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[โ€“] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Does sending this vid to my mom count as coming out of the closet?

I feel like it's gotta count for something ...

[โ€“] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

....

It's marked as read 0_0

But I have yet to receive a response

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Gotta be honest, I think you might have to actually say the words "mom, I am a woman" if you want to come out to her

[โ€“] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 16 hours ago

internalised transphobia

I barely believe those words myself, even though I should. My mom will sniff the lack of confidence from a mile away and never take me seriously.

[โ€“] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Now if I sent this, that'd be too on the nose.

[โ€“] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Given the singer claims they just wrote the song to show off their vocal range, I'm not entirely sure a cis person (or a dense egg) would assume its a coming out thing?

Ime people can vary quite a lot in terms of taking hints. Some might notice from small presentation changes while others you can make some pretty obvious hints on multiple occasions and still get nothing.

[โ€“] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

If a cis male can get this vocal range, then I gotta get on this voice training stuff

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 2 points 11 hours ago

Voice training is awesome, go do it

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Only if she understands Japanese

[โ€“] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 3 points 22 hours ago

Well, they still need to be turned on

[โ€“] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 day ago

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[โ€“] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy: