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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").  Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (6 children)

New mega thread!

Up with trans

Down with cis

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If huffing nail polish is so bad for you why does it smell so good? Checkmait liberals

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (8 children)

My prolactin was high :(

It can get high from HRT (some of em), but it can also go up from stress. And baby, I am stressed

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

I have three fashion styles:

-gremlin in big hoodie and tracksuit pants, just wearing the comfiest clothes

-genderless adventurer on some kind of quest

-nude

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago

mmmmm gender

[–] Grownbravy@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

::: spoiler early AM NSFW thought

A cabinet of dildos, call it the Library of DONGress.

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (3 children)

It’s pretty wild looking back at older pop culture to see Mae West and Raquel Welch—two sex symbols of their time—being the subject of heavy transvestigstions. Raquel Welch even transvestigsted Mae West in her later years.

Just goes to show that you can even have the ideal woman’s figure and people will still somehow accuse you of not being cis.

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

you know how like sometimes you know a thing is true, but you're kinda annoyed it's true and would rather it wasn't? I feel this about giraffes and horses. like ok you look at a giraffe and you're like oh, it's a tall horse, I get what's going on here, it's related to horses. but no! horses are odd toed ungulates and giraffes are even toed ungulates, and their last common ancestor was like 60 million years ago in the early eocene!!

and like I know this, it is a factual truth, but I don't want it to be! my brain sees a giraffe and is like na mate, that's a big horse. the bastards are more closly related to fucking dolphins than they are horses!

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

It is done (catgirl emojis)

I got rate-limited for this, the bear won't let me upload photos right now

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

health ventingugh there's so many things i could vent about with my health and the stressful situation it's put me in, but one thing is that it has once again pushed hrt down the road for me. i'm too busy dealing with my chronic fatigue crash and its ensuing consequences to pursue hrt rn and i'm just thinking about it rn and i'm so, so frustrated.

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[–] ComradeMonotreme@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Thomas Blounts dictionary of 1656 lists the word tranfeminate. Though apparently it meant then what we'd call transmasc. Or transgender in general Wild.

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (5 children)
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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (10 children)

So I'm trying to apply myself to some theory in earnest, now that I've had the funny book as a little treat, and

We must also stop pretending that there are essential differences between women and men. This begins with the acknowledgement that there are exceptions to every gender rule and stereotype, and this simply stated fact disproves all gender theories that purport that female and male are mutually exclusive categories.

kel-bliss Thank fuck, holy shit. On some level I know this is probably the most basic tenet of feminism and gender theory proper, but it's still gratifying to see it reproduced in such an oldass text, especially because I came to just this conclusion entirely independently. This shit rules.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

i sat up for too long today and i’m paying for it doggirl-gloom

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (5 children)

i am in sight of 99 agility in runescape madeline-stare

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (20 children)

I've dated poly and monogamous and I swear to god, if I end up being a straight monogamous woman I'm going to be somehow be the weirdest of the kinky and trans community lol. How the fuck did that all shake out that's not even fair

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[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Part of me thinks that Hexbear should take a more active role in brigading and bullying transphobes

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

at least marvel writers can be safe in the knowledge they'll never write anything as embarassing as the elon musk scene in iron man 2

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

transphobia, introspection, bit depressing I'd say

it's funny that I used to worry so much that I'd never be a real woman. I know very well that I am, but now I also know that I threw away what was actually my ideal body and will never truly he happy with it again

this is a funny thing, because otherwise it would be harrowing

spoiler involves nsfw, suicidal ideation took a picture in similar thigh highs and underwear to pictures I have saved before surgery. I'm so flat down there now.

it makes me want to kill myself :::

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (15 children)

So like... How safe is DIY, really?

Pretty sure I can get my hands on the goods, but I see people here going to get blood work done to check their levels and change dosages, and I just don't see how that would be possible for me.

Like, going in to get blood work, and they're like, "your E levels are super high, we gotta get to the root of this" and I'm like "erm... Yeah"

Just saying I don't think I can have medical support.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I feel so wide all the time, but I think everyone might just be wider than I think and I have BDD doggirl-gloom

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (3 children)

doggirl-sleep I'm so sleepy, but why could.I not sleep earlier? This sucks, now I'm gonna be tired all day...

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago

I feel like I’ve won the lottery with my current schoolwork becoming one of my hyperfixations because I don’t know how I’d be able to sustain this level of work otherwise. Caught between trying to ride this wave for all it’s worth and pacing myself so I don’t get burnt out

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (9 children)

Day whatever of being a moody irritable asshole. I dislike this because I'm not really able to talk to people like this, I have been ignoring matrix (hello) all day as a result. Just being a shitty asshole on websites instead :)

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

pup pronouns added to the site yeyyyyyyy *wagwagwagwagwagwags*

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (6 children)
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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (4 children)

my wife has never seen shrek and I still can't get over it. no, she does not want to watch it

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