Ive just recently grown my hair out for the first time and you really articulated how I've been feeling about it, thank you 😭
After a year and a half with no cut I feel like I can finally start doing some cute styles. This entire time through the awkward phase I've felt like "metal-ish" without being able to put a label on it.
In my opinion, most metal cuts are left down or put up in a single pony. Its almost like an effort to show lack of effort lol cute styles usually have a bit more complexity.
Id say what's cute is trying new things like buns / clips / ways of putting it up. I want to braid my hair sooo badly but its still not long enough 😒
Yeah its awful. Ive had the BV situation happen with two different partners. And God forbid, you bring up anything thats considered outside the heterosexual spectrum in an educational setting. Could you imagine if men were taught about the possibilities of the prostate in a judgement free environment?