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[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

"WHILE YOU STILL CAN!"

[-] brianary@startrek.website 179 points 2 days ago
[-] Lurkinney@lemmy.world 61 points 2 days ago

Already illegal in Missouri for pregnant women to divorce their spouse

[-] wafflez@lemmy.world 43 points 2 days ago

Actually? That's so disgusting

[-] blanketswithsmallpox@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Not really, but it's more about child custody and child support if already married.

https://www.factcheck.org/2024/03/posts-distort-missouri-divorce-law-regarding-pregnancy/

Nowhere in Missouri law does it say pregnant women are barred from getting divorced.

But a judge handling a case where one party is pregnant may wait to finalize that divorce until the baby is born, which, experts told us, is done in order to consolidate custody and child-support agreements with other end-of-marriage arrangements.

This can happen in other states, too.

[-] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 25 points 2 days ago

Still dangerous because the husband is empowered to make medical decisions in certain cases

[-] StThicket@reddthat.com 14 points 2 days ago

Holy shit. That's some dystopian nightmare

[-] NatakuNox@lemmy.world 71 points 2 days ago

Why would you marry someone that votes to make you a second class citizen?

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 37 points 2 days ago

Some people have been married for longer than republicans have been open fascists.

[-] NatakuNox@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago
[-] aniki@discuss.tchncs.de 14 points 2 days ago

My dad used to listen to NPR but somewhere along the way NPR got replaced with Rush and Drudge. Thankfully he died before our relationship could be ruined by Trump but I know he would have been and I know it would have broken us.

[-] capital@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Thankfully he died before our relationship could be ruined by Trump but I know he would have been and I know it would have broken us.

This is spot on. Mine is still alive (mom too) and Trump made me realize who they really are. It’s not pretty.

[-] lennybird@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

You should watch, "The Brainwashing of my Dad" documentary. Sad reality for so many.

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[-] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

Why would someone vote for themselves to be a second class citizen?

I dunno.

[-] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I always wondered that and I finally met not one, but TWO people who fit this criteria.

The first person was married with kids, and she's afraid to leave because she doesn't know if she's the primary breadwinner, and to divorce would mean she would struggle taking care of two kids by herself. The husband isn't abusive (her comments), but he seems to want her to be a tradwife while also wanting her to work.

The second person shared that she married her high school sweetheart. But she was already questioning things when he spouted Joe Rogan/Jordan Peterson BS, and would flip out at work on male coworkers and put words in our mouths. After a report, I learned about her marriage issues and providing support for the past few months. But all the workplace can do is give her some therapy sessions and hopes she gets the fuck out of her predicament.

[-] Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 43 points 2 days ago

I think Trump is pissed about Taylor Swift, because all his young, Rogan listening, meathead voters are probably being pressured by their Swifty girlfriends into ditching Trump.

[-] pyre@lemmy.world 32 points 2 days ago

unfortunately most of them don't have girlfriends. some of them never did. the party is relying on incels and divorced dads.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

It’s not unfortunate. Girlfriends wouldn’t fix them, but they would do serious damage to girlfriends. They need to get their own shit together before dating

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

Don't forget the old white boomer married men. They lived life on easy mode and simply can't comprehend that the world has changed.

[-] pyre@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

they're not that different. most of them are the "i married young and i hate my wife" type anyway. ~~being maidenless~~ male insecurity and sexual frustrations are the driving force of fascism.

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[-] pfm@scribe.disroot.org 55 points 2 days ago

Why marry a turd in the first place? 🤷

[-] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 82 points 2 days ago

Things happen. Stuff. Reasons.

[-] callouscomic@lemm.ee 63 points 2 days ago

People also change, and someone may over the long haul become something you didn't really expect out of them.

[-] cybersandwich@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

Anyone who knows friends or family that fell down the magat hole understand this

[-] Telorand@reddthat.com 15 points 2 days ago

This.There exists a pipeline from somewhere on the left to the alt right. It is dangerous to think otherwise.

[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

This was my dad. He was always right leaning but then Trump came along and he went die hard political full on Trumpet.

He's one of the smartest people I know and watching him get more involved and more and more angry was terrifying.

[-] hushable@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I personality know two very liberal women who married right wing nutjobs, the first one married a full MAGA, proud boys type militia and election denier guy who she thought she could change him (she couldn't).

The other one thought that political differences didn't matter in a romantic relationship (it did).

Both ended up in divorce.

[-] rustyfish@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

she thought she could change him

Has this ever worked?! Like a single time in the history of our species?

Edit: I asked the High Council for Female Affairs (my girlfriend) about the why and her answer is - summarized: At the beginning of a relationship you see things you like and things you don’t like. Some try to quell the bad things and enhance the good things. The emotionally immature ones believe in “a perfect relationship” and actively try to form their partners instead of looking for someone who has less of those bad qualities. They tend to fail spectacularly.

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago

My stepmom lived in one of the most liberal towns in Massachusetts, running a Montessori program before she and my Fox News watching dad got married. (We never actually talked about politics because they “had an agreement,” but I have to assume she was very liberal- probably not very left though)

She started voting republican after a few years :(

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[-] henfredemars@infosec.pub 35 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I tend to believe people don't really change but they do tend to show their true colors eventually. However, some of us are not a great judge of character.

Life is also complicated and messy.

[-] Rhaedas@fedia.io 36 points 2 days ago

Alternatively, both Republican, and she changed for the better for herself.

[-] Crazyslinkz@lemmy.world 32 points 2 days ago

I disagree. Some people do change. Learn new things, car accidents change your life, cancer changes your life, new job, ...

The only thing constant is change.

[-] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 30 points 2 days ago

Can confirm. I was a hard right conservative during Obama.

Life happens and now I'm an anti-capitalist pro-union progressive.

[-] TSG_Asmodeus@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago

Congratulations on your positive change :)

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[-] cm0002@lemmy.world 40 points 2 days ago

Hm I wonder what the divorce rate is like when broken down along political views

[-] socphoenix@midwest.social 24 points 2 days ago

Depends on whether the study is from places likely to be subject to bias like the “conservative” group institute for family values that claims county level polling shows more democrats get divorced (despite conceding the accuracy of state level polling?), or more normal groups that have shown for a decade plus now that red states have higher divorce rates. Top five are:

  1. Nevada
  2. Oklahoma
  3. Wyoming
  4. Alabama
  5. Arkansas
[-] jettrscga@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago

I don't know what conclusion that would give. That they jump into marriage faster? That they're willing to leave a bad situation?

I don't think low divorce rates necessarily correlates to happier people.

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[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Sorry, I can’t relate to this kink. Not shaming, exactly, but I find divorce lawyers more attractive than this.

e: oh shit, I misread this because of the funky font. Carry on, I approve.

[-] omegabyte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 2 days ago

I'm curious what you read this as?

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

‘Decode’. I came from an article that used that word a lot. Plus my eyes are shit.

[-] Strawberry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago

Wait I'm more confused now how "Sorry, I can’t relate to this kink. Not shaming, exactly, but I find divorce lawyers more attractive than this." responds to "Decode your Republican husband"

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

Trying to decode your republican husband’s ramblings doesn’t seem like a fun hobby, is all.

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[-] Menu@slrpnk.net 18 points 2 days ago

A maga version would be nice.

No sex with magas!

[-] Okokimup@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago

On the contrary, during World War II, French prostitutes would purposely spread venereal disease to nazis. They would also get nazis hooked on heroin.

Unfortunately, MAGAs tend to already have both those issues.

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[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

Not just a concept

[-] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

People change. The old stereotype is that people tend to be very liberal in high school and college but become very conservative with a mortgage and a couple of kids. I don’t know how often that actually plays out but it makes sense.

When you don’t have anything it’s easy to demand a lot of things from the government. When you have money you want to do everything you can to hold onto it and that means not paying taxes. It flips around again when people are super rich though: then they don’t mind paying taxes (because their effective tax rate is very low). It’s the middle class who get screwed the most.

[-] Railing5132@lemmy.world 45 points 2 days ago

My dad, after a discussion in my young adult years turned political: "if you're not a liberal when you're young, you don't have a heart. If you're not conservative when you're an adult, you don't have a brain."

Well, dad, I have made it to adulthood with brilliant children and great relationships with them to boot. I'm still a screaming liberal and you're still a racist that is gargling the balls of a wannabe dictator.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As someone middle class I’d really like a functioning government more than the amount I’m taxed.

Also republicans don’t lower my taxes, they raise them and decrease funding for the poor then go on a rant about divorce needing to be banned

[-] Fatticus@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

Have a mortgage and a kid, more left now than I ever was in my past. While recognizing that not everyone wants those things, my living standard really should be the baseline and I don't mind paying taxes to make it easier for others to achieve it. It does piss me off that most of my taxes go to a military I don't approve of though.

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