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TL;DR: We tried to move the community because of moderatorial concerns, but fumbled how we went about doing so.

First and Foremost:

We'd like to formally apologize for springing this on you all out of nowhere, and for taking so long to respond to the backlash. With retrospect, we understand that we should have notified you all beforehand to create an opportunity to give us feedback. We understand that a lot of respect and trust was lost, and we expect it'll take a lot of work and a lot of time before we can earn it back, but we would be grateful if y’all gave us that chance.

What happened, and why?

The primary issue that incited this was because we don't fully agree with the admin's moderation policies. By and large they do a great job and align with us on mod actions, but there have been several cases where we strongly disagreed, and our choices were overruled.

For example, 2 months ago, Kolanaki reached out to us via email and said they were banned from 196 for “playing the victim” and asked us why we banned him, but we didn’t. Moss talked to them and realized that the ban was unjust after reviewing the comment he was banned for. If he had never contacted us, we wouldn't have known about the ban, and they would have still thought we banned them.

There were a few similar events in a short time frame, leading to a few posts/comments in the community about the heavier modding policies. It's possible some posts/comments were misunderstood by Ada, or she interpreted things differently than we would have, but it led to some bans that we felt were indeed heavy-handed, and would not violate our rules in even the most uncharitable of interpretations. We have found that this is an ongoing trend when it comes to moderation of our community from the Admins. We oppose this because it leads to many users who otherwise mean well ending up alienated and removed for reasons that are frankly completely unfair. This is, in our opinion, counter to what we set out to build in our community.

It was made clear to us that it was their instance, and that we didn’t have a say in who would be banned and what would be removed. This is, of course, perfectly valid. It’s their instance, therefore it's up to them to decide what goes, but we no longer wanted to be the ones seen as accountable for moderation actions we have no control over. For this reason, we wanted to transfer out of lemmy.blahaj.zone. As much as we wanted to stay in the LGBTQ instance, we couldn't come to an agreement with Ada, so we talked to her about transferring out and got her blessing.

How we messed up

The most major failing on our part is, of course, that we didn’t announce the migration beforehand. Besides that, we also didn’t explain why we made the choices we made and only gave very vague answers. We avoided sharing the justification for our actions because we didn’t want to cause drama and/or exacerbate the situation, but this lack of substantiating our actions only caused the situation to worsen.

Going forward (if we may), we won't make the same mistakes again. From now on, we will attempt to be as transparent as possible.

FAQ

Why we chose lemmy.world

Many people have been asking about why we moved to lemmy.world. It already hosts the majority of large communities and besides this uncomfortable level of centralization, it has also been somewhat controversial as of late. Despite that, we still chose lemmy.world due to the following reasons:

  1. Moss's communication with the admins, and their agreement to let us moderate the community as we see fit. Ruud, after looking over our rules, agreed to abstain from taking admin action to curate or otherwise moderate our community, unless absolutely necessary.
  2. The instance is large enough to support traffic without performance issues (other instances like lemm.ee, sh.itjust.works, and lemmy.dbzer0.com would have been fine too), and the instance has a certain degree of guaranteed longevity.
  3. Moss was given a list that was kindly made by the lemmy.world people as a part of our transfer detailing those who are banned on Blahaj.zone, but not on Lemmy.world, making moderation discrepancies much easier to clean up post-transfer.
  4. Our agreement with Ruud predated the now-rescinded policy changes
  5. It was, to the best of our knowledge, the most federated-with instance. We have come to understand that this is not necessarily the case.

Why not have another team take over the original 196?

This is a similar situation with what happened over on Reddit. 196 mods didn't agree with admins and were eventually replaced (difference here is that we were not forced out, but chose to leave). As Lemmy was a large gathering spot for people fleeing Reddit, we felt it was better to try to keep the community together and move together. Having another team take over splits the community. The more fragmentation there is, the less longevity and volume of community each skew will have.

What about the possibility of more trolls, neoliberals, bad actors, sealions, and transphobes on Lemmy.world?

Another huge issue was that the mods and the community were not on the same page regarding lemmy.world, their admins, and their policies. We understand the concern about trolls/bad-actors/transphobes, but we feel well-equipped to handle these issues. In addition, we've been in contact with the lemmy.world admins for a while now, and they've assured us that they'd allow us to moderate our community however we saw fit. All this being said, we still failed to communicate that to the community before taking action, which has undermined any assurances that we have given after the fact. We cannot apologize enough for that.

What about the people who are using instances that are defederated from lemmy.world (e.g. Beehaw)

This is an unfortunate issue that we were not aware of at the time of transfer. We're not sure what the solution is, but want to make our community as accessible as possible. Community solutions are welcome.

Did you migrate because of X? (addressing speculation)

  • We didn’t migrate due to anything related to neopronouns
  • We didn’t migrate due to us supposedly not wanting to use blahaj.zone lemmy accounts
  • We didn’t migrate due to us having friends who were banned from lemmy.blahaj.zone
  • We didn’t migrate due to us wanting to make the space less queer/leftist/etc
  • We didn’t migrate due to us getting secretly ousted by the Blahaj admin team

What now?

Well, we're not sure. We could go back on our decision and stay on blahaj.zone, continue on lemmy.world, do both, or try something else. Truth be told, we don't know what to do. For now, we will leave the comments open to civil community discourse, and choose our course of action from there.

Sincerely, Qaz, Rmbp, Greembow, A_Very_big_Fan, Peachy, and Moss.

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[–] HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Start your own community. Be original

[–] moss@lemmy.blahaj.zone -4 points 6 days ago (2 children)

?we did? for both of these communities??

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I thought Ada added you as a mod to this comm well after it's creation?

[–] moss@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 6 days ago

not really. it had existed for a couple weeks unmoderated. no banner, icon, whatever

[–] communist@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 week ago (6 children)

The primary issue that incited this was because we don't fully agree with the admin's moderation policies.

Clearly the community does though.

Which means the community is perfectly happy to continue on blahaj, its you, as the mod team, that aren't aligning with the community.

As someone who enjoys 196 (but only really participates by voting), I would just say that since you aren't aligning with the community, this isn't a community you should be moderating.

Make the !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone mods the mods of !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone and move on.

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[–] neudke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 week ago

i don't really accept the apology. 196 is not the mod team and you clearly do not have the capacity to maintain a community. please leave and do not come back to LBZ. i enjoying having my funny little people on my phone here and you have not been very funny so kindly stop the car because you are an underage driver. let someone who does not hit curbs or go up a one way street take the wheel thanks also please let the door hit you on the way out

[–] Enkers@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I think what brother's me most here is the entitlement and contempt displayed for your own community. You were told repeatedly that nobody wanted this, and yet you doubled down saying "We know what's best". You acted like the community belongs to the moderation team, and they can do with it as they please.

It took a mass exodus for you to finally seriously consider other viewpoints. I don't think that's an acceptable way for any moderation team to treat their own community.

That's not something that can simply be fixed by an apology. It's something that would require some significant introspection.

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to be honest, I never trusted the mod team much for many minor things and now I dont trust u at all for this huge thing that u've been hiding for months apparently, if this community is coming back Id personally still prefer a different mod team

We could go back on our decision and stay on blahaj.zone, continue on lemmy.world, do both, or try something else.

I guess u could moderate the .world comm for the people that prefer that instance since there seems to be people that do including u, and the people that were going to mod the onehundredninetysix comm would mod this one

[–] luciole@beehaw.org 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think yall (the mod team) still misunderstand what you did wrong. You're just repeating yourself. The problem is not that you failed to announce the migration, it is that you thought it was your choice to make, and that it even was an actionable decision. The fediverse, with each instance having it's own communities, userbase and set of alliances & blockades, does not afford for unilateral deportation of a community.

Furthermore as moderators of a community you'll always have to deal with instance admins. The fact you can't cope with Ada's safe space policy is a bad look. Quoting one debatable decision as "proof" is not helping. Your perception that you are somehow immune to ever disagreeing lemmy.world's admins is strange.

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[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

The community isn't something that fucking belongs to you.

[–] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

How we messed up

The most major failing on our part is, of course, that we didn’t announce the migration beforehand.

No, your major failing isn't that you didn't "announce" it, it's that you didn't consult your community first. Your actions have demonstrated that you think you own the community, but communities don't belong to mods.

Moreover you have clearly spelled out that your ideological differences are because you don't want to "entertain trolls" which i can only assume means you want to ban people whose identities you deem invalid.

Frankly, get off your high horse. 196 isn't some serfdom. It was a community. You seem to have forgotten that.

[–] fracture@beehaw.org 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

i'm from beehaw and i support our decision to defederate from lemmy.world, and honestly, i agree with ada's moderating decisions. i don't come to 196 to deal with people "just asking questions" or getting transphobic trolls coming in and CERTAINLY not cis people whining about how they don't get their good boy ally points

especially if the post about you leaving 196 reports to languish unattended to is accurate (it's from another user on this post who i can't see while on beehaw, i'm guessing they're from a defederated instance. they quoted ada, but i couldn't find her comment as a source, so i don't know if it's real)

if that's real, we barely know what your moderation style is, and i've been giving you false credit for ada's good moderation

so we have reason to doubt where your moderating priorities are, you disagree with noted Good Judgement Admin ada, and you unilaterally decided both to move and where to move the community without consulting anyone first

from my vantage, you couldn't even protect us on world if you wanted to, and it really doesn't seem like you want to, either

i think the actual respectful thing to do at this point is to just step down. y'all have disrupted this community enough. there are mods who are interested in, and understand the values of, this community. values that you obviously lack

let them take over and have things return to normal. make a /c/196 on world if you want, it sounds like there won't be a lot of content to moderate anyways

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[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I still don't understand how you thought this unilateral decision, including squatting on the 196@LBZ name, would be received well in the community. I question the soundness of your judgment.

Hold a vote of no confidence. Let the community you tried to screw over decide if the moderators should stay or resign.

I cannot stress enough how untrustworthy any of you moderators are now, because how do any of us know that in a few days or weeks or months you won't just randomly close the community and decide you're moving elsewhere. In short, I really don't care if you continue to move over, or stay on .world, or do anything else, I don't want any part of your community anymore. And I don't see how anyone else would either, but that's entirely their business

[–] headerfile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

YEAH I THINK MAKING A SEPERATE INSTANCE FOR YOU GUYS AND KEEPING 196 UNTOUCHED WOULD BE NICE CAN WE DO THAT PLEASE

[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm already at !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone and it's fun there. Not gonna go to .world

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[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (10 children)

why not open the original blahaj zone 196, and let ada appoint new mods? if yall want to move and have your heart set on that, thats fine, but its clear that there are many people who would lose access to their favorite community if the original 196 remains locked. having multiple instances of the same community is by no means a bad thing, it simply gives more reach for our communities, and more options for every user.

the whole point of the fediverse is that us users can make experiences we like for eachother. its very clear that many people like the way things are, yall dont have to, but we do. its a community because of everybody who participates, lets try and build communities where our queer and trans friends can feel safe and at home. nothing is lost if we have two communities, only gained. let the nature of the fediverse and federation decide how things play out, not a small group of moderators making unilateral decisions for everybody.

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[–] HeyLow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

All do respect(which is none) this is the second time you have tried to forceably move this community to .world. We are collectively done with this bullshit and just leaving for !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone . Thank you for the good year of 2024 with some amazing memes long live onehundredninetysix

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Lemmy.world is a rancid instance, and I won't be joining you. I trust and respect Ada far more than the mod team here. Historically, you've allowed so many bad-faith actors here. I just returned, but I know in the past I saw at least one regular here whose alt was banned for queerphobia. He'd constantly stir the pot, and you did nothing. RIP 196, I guess. You'll learn why this was a bad decision, mark my words.

There are reasons beehaw defederates from lemmy.world

[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 week ago (5 children)
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[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I understand two of you were mostly behind the move. Perhaps those two should step down and new mods be brought in. Kind of hard to trust you after all this.

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[–] BluJay320@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago
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