๐ต Only you can set me free, 'cause I'm guilty (guilty) ๐ต
๐ต Guilty as a girl can be ๐ต
๐ต Come on baby, can't you see ๐ต
๐ต I stand accused ๐ต
๐ต Of love in the first degree ๐ต
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๐ต Only you can set me free, 'cause I'm guilty (guilty) ๐ต
๐ต Guilty as a girl can be ๐ต
๐ต Come on baby, can't you see ๐ต
๐ต I stand accused ๐ต
๐ต Of love in the first degree ๐ต
emotions
My posting flurries are often a side effect of dealing with intense emotions throughout the day, just from thinking about my life and how it has gone, etc.
When I get overwhelmed by my emotions I don't want to be alone. But I have been alone for a long time. I often feel like if someone could be there one time, I could probably handle the next 10 strong emotions on my own.
I don't know what's normal. I don't know what I'm supposed to do with these feelings. What I do know is trying to wring anything out of anyone is exhausting. It started with posting on Instagram trying to stay in touch with my college friends and now it's happening here. I don't feel any agency to be direct.
And I don't have someone in my corner, so it feels like nobody is witnessing what I'm going through. Apparently that's a good thing. Apparently I'm supposed to want this desolation.
Hexbear is a good place. I guess I'm not all that good.
I'm experiencing anxiety flareups trying to communicate effectively here, and that is a sign to me that I need to consider how involved I am, how much I talk about this stuff, etc.
Also you guys peer pressured me into switching usernames before I was ready when I first joined the matrix chat, back in July. That wasn't cool. I chose Pleakley because I panicked. Have a great January 2025.
my real estate deadnamed me in their inspection notice
amazingly enough, the phrase "beep or sleep" went viral recently. i'm astounded... it seems like everybody's beepin these days!
scented candles, cute clothes, and decorations are not "treats". anything marketed to men is though. if you disagree with this you're misogynistic. unironically
I crave dog and catgirl literature so I think I might get back into reading unjust depths.
Winder if there is Unjust depths lesbian fanart....
I am Godโs eepiest uppy
That reminds me i need to read the 3rd book in the children of time series
introspection on libido/sexuality, sex stuff (not explicit), a bit sad. looking for advice.
over the last year and a half or so, my sex drive has been mostly very low. i don't really feel sexual attraction to other people like i used to. i have long-term depression and it's something i've always struggled with, but much more intense the last couple of years. i hardly feel like a sexual being. i'm on 200mg prog and i only get horny once or twice a month, i get myself off and enjoy it. i've been considering that i may fit into the ace spectrum, but this is an idea i've been struggling to accept. i want to feel sexual attraction. i want to feel like a sexual being. but it's felt totally muted for a while now. there are other aspects than physiological, i definitely have some catholic brainworms and shit about sex. but i can't help but feel like the main factor is HRT, as my sex drive and proclivity for sexual attraction has seemed to gradually dwindle over the past few years. i was really excited to get on prog because of the mythical horny but it didn't really happen. i'm also on CPA and already halved my prescribed dose to no avail. T levels are still on the floor so maybe i could try reducing that even further.
what i'd like to ask is, does anyone have any advice on combating this? i feel like maybe eating better and exercising might help, i'm NEET and really depressed and sedentary so that's probably a factor too. i guess if anyone has gone through something similar and managed to rediscover the horny i'd love to hear about it. like i used to fuck loads in my first year and a half or so of transition and i loved it. i wanna go back to that. but it feels almost like a different person now. idk.
I love you all so much. Thank you for helping me be my best self and finding true happiness ๐๐๐
Having to take language classes for my degree might actually break the my horrible procrastination on learning Spanish. Then again, I've always been bad at learning languages and especially speaking them, so it could also just be a way to tank my GPA.
Happy jan 6 everybody! I'm gonna be smoking weed and practicing martial arts on the porch to celebrate.
what's up ladies? today I'm single yet completely and utterly unprepared to mingle
I've finally started to recover. Still have a cough, throat still feels weird, but my energy is coming back.
Dyed my hair red. It was pretty red, but then I washed it, and it came out a bit more purple-red. Thought this was because I had dyed purple a but ago (it was really faded), but then I realized that the color-preserving conditioner that came with the purple dye might actually have purple dye in it. Color looks really cool though, almost exactly what I had originally expected.
Are there any good video games with cross play between the switch and PC? I'm trying to find stuff for me and my brother to play