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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 3 weeks ago

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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 15 points 4 weeks ago (5 children)

I am now a skirts girl. Pants are for work.

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

presenting fem at work, everyone’s using my name, trying ritalin for my brain, gf called me gorgeous crush everything’s coming up [redacted]

[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

It's okay you can say Milhouse here

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

wait not everything, my computer just fucking died, what do yall know about the DRAM light on the motherboard lighting up and no image showing on the monitor

also the ritalin isn’t covered by insurance so i’m paying around a vial of estrogen for a month’s supply

[–] transbyanism@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

sex, rant, TMIOut of the blue so apologies I suppose, I'm a bit of a prude regarding this but whatever.. I just suck at fucking. I have a cis long term girlfriend and well she has her own sex issues like a lot of them but I also am just plainly bad. I cant finger her cause it hurts her, only very rarely it feels pleasurable. It took like 3 years of actively trying to have sex before I managed to make her cum using my fingers last month (it was the first time she didnt get off herself). I am not on HRT cause I live in fuckass reactionary hellhole that would murder me for it and exclude me legally and I dont mind PIV, so we have done it a few times, and each time it felt good for her but overwhelming and in the end painful to the point she didnt want to do penetrative whatsoever anymore so we havent. Because of other outside circumstances we barely have been having sex at all and it just sucks feels like any progress we did is just undoing/gone. It just seems so easy for everyone else while for me it's always been shit. I'm always paranoid of hurting her and feel like a bad person. And that I should do better. I dont have anyone to talk to about this, other than her cause we are very good at communication, that's not an issue. She also has chronic pain and is potentially disabled so that might factor in, though most of this was before the onset of the worse stuff. Idk it's just so bad to the point it's eating at me cause I should be able to fuck cause we both enjoy it but then somehow we/I fuck up and it hurts or etc. I cant give head cause well at one point shes oversensitive and it begins hurting her, penetration hurts her too much, or I hurt her legs if I keep them up. It's so tiresome we stopped actively having sex and are regressing I think, cause we both have trauma before we met eachother. We both also have problems expressing desire, her even moreso than me; so even if she wants me physically she never says it and I want her to say it but she has a lot of religious trauma and etc. Sorry this was too big of a rant, just had to get this off my chest :/ I hate feeling so incompetent. I think we both need couples sex therapy and proper resources for prep but we're too poor to go to therapy anyways

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[–] Dispossessed@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I ordered some "aspirational dresses" thinking in a few years of hormones I'd look good in them and wear them out. Well, chat, I'm delighted to say they fit, i looked gorgeous and I went out in one last night and felt like a queen.

Some old boomer passers-by looked at me and my girlfriend like they wanted to kill us but I'm getting pretty used to that by now. And they were outweighed by all the smiles of queer recognition. I guess I wear beautiful dresses now.

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago

Hell yessss, welcome to the world of being a hot girl pissing off old cissies

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Gotta say, Im still really digging having a vagina! Its great every day. I still grin like an idiot when I see it and look at it.

I am glad that FINALLY I'm on the part of the recovery schedule where dilating is once a day and slowly I can decrease that (or just have someone else to dilate for me so to speak lol).

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[–] transbyanism@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Today I didn't do anything at work so I got paid for reading yuri and theory :3

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Still getting a little misty eyed looking at my diploma with my name on it even a few days after graduation

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Today ended up being pretty good. Bit vaguely sad/emotional but it's over some bullshit not depression.

One week until vacation. Just have to lock it in for one week.

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[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

two years on estrogen today bridget-vibe

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago

Watched the first 3 episodes of digital circus last night, really hoping to watch more tonight. It was really good so far, I feel like it's building and I'm excited.

I'm also just really, really fucking tired today.

[–] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

that's it i'm gonna start misgendering cis "people" whenever they "sir" me

[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Said goodbye to the cool intern girl I met recently at work and nervously asked if she wanted to hang out or keep in touch and turned out she was already thinking about asking me!! But she said "Oh I was talking with my girlfriend about this cool guy I met at work and she said we should just swap numbers" which did not feel good... And before this I'd handed her my number which had my new/real name written on it... Maybe she was just keeping with the kayfabe I've established?

[–] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Okay I think she legit did not put it together because she swung by my office right before leaving and asked if the name I wrote was mine and I said yes, then she asked pronouns and I said she/her, and then she was sooooo sorry it was really sweet. Seriously this girl was beside herself, I tried to let her know it's okay but idk if it sunk in. Hope that doesn't stop her from reaching out because I'd love to get to know her better

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

they sent me lewd pics chat 😳

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gf keeps commenting on how cute she finds my giggle and honestly it drives me a little wild i love her so much crush

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

My dad finally found an issue with my gf and it's about her not speaking spanish and more importantly why haven't I taught her after 5 months catgirl-cry

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[–] sictransitgloria@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago

for the first time in my life I feel desirable & confident which is pretty epic but also im in a mono relationship and i keep crushing on my beautiful gorgeous wonderful friends ohnoooo

[–] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago

Talked about my undercarriage stuff in therapy. Caught myself on the verge of tears saying "my body feels wrong" and now I'm kinda pissed I don't wanna have bottom dysphoria!!!!!

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Soon it'll be 100 years on HRT!

Congrats on your milestone

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago

Finished season 1 of severance, love the show btw, and started watching what I thought was season 2 episode one. Watched like 5 minutes and thought, huh, this really does not seem to mesh with what just happened. Where is the answer to the cliffhanger?

I was watching episode like 7. Whoops.

Aww, were flattered bridget-smug we of course fully deserve it, naturally witch-smug

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

Not me listening to asmr of a girl calling me a pretty girl to help me sleep

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[–] transbyanism@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

hello fellows transes new person here:3 yay, i wrote an intro.post you can see on my profile if you wanna see dunno if its anything worth reading

hope everyones having a nice day, mine isnt and everything overwhelming lol

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[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

Finally watching Dunmeshi, super good we love a beautiful pathetic lesbian

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Last day at the old job! And hopefully:

  • last day hiding my chest at work
  • last day going by a guy's name at work
  • last day having to act like a guy at work

But first a little relaxation time!!!!!

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

i believe with my whole heart that every high level FIFA official should be executed

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

venting a bit just general misfortune and negativity oblique mention of misogyny


my ex came over to see my parents cause they are still friends (we are friends too, in theory, but we don't really talk much anymore). i am living with my parents currently because i had to give up my independence to escape abuse and nobody is getting housed in my city let alone disabled trans women. they retold a misogynistic joke they heard and thought was hilarious. of course my dad thought it was a riot my mam kinda made a face but didn't really speak up. i called them out on it and they went defensive and weaselly, saying the the joke could have been made about any gender and that it was just "absurd" humour. just call me a crazy bitch why don't you fucking asshole. i just said defend it however you want and left. so i'm sat in my boiling attic room while they have dinner with my parents. i fucking hate liberals and i hate it here

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I cut my own hair super cute and my mom didn't like it lol. My dad screamed at the walls like I had cut someone else's hair without their permission. I'm just happy I made them mad, though. I love being myself despite what they want or think about

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

Found out that I can just go to a pharmacy and buy estradiol enantate/dihydroxyprogesterone acetophenide(synthetic progestogen) that's sold as an injectable birth control and is widely used by trans woman, apparently without side-effects and is sold at like 10mg of Een per dose, so I could maybe just do half a dose every 10 days (idk how the fuck this comes packaged, might have to do 10mg every 14 days or something). This thing is super cheap, like 2 dollars per dose and is easy to find. Maybe I'll go for it I guess.

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

I don't wanna be hyper femme. It's OK!

sees this image

Now I know I was just coping before boohoo

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm quite tempted to start doing a lot more physical stuff once I move for my masters, but in typical princess fashion I want to do classical dance lessons and swordfighting like a weirdo instead of anything useful. I will become a princess-knight with all the proper training.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

5 months in and shit still feels magical, date night we watched a movie called past lives about the what could have beens and yeah I get it. I had a lot of thoughts of what didn't work or what could have happened if I tried but after talking about whale penis and laughing at cuckholdry well I thank Marx we found each other 😊

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago

oki i finally got into wh40k mood and am playing Rogue Trader.

Why is it that every Owlcat gayme has a 10h prologue that makes me bounce off five times before I finally crack through and get obsessed with the game? anyways I'm iconoclasting all over the place, shooting dogmatists and heretics in the face and trying to woo Yrliet, the love of my life, who thinks I'm a disgusting mon'keigh so it's definitely going to happen! lea-blush

the melta gun sound effects and visuals are top tier marx-ok

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago

My bikini arrived, I'm gonna try swimming in the ocean this weekend doggirl-grin

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (5 children)

I made a joke to one of my friends about calling me a [f slur] and he responded with something along the lines of, well, we actually don't know your sexuality, so we don't know if that's even a word for you. Like people clearly call trans women f slurs either way?

Look at him not assuming my sexuality though, I have wondered several times what the people who hadn't asked thought it was. Tbf to all of them I've never dated or even really expressed interest in dating.

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

call trans women f slurs

Francegender.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] PraiseCorn@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago

dysphoria/transphobic familyIf I had the ability to grow big naturals, I would. But I cant because my mom would crucify me if I had fat boobs or boobs of any sort. I used to be all lol im so content with no tiddies but im like holy shit I need titties pls God teleport me some tiddies amen doggirl-cry

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Non binary time traveller with they/then pronouns

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