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[โ€“] Octagonprime@hexbear.net 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Shout-out to the people who encouraged me when I posted in the trans megathread when my egg was cracking like 7-8 months ago. 6 months on hrt now and Im so much happier :D

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

oh hey look it's where i was like 8-9 months ago. the E is great, isn't it?

[โ€“] Octagonprime@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Also I remember you saying to me before that my post could have been from you 7 months earlier,since you are clearly my future self you should tell me what I have in store the next 7 months, and maybe the winning lottery numbers

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

uhhhhhh... this is the bit of your life when you realize that although transitioning was an immense step in self improvement, there's still a lot wrong with you internally and you still have a lot to work on. You get angry and frustrated by this until you start "talking with" ancient gods in a rhetorical sense until it stops getting rhetorical and starts getting literal. you'll then have a moment with what feels like talking to someone/thing supernatural and dive head first into some obscure quasi religious practice

you'll also come out at work, which you'll be going into expecting one hell of a fight but being pleasantly surprised with how relatively easy it was. customers will still misgender you regularly for an unfortunately long time, despite your best efforts

[โ€“] Octagonprime@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Yeah that all sounds like a possibility. I was going to say thankfully I work without actual coworkers and not in customer service anymore but unfortunately I probably am picking up a second job at some point to be able to save up . Haven't had interactions with spiritual entities since my psychadelic days but you never know

[โ€“] Octagonprime@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

It's amazing my brain just works better and my skin is so soft and my titties are starting to exist , no complaints here

[โ€“] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

How could you get on HRT so quickly?

[โ€“] Octagonprime@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

The other reply got it. Basically went to PP told them I'm trans and got hormones the same day. One time I actually felt lucky to be in the great Satan

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

If she's in the US, there are states where you can just go to planned parenthood, say you're feeling gender dysphoria and want hormones, and they'll prescribe them for you.*

*May no longer be true with the damage the Trump admin is doing to trans healthcare.

Here in the Netherlands you have to wait on year long waiting lists or start doing DIY HRT.

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Damn, wtf? I have to get 1 (one) whole year with a fucking endocrinologist to get a prescription

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Where I lived it went, intake, two weeks later hormones. My experience was unusual and most are around a year like you.

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think it's okay to ask for psychologic treatment for a year, it's something I'd just do anyway, but what is an endocrinologist going to do for a whole ass year? It's weird and makes no sense

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I think it's okay to ask for psychologic treatment for a year

Nah, fuck the cis, if they want to purposely go through the wrong puberty I don't give a shit. Anything slowing trans people from getting their meds sucks.

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 3 points 22 hours ago

Well, I guess you're right. It takes a while to be irreversible anyways soooooo, just get that at the same time?