I'm accepting hugs today btw
whining
Having the first dysphoria day in months. Trying my best to pull myself out of the hole. Washed and styled my ratty hair. Tried on 2 outfits, hated them, found a third. Even if I'm miserable, I will be queer in public. I will spite the cis.
So anyway, when I was a guy, my wife used to describe me with a lot of different adjectives ranging strong to sexy and everything in between. Things related to my personality or values.
Since starting transition, she only describes me as some form of pretty (I know I'm lucky to have someone to describe me as pretty, but I'm emotional and whining rn). I brought up that it was kind of fucked up months ago because, while I enjoy being pretty and beautiful, it's not the ONLY thing I am as a fem. I know she doesn't always want to be described in those terms either. She didn't really take it seriously.
This morning, when I finally got my outfit settled, she said I looked like "the smartest woman in the room" and I legit got dewy eyed (that's where I am emotionally today). So I brought up my issue again, and I think it will stick this time.
I think it's good advice generally to open up the narrow confines of "cute" and "pretty" when trying to achieve femininity. Would recommend.
There I was, watching a trashy reality TV show when I spotted men with thick, hairy, juicy thighs and suddenly experiencing the desire nay urge to fuck them. Thighs were always a more femme thing for my bi brain, and now they've made the leap to universal hotness signifiers like big ol butts.
My god, what has happened to me
Skin is surprisingly soft/smooth for a change. Gonna blame the two injections I had on Tuesday.
spoiler
No, I'm not talking about E. Why would I do two shots of that? Could always have just used more in the single injection.
The feeling of seeing myself in the mirror just doesn't get old. I can't believe this is my life
@EstraDoll@hexbear.net we should make this when everyone is at your house for legos
The cissies in my life are absolutely clueless. I can not imagine what they think when they see me. They must think this is just what I look like with long hair and a shaved face. But when I catch a reflection of myself, all I see is my mom.
SA
I keep having dreams where people overpower and grope me, but half the time I can’t tell if my brain intends it to be a horny dream or a nightmare
@EstraDoll@hexbear.net when are all 17 of us getting together for legos today
I decided to spend about 30 minutes reading Homestuck tonight, using the unofficial collection. It has now been several hours and I am 500 pages in. If I had read this in 2009 I would have absolutely become obsessed with it (I saw the sheet music in one of the frames...), wth. Instead I was obsessed with Homestar Runner lol
bit of body and bottom dysphoria, tucking
Concerned about getting tucking panties because I don't really have hips yet, and the circumference of my waist is still several inches larger than my hips.
Could getting women's shapewear help for both? Like would it help with tucking and be able to tone down my stomache?
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