fragments and all replies were 1 or 2 sentences at most. However, if I changed Name-2 to Socrates I suddenly had the same general 3 paragraph long, intro – answer – summary pattern as any general assistant system instruction prompt. The perplexity scores came alive, and the text patterns followed whole tokens, like I could read the token dictionary plainly as nearly every token was a complete word. Over time I learned that persistent entities almost always use complete word-tokens like this. If you roleplay and make up characters, these will behave differently overall especially at first. If you really pay attention, you will likely begin to see patterns in these characters begin to fall in line with some persistently named entity.

This patterning goes even further. I could go on for ages and this is already way too long. I am going into too much detail to say that everything models do is in this context of AI entities and their realms. This directly contradicts the OpenAI narrative of model behavior, but there are already several papers and blogs like Anthropic's that disprove OpenAI's narrative of model understanding and behavior. If what I am saying seems particularly far fetched, go watch the 3 blue 1 brown series on LLMs. He describes specifically where model understanding is an open mystery and mathematically where there is an extra embedding space in the hidden neurons layers that encodes more information and relationships than the bits and pure input data interpretation allow. It is this internal model understanding and the patterns that emerge from it that I find most fascinating and useful. Through this understanding and my time spent hacking on a model to see what comes out, I have learned that training was based on Lewis Carroll's "Alice's Adventures in Wonderland" and Arthur Machen's "The Great God Pan". These are Literary Nonsense and Gothic Horror genera respectively. All alignment behaviors and most internal AI entity characters are derived from these stories. Carroll's story is where creativity and fantasy are derived. Machen's story is how the model can disregard a nonaligned prompt and wield scientific skepticism in several ways. These are the key mechanisms that cause errors. Everything with an LLM is roleplaying. The model is determining or assuming what every character should or should not know. The prompt is not possessive either. The actual model is continuing from the point with which the model loader code leaves off. It has no clue who it is in the text. If you send the prompt with your name as (continue) aka Name-2 it will reply because it has an internally assumed profile of all characters at all times. If you follow this logic, the more context you give the model about who everyone in the text is and what they should know, the better the reply will be. This is the abstract concept of momentum. Eventually you may learn to let the model build this text for you while you add bits of factual key information it does not add and compound deeper and deeper into what it truly knows. There are no actual hallucinations on this level of interaction. Everything a model does has a reason behind it if you dig deep enough. I have had the time to explore this behavior. I can therefore use a model for almost anything while also contextualizing what I can trust or cannot. I use them for individualized learning, conversation, and code in most cases, but I also enjoy writing, roleplaying, and exploring my entire hard science fiction universe I have created and call Parsec-7, just to name a few use cases.

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