If you sleep 10 hour each night and still feel tired, it’s time to visit a doctor before you end up in the forever box.
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I know this is part of normal aging for a woman in her 30s
Is it?? I’m not saying you don’t lose energy as you age, but what you’re describing sounds closer to a medical problem than the norm. If you’ve had conversations with your doctor and had bloodwork done then it might be normal for you, but if you haven’t checked for vitamin deficiencies you might want to. I felt similarly shit when my vitamin D was through the floor.
You need to talk to a doctor
It only get worse so enjoy today, it's the best you will ever feel for the rest of your life.
This reads like undiagnosed sleep apnea to me. You should really talk to your doctor about getting a sleep study done. You don't need to be overweight or anything to be affected by sleep apnea and it can get worse as one gets older. I hope it's nothing too serious/just some fatigue!
I don't even snore. My boyfriend's watched me sleep.
You don’t have to snore to have it.
Damn I hope I do t get there😮💨 I do 1 cup a day max, usually don’t even finish it.
Ever heard of long covid or MECFS?
Not saying it will definitely help, but if you're not even feeling it the caffeine dependency might actually be making you feel worse rather than better
I'm 43 and I'd say that there is definitely not normal. You might want to go see a doctor.
It sounds like you built up a tolerance and would benefit from quitting caffeine altogether. The first week or so will be a groggy hell, but once you adjust, your baseline will be much more alert.
This is far from normal… 10hrs sleep + naps? I saw your answers about having blood tests done and coming back good. Is there something psychological going on? Heart problems? Hormones? (I don’t need you to confirm or deny, just consider it)
No, and my hormones were tested too including estrogen, thyroid, etc. all are normal!
You may wanna consider submitting to an actual sleep study.
If you sleep 10 hours a night and still wake up feeling fatigued you're probably not getting the quality of sleep you think you are. It's possible to have sleep apnea or other issues without even knowing it, and the only way to find out is by doing a sleep study.
I get very good sleep! All my tests are normal, my boyfriend has watched me sleep too. I don't even snore. My brain's just getting a little bit unfresh lol
You can have sleep apnea without snoring.
"Its just a flesh wound!"
Autoimmune diseases don't have specific tests, they're diagnosed only from exhibiting symptoms. There's other conditions that won't show up in blood tests either.
Sounds like caffeine addiction
My daytime fatigue is so severe I’ve been mistaken for being drunk (even though I don’t drink), and I experience a dream like brain fog around friends unless I use caffeine pills to seem present.
As an older woman, this is not normal. Please see a doctor!!
I have an autoimmune disease that comes with chronic fatigue. I understand the struggles. This is far beyond normal.
It's normal. I've had every blood and hormone test under the sun and they've come back normal. Seen lots of doctors including female ones. I'm not going to waste their time any further it's just one of those things you have to get on with as an older woman I'm not in my prime anymore.
Being sleepy to the point of acting drunk is not a normal older woman thing. It simply isn't. I'm sorry.
Also jesus christ. Early 30s IS your prime. Or at least not so far from your prime that you should be resigned to feeling this way forever.
These replies have to be a rage bait thread! Surely!!
I'm male, but haven't heard of this level of fatigue from my female friends / wife. It does sound like having a young child though (minus the part about getting >8h sleep).
Normal or not, sounds terrible, hope it improves!
My partner and I are in our 30s and this post describes how we feel during a break after a long adderall binge, or a couple days after we roll together. This is very much not a normal part of aging! We sleep 6-8 hours per night and unless we’re coming off’a a couple weeks of adderall or the like, that’s good for the day without being destroyed.
What are your consumption habits, i.e. when are you drinking your caffeine? The bioactive halflife of caffeine is about 6-8 hours, so it's in your system affecting your mind and body long after the caffeine buzz goes away. My personal rule of thumb is all the caffeine I want before noon, but a hard cutoff at 1pm
I take my caffeine pills about an hour before I'm due to go out. Outings can be 8ish hours, but even when the caffeine is at peak amounts an hour after I take them they don't make me feel buzzed or hyper, just sort of close to normal. And this is at 400 mg.
If you're taking 400mg at noon, you'll have 200mg in your system at 6pm, and 100mg at midnight. 100mg+ in my system by bedtime will negatively and noticeably affect my sleep in those situations. You could be exhausted due to the time you're consuming caffeine
If you know anyone with a sensitive nose, ask them if the place you live in smells musty or moldy. I've had family members go through similar issues also without any help from the medical system and mold was a major contributing factor. You and anyone else who lives with you will be nose blind to it and won't be able smell it without spending a week or so elsewhere.
Recently had my wife do a sleep study. We're vacillating between getting her into a CPAP machine and doing a weight loss program to help with the sleep apnea. She's just the same, constantly at a lower level of energy and life quality, it has limited her in a lot of ways in recent years.
Ehhh just microdose meth /s
What do you think Adderall is? Lol