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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Idk at what point I'm allowed to start feeling awkward but asked friend for help and have been left on read for 3 hours. Feels like an easy thing to help me with out of all transition stuff idk...

edit: well, I guess not a hard no, she said it depends and she wants to talk next time we hang out. Supposedly Saturday. Guessing she won't be thrilled about diy (didn't explain much for opsec). fml etc etc

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

CW self doubt and dental traumaSo I have a new friend (different to the one who likes my fashion), a day or so after I came out to her, I saw her in the morning at a social thing and she left quickly barely saying anything to me and seemed in a bad mood. I wondered if it was about me all day.

The next day she told me that she had been to the dentist who had broken a tool off in her mouth and couldn't retrieve it and she had been on her way to another dental specialist who was going to remove the piece for like a thousand dollars.

It's been a real lesson to me that sometimes people have stuff going on and they're not just upset with me.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

having to beg my friend to help me get medication that will hopefully make life bearable

fuck my stupid life, would only happen to us.

Its okay, might be good news! Hopefully she'll be okay with estrogen, maybe she'd feel skeeved out its like... different drugs lol. Or maybe she wants to be reassured you'll be safe, which you can be! You'll get blood tests~