Yes, nobody with autism has a reference point for not being autistic while nobody who isn't autistic has a reference point for being autistic, discerning between struggles you encounter because of autism, as opposed to other factors, is practically impossible IMO, and you can really only make flawed comparisons between your own outcomes and the outcomes of someone without autism. If you look at employment/education outcomes for Australia's autistic populous you can see indication that having autism negatively impacts them.
Anyone who says autism isn't a disability is harming the view towards autistic people and consequently the care they receive, but if an autistic person doesn't want to identify as disabled bc of their support needs then that's fine ig.
no "thank you for your attention to this matter"... Trump may be dead.