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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I wouldn't actually wear a suit, I'd get really high waisted trousers, worn at the real waist (the narrowest of part of the torso above hips), and then wear a sports jacket in a different colour.

This gives a more feminine figure, shoulder pads in a jacket are cool too, because it obscures broader shoulders (makes it look the jacket not you).

Sports jackets often have a larger range of colour, I have a pink linen one that looks amazing, but something a light blue etc could look amazing. Just not white to a wedding.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Oh yeah jackets are great too because you can get a Boutonniere (flower through the button hole) or wear a pin with pride flag or pronouns etc.

[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

These suggestions are very helpful, I'm gonna start by finding a shirt I like. I have jackets and maybe trousers that I can work with. Thank you!!

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 5 days ago

No worries. I hope it works well!