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This is embarrassing but I cried when SHillary lost to Trump.

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[-] Angel@hexbear.net 70 points 7 months ago

As a black person who went through a huge internalized racism arc, when I ventured into leftist spaces that said stuff like "Fuck white people.", I got enraged and responded with something along the lines of "As a black person, that's totally fucked up! This is the opposite of what MLK promoted!'.

I got laughed at and called a "bootlicker", all while thinking I was some cool, grandiose, and righteous figure in this context.

Boy, do times change or what!?

[-] kristina@hexbear.net 52 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

i think you mentioned 4chan in another post and god it is so common to find POC trans people on 4chan that have whole ass settler colonies living in their heads. sometimes they reach out to me and even explaining basic trans positive stuff is mindblowing to them. 4chan needs to be fucking banned, its a hazard to all life

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 22 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

4chan needs to be fucking banned

How the fuck has it not happened already? Really feels like there has never actually been any attempt at all, not even an activist push or anything.

[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 21 points 7 months ago

At this point, I just see 4chan as an incubation chamber for white nationalist stochastic terrorists. The feds aren't going to shut down a crucial component of domestic Gladio. From reading Aberration in the Heartland of the Real, someone like Timothy McVeigh perfectly matches the profile of a channer from his involvement in BBS boards to him obsessing over Star Trek to him having incel views to him just being a reactionary in general. It's truly remarkable how he's just a proto-channer.

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 9 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Right sure but does that mean an attempt at banning it shouldn't be made? At this point it's so fundamentally known by literally everyone that such an attempt wouldn't be beneficial to it and further exposure of the system's failure to actually do anything worthwhile to stop fascism, not even the bare minimum.

While such an attempt might fail in the US there are definitely other countries where it might succeed as a result of the attempt.

[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago

Maybe it's just institutional inertia on the part of the feds. 4chan will disappear from the web when it proves to be detrimental to whatever the feds are trying to accomplish. At least, that's my guess anyways.

[-] humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 7 months ago

Fuck white people.

As a white (kinda), I still find it cringe. Could you elaborate why that's not?

[-] blight@hexbear.net 41 points 7 months ago
[-] humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

That's most informative, thanks. Still cringe tho

[-] Spongebobsquarejuche@hexbear.net 26 points 7 months ago

Aah yes. AS a White YOU find it cringe. The answer is its not about YOU.

[-] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 38 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

tldr: We colonised and genocided much of the world, and most of the white people in the world now assume that we're richer because we're smarter, not richer because we stole everything. Throughout modern history, nearly all white progressives and leftists have taken the side of imperialism, because it benefits us materially. There's a handful of based white people in history, but they're few and far between.

long version: read Settlers

Edit: if a member of an oppressed group wants to say "fuck white people", the very least I can do is acknowledge all the crimes heaped upon them by us, and not debate bro them about reverse racism or something.

[-] humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 7 months ago

TBH this sounds almost like internalized racism, but the other way around. We're not our ancestors, but still we need to remember that we're prone to their mistakes.

if a member of an oppressed group wants to say "fuck white people", the very least I can do is acknowledge all the crimes heaped upon them by us, and not debate bro them about reverse racism or something.

Also this looks condescending

[-] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 32 points 7 months ago

Even though I came from a working class family from the West, I still have a fuck of white privilege. Having to hear "fuck white ppl" like 2x a year barely comes close to what non-white people have faced.

TBH this sounds almost like internalized racism

DID COLONIALISM AND GENOCIDE NOT FUCKING HAPPEN?!?!?

Also this looks condescending

Honestly, how would you like it phrased??? Oh please sir, care more about Palestine than your ego.

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[-] Vncredleader@hexbear.net 16 points 7 months ago

Like others said, stop buying into the idea that whiteness is more than a social construct. Idk start thinking of yourself in terms of nationality or ethnicity. That is if nothing else a good starting point for getting over any hangups

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[-] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

this is cringe

[-] anaesidemus@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago

don't be white, white is a racist US census statistic

[-] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago

I agree with the sentiment -- there's no reason to be proud of being white -- but I can't believe "just don't be white!" pops up on here semi-regularly. That's just not an option for a lot of people, because you can't dictate how others perceive you. It's like telling someone who's 6'6" to not be tall.

[-] SpookyGenderCommunist@hexbear.net 15 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Whiteness isn't simply the physical trait of having pale skin, in the way being tall is a physical trait. An entire social scaffolding has been built around the physical quality of pale skin, that denotes the absence of race, the presence of "normalcy", "purity", "superiority", and therefore a place at the top of a racial hierarchy.

But at the same time, whiteness is like the fucking Borg. In the US especially, the concept of whiteness assimilated a ton of different ethnic groups, robbed them of their language and culture, and left gringos like me with no culture to speak of, beyond getting run over by a Ford F250, while on your way to get a Big Mac.

And there's no real way to recover that cultural identity. Like, ok, I have Irish ancestry, but what does that really mean at this point? No one in my family has spoken Gaelic for generations and St Patrick's Day is just a reason for white people to get hammered. And in many ways, that's a horrendous tragedy, and a deep psychic wound in the minds of the settler population on this continent. There's a reason Americans love Genealogy. It's because they have no actual connection to the land they live on, so they scrape for some past, that the whiteness and colonialism which they benefit from, has also robbed from them.

That said, though I'm white, I'm also bi and trans. My queerness ties me to a history and a culture that's much more tangible then what your average straight, mayo, American has. So while I personally like to joke that "my ethnicity is removed", It's incredibly difficult to "not be white" in that socio-cultural sense. Because whiteness is so all consuming. There's no individual way to "stop being white", the only way forward is to abolish whiteness as a category.

Edit: Mods are erasing my ethnicity! I will not be silenced! /s

[-] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 8 points 7 months ago

Agh my family actually succeeded at this supposedly "impossible" task so I legit have a lot of thoughts and opinions about the path towards white dissimilation and abolition and the form it might take, I just cannot find the right way to phrase it without getting misinterpreted aghhhh

[-] SpookyGenderCommunist@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

Well, if you can figure it out. I'd love to hear your thoughts, comrade

[-] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I've written like four drafts or something for an effortpost about this but GOD WILLING if I can work out the kinks I will share it later today (GOD WILLING)

But yeah it's like, "how do we kill whiteness" feels like one of those topics where people here actually do tend to agree on a lot if not most of the basics, but people still just tend to be uncharitable (not maliciously ofc) with how they interpret others, and this causes conflicts to emerge basically out of thin air... I think that's what makes whiteness a thornier issue to write about than it really needs to be, because I feel like I just have to constantly assure readers that yes I have accounted for this-and-that Actually, and no I am not saying such-and-such In Fact — otherwise I get paranoid I'm gonna get anta-baka'd over things that I wasn't actually trying to say, blech

Edit: in fact the problem of misinterpretation I'm describing already happened in this very thread as I was writing this comment, and I hadn't even said anything other than "white dissimilation" and "my family succeeded"

Edit 2: in fact that person wasn't actually trying to misinterpret me but I assumed he was, ironically

[-] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 4 points 7 months ago

I don't think the answer (for white people) to "race is a social construct" should be "go one-drop yourself into an ethnic history you've never experienced and are half making up on the spot." If my great-great-great grandma is from Spain but the last few generations of my family lived in Flyover USA, it'd be pretty weird for me to wake up one day and go around telling everyone I'm Spanish. Weirder still if that ancestor was from Catalonia and I try to say I'm personally affected by the Catalan independence movement.

A better response is to not actively identify with any race or ethnicity and try to do things that address the damage done by those concepts.

[-] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

Holy Hell I haven't even said my piece and I'm already having my beliefs assumed

[-] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 7 points 7 months ago

Wasn't trying to do that; I'm speaking to what I've seen too many white people do.

[-] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 8 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Wait so I was actually assuming your beliefs, then, rather than the reverse... That's a bit ironic, sorry about that.

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[-] anaesidemus@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago

It's still a skin colour, I just don't regard it as a cultural entity, much less a "racial" one

[-] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago

Sure, but if you fit other people's perceptions of a race well enough, they're going to treat you like they treat people of that race regardless of your thoughts on the matter. It's not a choice I can make.

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 7 months ago

Okay I'm pretty sure "just don't be white" is referring to the caste identity. Nobody expects you to stop having bleach skin, I don't think.

I will say though, it is kind of rich reading a white person's complaints about how they can't change people's perception of a race and will always be perceived as white. Like, hmmmm...

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[-] anaesidemus@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago

yes, that is unfortunately correct

[-] CyborgMarx@hexbear.net 16 points 7 months ago

Because it's a disgusting antiquated caste identity with no real cultural content beyond domination and race hatred, so identifying with that nonsense is pretty cringe

Also you know, 500 years of white supremacist violence being constantly inflicted on practically every nation on the planet kinda sends a certain message

[-] homhom9000@hexbear.net 8 points 7 months ago

Thank god this isn't an internalized racism post...I have a few....terrible stories. But a lot of my early reddit days were "As a Black person" comments 🤢

[-] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

I used to get upset at white people for that too. Because a white person saying "fuck {a particular race}" reminded me of them doing it about my race in a post-9/11 world and it was uncomfortable. It actually took more educated white leftists to explain why the power dynamics make "fuck white people" vastly different from their "fuck minorities" stance.

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