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[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 112 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

Loud cars. So fucking lame.

[–] cattywampas@lemm.ee 27 points 2 weeks ago (29 children)

I don't think these people necessarily think it's cool either. They want attention and to annoy people, which is what they get.

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[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Even worse with motorcycles. Seems like most people own motorcycles specifically for "fun" (waste fuel and make noise).

And just generally being loud. Even regular cars can be loud if you drive like an asshole.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Motorcycles I can kind of understand. Some people believe that making their cycle loud makes it more “visible” to other drivers, helping to prevent accidents. I don’t think there’s been any studies to prove this, but I can understand why people buy into it.

[–] ch00f@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Yet they always wear dark colors. Hmm…

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[–] victorz@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago

I'm about two months into owning a fully-electric vehicle (not a Tesla, thank goodness), and I have a hard time getting over how wonderfully quiet it is. And it's one of the qualities I couldn't wait to experience.

[–] MoonlightFox@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

And loud motorcycles.

And the ice cream truck playing jingles. I am not a fan of people driving trucks into neighbourhoods and playing loud music to advertise.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Another reason to look forward to electric vehicles! Imagine a world 20 years from now where the noise is vanishing, the gasoline/deisel smell is only for the diehards going to that one remaining service station that still sells it, no more visible emissions from cars or rolling coal!

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[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 65 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Calling yourself "Alpha". If you have to say it out loud, you are definitely not the Alpha.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sounds like something a beta would say

[–] skye@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sounds like something an alpha would say

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[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 53 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I’m gonna sound like a boomer but cigarettes and not using PPE, including with recreational activities such as motorcycling and hobby crafts.

Becoming a meat crayon isn’t worth “looking cool.”

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 15 points 2 weeks ago

Around here it's the boomers who are smoking cigarettes!

[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 11 points 2 weeks ago

I think you just sound like a rational human being that doesn't consistently use their emotions for decision making.

[–] GalacticTaterTot@lemmy.world 40 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Not wearing a seatbelt and not wearing a helmet.

[–] gazter@aussie.zone 7 points 2 weeks ago

My pet peeve is people cycling with a helmet but not doing it up. It's so blatantly stupid- you get none of the benefits, and all of the negatives.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 35 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (6 children)
[–] JustARegularNerd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I've got a close elderly family member who's recently gotten fixated on investing in crypto, watching all the YouTube videos on the subject.

I don't know enough about it to confidently say they're going to lose all their money, I've never looked into it because it just screams get rich quick scheme, but I don't have high hopes for them.

[–] EnsignWashout@startrek.website 5 points 2 weeks ago

I don't know enough about it to confidently say they're going to lose all their money

It happened to my relative. They didn't lose everything, but they lost enough that they're shopping for a mobile home for retirement, when they previously could have bought a small house.

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[–] the_q@lemm.ee 33 points 2 weeks ago

Vaping/smoking.

[–] Squorlple@lemmy.world 30 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The outside of a space station in sunlight (~121° C or ~250° F)

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[–] stinky@redlemmy.com 29 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 7 points 2 weeks ago

Flashing money. Loud "notice me" logos on everything, although I don't know how many wealthy people do that.

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[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 26 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Contrarianism. Being anti-"Popular Thing" just for the sake of being anti-"Popular Thing" marks you out as having no thoughts worth hearing out.

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[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Being part of a marginalized or oppressed group.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Am a member of 3. Can confirm it's shit.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

Damn, that's so cool.

[–] Nyticus@kbin.melroy.org 17 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 16 points 2 weeks ago
[–] lgsp@feddit.it 14 points 2 weeks ago

Driving dangerously.

You are not in fast'n'fourious, you are just a piece of shit endangering every one around you

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Drinking. It's one of the more damaging drugs but it's completely normalized because it's legal. Even people who don't have drinking problems per se, Ares still harming their health way more than they realize.

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[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Being able to identify adult videos/actresses on sight. Like, multiple. I can understand someone having a favorite or something, but some people are like walking porn IMDBs.

Not sure who thinks this is cool but, yeah, that's not a convo I'm jumping in on.

[–] bigkahuna1986@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Smoking weed in the park and dropping the N bomb constantly.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I always liked smoking weed in the park. Usually in my car or out on a secluded trail. Never felt the need to drop n bombs tho

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

Obviously weren't cool enough

/s

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[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 11 points 2 weeks ago

Clever insults rather than substantial discussion or "to cut off heads in order to appear taller," rather than doing the work to actually be a better version of self.

Moaning about issues without putting in effort or taking any risks to correct issues.

[–] ProteanG6777@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 2 weeks ago

illicit drug culture.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Certain kinds of rightwingers. Some of them are quiet about it, but the loud ones are often extremely obnoxious and clearly think they're hot shit.

[–] Delvin4519@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Having a car, working at some notable brand company.

Bragging.

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Branded clothes. Why are you a walking advertisement because rappers who get paid big money to tell you that looks cool tell you to wear it? It's all ugly anyway.

[–] AlexLost@lemm.ee 5 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)
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