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[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 4 points 17 hours ago

Yep. You can get various supliments but im pretty sure they are not vegan either...

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lost my wife of 15 (together 20) years a year ago tomorrow.

Dont hide from the grief. Grieving is a natural process. Cry for an hour or two every few days. Be sad about it. Remember the good parts and bad parts.

The human mind is fucked up. None of your memories are real. Traumatic memories that stay repressed stay traumatic. It is only through remembering those memories from a safe place that you start to quantify them and feel safe around them. Your worst memory is actually just a memory of the last time you remembered it. So remembering it in the safety of your own home while eating your favorite food and listening to your favorite song will over time slowly dull the pain of that memory.

Same for grief. You want to grieve. You need to grieve. But do it from safety and security and over time the pain will lessen.

This is why talking to a therapist is useful because they create a safe place to remember in. But also remember that everyone is different and not everything works the same for everyone. You have to find your own path, be it personal, therapy or counseling or group meeting etc.

Personally I could not do counseling or group counseling. It made me irrationally angry to hear someone try to talk me through it and it made me sad and upset to listen to other people's grief. So I did my own thing.

Good luck! The great healer is time but only if you let it.

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago

And yet you still end up with your photo in a meme.

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago

Needs the vietnam ptsd photo over layed lol

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

That's like when a snake sizes you to to see if you'll fit. Nope that bird is ready to go if ghat kid gets closer...

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

Brings back memories. My group had a whole set of weighted dice the dm had. The group could vote on who and when they got used but each dice could only be used once per session.

Good times.

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Valid. In this economy I cant afford most of this bs virtue signaling.

I get it they are bad... So is every other fucking chain and last I checked the mom and pops died out already.

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Its laying on its back with no stand kind of at an angle across the 90 transition of the chair.

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

Yea, that's the joke I guess...

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

Photocopy the paper and and it out with full sized bars.

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 18 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

Mimes dont talk. Pleading the 5th is invoking your right to remain silent. But he's speaking it instead of miming in which would have taken ten more panels but been much better.

Also for more context cops in the USA arrest people unjustly.

[–] Master@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

You seem to be getting as equally pissed over the other side of the same non issue.

Its good to treat people well and how you want to be treated. Just make sure its wanted on their end.

 

Is there any way to get the app to display the date and time something was posted instead of the trimmed down 4hrs or 10 days. I know its to save space but I kind of hate it. Id rather know the date timestamp.

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