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People are capable of being annoyed by something but still make peace with their feelings and get on with their day.
Can some people not do this?
Not to mention that their partner is annoyed, but that doesn't mean they suddenly don't love them any more.
People weirdly paint each other as black and white, completely this or completely that, and don't consider maturity and complexity. It's odd.
Usually when someone is contacting someone else while working on making peace with their feelings about that person's behavior, it's because they want to have a discussion with them about it. It's unusual for it to be a one-and-done text without expectation of a response. But if a response is expected, it's then unusual to follow up that text with another concerning a completely different topic. If I were in this situation, I'd find it hard to begin a discussion about her annoyance, which is valid and deserves to be explored, when the current topic is now a winery van.
“Black and white” categorization is something that adhd and asd people struggle with constantly. It may not be a choice.
Yes, there are people that can't do that.
I know someone who received a phone call in the morning to ask if they were actually cool with their husband taking a trip across the country with him. Ruined her whole day. Couldnt go to work because she didnt want to cry in the office. She knew about the vacation and was fine with it. Still not entirely sure how that ruined her day, but it did.
I'm not sure I'm following the source of her negative feelings
Sounds like maybe she isn't either.
The only way I could see it making sense is if the husband was going on a trip with another woman, or he has a history of cheating on her with men.
No, and this comment annoyed me.
Pick your weapon, we meet at dawn.
(/s in case a moderator can't read cues)
Its so easy to spot people who've been banned from reddit one too many times
Yeah, I blocked several politically inclined communities here, just because it's bad for my "health".