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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't mean to invalidate you but are you sure this is what you want? There are so many other things that go into identity than just gender

I find this type of comment kind of bizarre. Like okay, yes there are lots of things that make up a person. But I'm not confusing my love of old games for being a woman? Like- what things could even conceivably be mistaken for wanting to be another gender/change your body like this?

[–] RION@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The way I rationalized it with my own brainworms was that I was looking for something to pin all my issues onto and being trans was just a convenient, en vogue excuse. Which doesn't make much sense when you realize how not easy it is...

Given how positively trans people talk about certain parts of their experiences, it makes sense imo that someone could hypothetically see that and be jealous. For some people, a lot of their stress is caused by dysphoria and alleviating that makes a world of difference. Can't imagine someone making that mistake anyways though. Just yesterday, I heard someone in a stream saying that they'd be crashing out if they started growing boobs suddenly. I don't think being depressed would suddenly make someone like that somehow think they'd want to transition.

For me, I wasn't sure exactly what I wanted when I talked to my brother about maybe being trans. Given how much doubt I still had, I appreciated a bit of pushback (but only because it was from the perspective of him being excited, hoping to be proven wrong, not transphobia and trying to convince me I wasn't trans). Its infuriating when you aren't just questioning and someone close to you asks if you've considered the most obvious things as if that might chance your mind...